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Santa Barbara murders

12,076 277 May 26, 2014 at 05:56 AM
Hundreds gathered at a memorial service Sunday night to mourn six young people killed two nights earlier by a gunman in a California college town.


Elliot Rodger, 22, the son of a Hollywood director, fatally stabbed three people in his apartment before shooting dead three others on Friday in Isla Vista, near the University of California at Santa Barbara campus. He then shot himself.
Rodger killed two women and four men, aged 19 to 22, and wounded 13 people, including eight who he shot as he sped through town in his black BMW, exchanging fire with police, authorities said.
Minutes before opening fire the former community college student emailed his plans to some 30 people including his mother, father and former teachers, said Cathleen Bloeser, whose son was a childhood friend of Rodger and received a copy.
Rodger stated his intention to kill his housemates, lure others to his home to continue the mayhem then slaughter women in a sorority and bring his spree to the streets of Isla Vista.
The manifesto, which details Rodger's fear that his guns might have been discovered when police visited him less than a month ago, was not the first indication of a troubled mind.

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Am I the only one who sees the results of raising a self-esteem based "everyone gets a trophy" generation here? When everyone gets a trophy and every child is constantly told that they are special and everything they do is amazing, they never learn how to deal with rejection and failure. Failure is part of life and shielding children from it to preserve their self esteem is like smothering your child in antibiotics their whole life to protect them from getting sick and then wondering why they have no immune system when they grow up. If a child never learns how to cope with losing and being wrong, when they reach adulthood they don't have the mental faculties to deal with the failure they will invariably encounter in their adult lives. The guy who shot those innocent people in Santa Barbara claims that it was revenge for being rejected by the girls and the popular kids at his college. I was rejected by girls and popular kids my entire life and shooting a bunch of people never entered my mind. Maybe instead of giving our kids a trophy when they lose, we should teach them that losing is a part of life and give them the tools that they need to cope with failure, learn from it, and then get on with their lives.

Just a thought.



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05-26-2014 at 06:09 AM.
05-26-2014 at 06:09 AM.
his 137 page manifesto can be found here [documentcloud.org].

--update: new link as the other appears to be deleted. PDF format [scribd.com]. or for those who don't trust me, here [mirror.co.uk] is an article containing the link that I posted.
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05-26-2014 at 06:17 AM.
05-26-2014 at 06:17 AM.
Why are people so crazy? Frown

I had a bad night last night and I didn't shoot the lounge up. Facepalm
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05-26-2014 at 06:19 AM.
05-26-2014 at 06:19 AM.
Quote from cupcake42 :
Why are people so crazy? Frown

I had a bad night last night and I did shoot the lounge up. Facepalm
it's your fault, according to the gunman anyhow.

Quote from Elliot Rodger :
Why do things have to be this way? I ask all of you. All I ever wanted was to love women, and in turn to be loved by them back. Their behavior towards me has only earned my hatred, and rightfully so! I am the true victim in all of this. I am the good guy. Humanity struck at me first by condemning me to experience so much suffering. I didn't ask for this. I didn't want this. I didn't start this war… I wasn't the one who struck first… But I will finish it by striking back. I will punish everyone. And it will be beautiful. Finally, at long last, I can show the world my true worth.
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05-26-2014 at 06:26 AM.
05-26-2014 at 06:26 AM.
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it's your fault, according to the gunman anyhow.
You turned me down last night and I didn't hurt anyone. Nono2

People shouldn't rely on others to define who they are and their self worth.
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05-26-2014 at 06:27 AM.
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I turned down no one Nono1
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05-26-2014 at 07:25 AM.
05-26-2014 at 07:25 AM.
Quote from dalokgawd :
Am I the only one who sees the results of raising a self-esteem based "everyone gets a trophy" generation here? When everyone gets a trophy and every child is constantly told that they are special and everything they do is amazing, they ne[/FONT][/COLOR][COLOR=#37404E][FONT=Helvetica]ver learn how to deal with rejection and failure. Failure is part of life and shielding children from it to preserve their self esteem is like smothering your child in antibiotics their whole life to protect them from getting sick and then wondering why they have no immune system when they grow up. If a child never learns how to cope with losing and being wrong, when they reach adulthood they don't have the mental faculties to deal with the failure they will invariably encounter in their adult lives. The guy who shot those innocent people in Santa Barbara claims that it was revenge for being rejected by the girls and the popular kids at his college. I was rejected by girls and popular kids my entire life and shooting a bunch of people never entered my mind. Maybe instead of giving our kids a trophy when they lose, we should teach them that losing is a part of life and give them the tools that they need to cope with failure, learn from it, and then get on with their lives.

Just a thought.
Here is where I state the obvious about how today's prevailing liberal mentality that is being spoon-fed to our youth in public schools indoctrination centers is destroying out country and you roll your eyes and tell me that not everything has to do with politics.
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05-26-2014 at 07:44 AM.
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I also like how guns, gun rights, and the NRA are being blamed for this.

Stabs three to death, runs over one, shoots three more to death... And gun laws are to blame. In California.

Sigh. Dude should have been 5051'd, and this wouldn't have happened.
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05-26-2014 at 07:52 AM.
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Quote from Iaaaiws :
Here is where I state the obvious about how today's prevailing liberal mentality that is being spoon-fed to our youth in public schools indoctrination centers is destroying out country and you roll your eyes and tell me that not everything has to do with politics.
It must be really nice to live in a world where you can blame all of the problems in the world on one group and then constantly feed off your own hate.
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05-26-2014 at 08:02 AM.
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Why are people so crazy? Frown

I had a bad night last night and I did shoot the lounge up. Facepalm
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You turned me down last night and I didn't hurt anyone. Nono2

People shouldn't rely on others to define who they are and their self worth.
make up your mind already

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I also like how guns, gun rights, and the NRA are being blamed for this.

Stabs three to death, runs over one, shoots three more to death... And gun laws are to blame. In California.

Sigh. Dude should have been 5051'd, and this wouldn't have happened.
i think you mean 51-50

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Here is where I state the obvious about how today's prevailing liberal mentality that is being spoon-fed to our youth in public schools indoctrination centers is destroying out country and you roll your eyes and tell me that not everything has to do with politics.
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05-26-2014 at 08:06 AM.
05-26-2014 at 08:06 AM.
Quote from Iaaaiws :
Here is where I state the obvious about how today's prevailing liberal mentality that is being spoon-fed to our youth in public schools indoctrination centers is destroying out country and you roll your eyes and tell me that not everything has to do with politics.
Quote from PaintTheSkyGrey :
I also like how guns, gun rights, and the NRA are being blamed for this.

Stabs three to death, runs over one, shoots three more to death... And gun laws are to blame. In California.

Sigh. Dude should have been 5051'd, and this wouldn't have happened.
Quote from cav :
it's your fault, according to the gunman anyhow.
all he wanted to do was love women but it you let the gays have their way then he could have loved men....


ITS ALL YOUR GUYS" FAULT
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05-26-2014 at 08:15 AM.
05-26-2014 at 08:15 AM.
oh and lets not forget video games:

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But by the time they arrived, officers confirmed their son had gone on a deadly rampage. Elliot Rodger played the video game "World of Warcraft," but the family never suspected he would have guns, said Astaire, who was speaking on behalf of the family.
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05-26-2014 at 08:17 AM.
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i think you mean 51-50
Whoops, yes. 5150.
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05-26-2014 at 08:35 AM.
05-26-2014 at 08:35 AM.
5150 was a good album.

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05-26-2014 at 08:40 AM.
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#YesAllWomen
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