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298 54 December 5, 2018 at 06:51 AM
I am NOT asking for money for my campaign. I am asking for brainstorming on how to get this going to help me get my family back on its feet.

I was the victim of a home burglary on Thanksgiving Day. I don't have Renter's Insurance (don't want to go into the reason why here) and lost pretty much everything. My GoFundMe to help my family get back on its feet hasn't really gotten anywhere. I am looking for advice on what to do to help it get out and spread and maybe find people that are willing to donate to the cause.

I have a former Playboy Playmate (from 1969) that opened the GoFundMe for my family. She has posted it on her Facebook fan page.

The campaign lists what happened, a list of some of the things that were taken and videos from the security system that were directly uploaded to the Internet that were completed before the network router was taken down. It has a list of things that needs to be replaced and an estimated cost. It goes into the background of each of us and what we have done for the community. There is a link to a "newsboard" type site where the issue is openly discussed and even mentions someone needs to do a GoFundMe but nobody did anything. The campaign states that there were other funds donated through another organization but that paid for the replacement of passports and a few other things not listed that are not part of this campaign.

There are photos of the police report with redacted sections of the full address, a couple of last names and signatures. I don't want people to know our full address nor the last name of a friend that helped us. Signatures were blocked out for obvious reasons.

Can you think of anything else that might be tried to help us?
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12-05-2018 at 08:11 AM.
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12-05-2018 at 08:13 AM.
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I would use my energy to commit to firearms training. Also, commit your support to the families of fallen police officers and soldiers.
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12-05-2018 at 08:56 AM.
12-05-2018 at 08:56 AM.
Sorry to hear about what happened. I can't suggest anything as I'd only recommend on concentrating efforts outside of gofundme.
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12-05-2018 at 09:18 AM.
12-05-2018 at 09:18 AM.
Quote from germanpope :
I would use my energy to commit to firearms training. Also, commit your support to the families of fallen police officers and soldiers.
because that would prevent his home from being robbed while they were out. sound logic.
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12-05-2018 at 09:31 AM.
12-05-2018 at 09:31 AM.
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because that would prevent his home from being robbed while they were out. sound logic.
Their home was invaded. This creates terror even if you were gone.

I personally am ready in case they come in when I am at home.

Proper training gives you the confidence to eliminate threats. Once a person enters my home, I am trained to assess the threat to our lives.

I will take care of the problem. You can be sure of that.
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12-05-2018 at 10:24 AM.
12-05-2018 at 10:24 AM.
Why didn't you have renters insurance?
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12-05-2018 at 10:26 AM.
12-05-2018 at 10:26 AM.
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Why didn't you have renters insurance?
They spent the money on security cameras instead.
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emelvee
12-05-2018 at 10:27 AM.
12-05-2018 at 10:27 AM.
Any advice will require photos of the Playboy Playmate (from 1969 or shortly after, not today, thanks).
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12-05-2018 at 10:28 AM.
12-05-2018 at 10:28 AM.
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They spent the money on security cameras instead.
Little good that did.
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12-05-2018 at 10:31 AM.
12-05-2018 at 10:31 AM.
Quote from flyboynm :
I am NOT asking for money for my campaign. I am asking for brainstorming on how to get this going to help me get my family back on its feet.

I was the victim of a home burglary on Thanksgiving Day. I don't have Renter's Insurance (don't want to go into the reason why here) and lost pretty much everything. My GoFundMe to help my family get back on its feet hasn't really gotten anywhere. I am looking for advice on what to do to help it get out and spread and maybe find people that are willing to donate to the cause.

I have a former Playboy Playmate (from 1969) that opened the GoFundMe for my family. She has posted it on her Facebook fan page.

The campaign lists what happened, a list of some of the things that were taken and videos from the security system that were directly uploaded to the Internet that were completed before the network router was taken down. It has a list of things that needs to be replaced and an estimated cost. It goes into the background of each of us and what we have done for the community. There is a link to a "newsboard" type site where the issue is openly discussed and even mentions someone needs to do a GoFundMe but nobody did anything. The campaign states that there were other funds donated through another organization but that paid for the replacement of passports and a few other things not listed that are not part of this campaign.

There are photos of the police report with redacted sections of the full address, a couple of last names and signatures. I don't want people to know our full address nor the last name of a friend that helped us. Signatures were blocked out for obvious reasons.

Can you think of anything else that might be tried to help us?
QPLR

OP, unless you're a cute little child dying of some horrible disease, you're unlikely to get much money from Go Fund Me. And also, passports, you want people to pay to replace your passports? Seriously?

And finally, what's with the culture of shared responsibility? You obviously have money for IP cameras that aren't cheap, but you don't have money for renters insurance and/or to replace your passport? It sucks what happened to you, I agree, but why should your friends or a bunch of strangers online help you rebuild your personal wealth? What's next, you under-insured your car and need money to repair it? Shit, I want a Ferrari, maybe I should start a gofundme? If I get $1 from 500k people, I can get the sports car! You know what else, my house is too small, can I have $10M to buy a mansion?

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12-05-2018 at 10:31 AM.
12-05-2018 at 10:31 AM.
Quote from emelvee :
Any advice will require photos of the Playboy Playmate (from 1969 or shortly after, not today, thanks).
Come on, even today she's younger than you!
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12-05-2018 at 10:48 AM.
12-05-2018 at 10:48 AM.
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Come one, even today she's younger than you!
Come one, come all.
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12-05-2018 at 10:48 AM.
12-05-2018 at 10:48 AM.
1969 = full bush
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12-05-2018 at 11:02 AM.
12-05-2018 at 11:02 AM.
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Come one, come all.
Roll


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I have no idea what you're talking about Huh
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