Relationship Help

Quote from teenbean : This makes soo much more sense now. Neither of you are experienced in dating. Do you both go to the same college?

No, but 20 minutes away (campuses)

Quote from Bareborn : Then why the fark are you on a dating site? Get out there and meet girls!

I'm shy too -.-

Quote from Bareborn : Then why the fark are you on a dating site? Get out there and meet girls!

That's what I was thinking .

Quote from Squilly : I'm shy too -.-

Perfect time for you to come out of your shell! Get out and have fun!

Quote from Bareborn : Then why the fark are you on a dating site? Get out there and meet girls!

this...college is the perfect time to meet new people, especially freshmen year when everyone's new

Quote from ALVSGIRLY : That's what I was thinking . Perfect time for you to come out of your shell! Get out and have fun!

"Practicing" online. If something comes out of it, great. If not, it's still experience.

Quote from Squilly : "Practicing" online. If something comes out of it, great. If not, it's still experience.

don't come crying to the lounge if you're still single in 10 years. you really need to get out there. it's college. go out and have fun. if you don't you'll wish you had. just sayin.

Quote from teenbean : This makes soo much more sense now. Neither of you are experienced in dating. Do you both go to the same college?

Uhhh... Beg to differ.

Quote from Squilly : Uhhh... Beg to differ.

There is a big difference between high school dating and college dating.

Dude you got NO game. You need to really get out and practice on more than your texting pad.

The first time a girl puts your schlong in her mouth you'll know what I'm saying. Get out there...for the love of everything holy!

Quote from Squilly : Uhhh... Beg to differ.

You're already putting yourself in the friend zone. Dont ever farking bring up her ex AGAIN.

Quote from teenbean : There is a big difference between high school dating and college dating.

There's also a big difference between dating one person for two years and having experience dating.

Quote from Squilly : Uhhh... Beg to differ.

I have some concerns after reading your posts and the other answers. First, this last text about her last boyfriend/fiance, This bit of conversation makes me wonder if she is the type of female who becomes possessive. Not sure I would want to date someone who calls other women sluts. Second if you two are only 20 min apart from each other at different colleges and she will not meet you in person that's a warning flag to me as well.

Lastly the fact you are asking for our advise tells me you already feel warning signs about this girl and are needing either confirmation or help making excuses to keep seeing/texting her. Always trust your gut when you feel something is OFF then there is.

I understand it is very hard when you are a shy person to meet people. Check into college activities that interest you, Clubs you can join, Talk to people in your classes to overcome the shyness. Hang in there when the right person comes along you realize it.

That is all I have for now, Thanks for listening to me
Mom of 2 adult children,1 is my shy child, married now with 2 children

Quote from Squilly : Uhhh... Beg to differ.

lots of red flags there...

She's not that interested. I would not reply to someone I care with simple word "ya, oh, really..."

Quote from DocsLeiLani : I have some concerns after reading your posts and the other answers. First, this last text about her last boyfriend/fiance, This bit of conversation makes me wonder if she is the type of female who becomes possessive. Not sure I would want to date someone who calls other women sluts. Second if you two are only 20 min apart from each other at different colleges and she will not meet you in person that's a warning flag to me as well. Lastly the fact you are asking for our advise tells me you already feel warning signs about this girl and are needing either confirmation or help making excuses to keep seeing/texting her. Always trust your gut when you feel something is OFF then there is. I understand it is very hard when you are a shy person to meet people. Check into college activities that interest you, Clubs you can join, Talk to people in your classes to overcome the shyness. Hang in there when the right person comes along you realize it. That is all I have for now, Thanks for listening to me Mom of 2 adult children,1 is my shy child, married now with 2 children

Two years and and douchenozzle cheats on me? I'd probably have some choice nicknames myself. I don't think that really indicates anything, except having been hurt by them.

Remember, he brought up the question about her past relationships.