What should I do?

[tennisplayer123]

IDK how it came up, but it was random, I was in the middle of packing up to move up to college and she gave me this talk. I had a circumcision talk with my mom today and how the skin works going up and down, I'm almost 20. She asked me if i wanted one.

[chewspam]

You're culture isn't one that I know a whole lot about, but I respect what I do know. That being said.....WTF was your mother thinking??? :eek:

[vec]

:huh:


:crazy:

[tennisplayer123]

You're culture isn't one that I know a whole lot about, but I respect what I do know. That being said.....WTF was your mother thinking??? :eek:

I know right, she was like your dad's supposed to be the one to give you the talk, but I will instead. And this is the first sex-related talk we ever had together, with both/either of my parents. Well I'm Chinese and most of our culture doesn't really do this.

[chewspam]

Have fun in college. Don't get any STDs.

[stealth]

:cold:

[Count_Chocula]

you didn't have a bar mitzvah?

[Scoundrel]

I know right, she was like your dad's supposed to be the one to give you the talk, but I will instead. And this is the first sex-related talk we ever had together, with both/either of my parents. Well I'm Chinese and most of our culture doesn't really do this.

Resisting expanding on one-child-rule and how they don't really do sex... :lol:
I know, you meant this = sex talks, not sex, hehe.

[Frogstar]

Is she asking out of curiosity, or because they're willing to pay for it?

[chewspam]

Unless you're worried about hygiene, I'd say don't worry about it. I don't know that I'd want to experience that sort of pain at your age. I mean.....how is it going to feel when you wake up with morning wood because you have to pee?

[ikonoklast]

Don't do it, you can hide drugs in there.

[Just Peachy]

Tell her it fell off years ago. If she'd only told you then what she did now, maybe it could have been saved. Guilt trips. They don't work just on children. :lol:

[45root]

IDK how it came up, but it was random, I was in the middle of packing up to move up to college and she gave me this talk. I had a circumcision talk with my mom today and how the skin works going up and down, I'm almost 20. She asked me if i wanted one.
:lmao: wow thats a very uncomfortable thought. whats next? the birds and the bees speech?

[idkMyBFFist]

Should have replied "I've been j*cking off for years... I think I've figured out how it works"

[Iaaaiws]

IDK how it came up, but it was random, I was in the middle of packing up to move up to college and she gave me this talk. I had a circumcision talk with my mom today and how the skin works going up and down, I'm almost 20. She asked me if i wanted one.
Why, does she have an extra that she wants to get rid of?

[45root]

Should have replied "I've been j*cking off for years... I think I've figured out how it works"
there is no c in that word. :p

[extreme2700]

Unless you're worried about hygiene, I'd say don't worry about it. I don't know that I'd want to experience that sort of pain at your age. I mean.....how is it going to feel when you wake up with morning wood because you have to pee?
Isn't it a large misconception that circumcised = better hygiene? I mean really, just hit it with some water...it'll thank you later.

[Maleficent]

Wow...

if you're gonna wait until a kid is that old to have any sort of sex talk with him/her, what's the point? :lol:

[Zoe Moon]

My guess would be that she recently read an article about how men who are circumcised are less likely to contract AIDS.

[tennisplayer123]

Should have replied "I've been j*cking off for years... I think I've figured out how it works"
Yea, I kinda had too, when she brought up how my dad and his experience...

Wow...

if you're gonna wait until a kid is that old to have any sort of sex talk with him/her, what's the point? :lol:

Yea surprised me too, I figured at my age she would actually talk to me about condoms or something, but it came to this...

[uniquename]

Does a condom fit over the floppy part?

[NCSU2008]

is the OP trolling or what? i mean that original post almost sounds too good to be true

[Maleficent]

is the OP trolling or what? i mean that original post almost sounds too good to be true

Do you just accuse people of trolling at random or something?

[NCSU2008]

Do you just accuse people of trolling at random or something?

if you can read the first post without wondering whether its an obvious troll, well, you have a better conscience than me.

[Maleficent]

if you can read the first post without wondering whether its an obvious troll, well, you have a better conscience than me.

Well that was already a given.

[NCSU2008]

Well that was already a given.

stop using your jedi mind tricks agains someone thats drinking 3 buck chuck.

[dzap]

Yea, I kinda had too, when she brought up how my dad and his experience...



Yea surprised me too, I figured at my age she would actually talk to me about condoms or something, but it came to this...
Um....I......you live in California right?

You are required to go to a health class that teaches sex ed where you learn awesome stuff like "penis" and "vagina". That's during high school.

In elementary though, we had to watch a video back from like the 1980's on it.

Please don't tell me your mother signed a note to not watch that and you are only now discussing this.

[Maleficent]

stop using your jedi mind tricks agains someone thats drinking 3 buck chuck.

Jedi mind tricks are only necessary when you're having a conversation with someone who is at least semi-intelligent.

[NCSU2008]

Jedi mind tricks are only necessary when you're having a conversation with someone who is at least semi-intelligent.

a+ troll would read again

[Maleficent]

a+ troll would read again

That wasn't even a sentence.



Why don't you go finish your cheap booze and continue your drunken stupor elsewhere?

[NCSU2008]

That wasn't even a sentence.



Why don't you go finish your cheap booze and continue your drunken stupor elsewhere?

ok troll, you win. i concede. good grief.

[aocbzy]

:lol:

[dzap]

ok troll, you win. i concede. good grief.
You can't win against Mal. I've tried. Multiple times.

[Maleficent]

You can't win against Mal. I've tried. Multiple times.

Being inebriated certainly doesn't help. :tongue:

[NCSU2008]

Being inebriated certainly doesn't help. :tongue:

i'd hardly say i'm inebriated. i can still type decent. trust me i've drunk typed in my day.

[Iaaaiws]

Being inebriated certainly doesn't help. :tongue:
That isn't how you spell inbred :nono2:

[Maleficent]

i'd hardly say i'm inebriated. i can still type decent. trust me i've drunk typed in my day.

Looks like you're still having "your day." :lol:

That isn't how you spell inbred :nono2:

:lol2:

[NCSU2008]

Looks like you're still having "your day." :lol:



:lol2:

weak troll. at least say something that is offensive if possible

[Maleficent]

weak troll. at least say something that is offensive if possible

Isn't that how you got your last warning?

[dzap]

weak troll. at least say something that is offensive if possible
Drink more beer. Mal needs you completely drunk to the point where she can blow your mind with her advanced vocabulary.


Hmm...not an insult by the way. Not the tone I was going for anyway.

[NCSU2008]

Drink more beer. Mal needs you completely drunk to the point where she can blow your mind with her advanced vocabulary.


Hmm...not an insult by the way. Not the tone I was going for anyway.

woah wait a tick. so that vlad person is a female?

[Maleficent]

Drink more beer. Mal needs you completely drunk to the point where she can blow your mind with her advanced vocabulary.


You mean the so-called "jedi mind tricks?" :roll:

woah wait a tick. so that vlad person is a female?

I think you just blew his mind, dzap. :lol:

[NCSU2008]

You mean the so-called "jedi mind tricks?" :roll:



I think you just blew his mind, dzap. :lol:


without reading what you wrote, and just clicking the reply button, i am pretty sure i got one more bottle of 3 buck chuck left

[dzap]

woah wait a tick. so that vlad person is a female?
I know..women on the Internet. Who would have thought? :lol:

[NCSU2008]

I know..women on the Internet. Who would have thought? :lol:


ha true. to be honest, i thought about making a thread recently that was like "female slickdealers in raleigh" and then i was gonna post how i wanted to get into a personal relationship with a female slickdealer from raleigh long as she was presentable to the parents

[Maleficent]

ha true. to be honest, i thought about making a thread recently that was like "female slickdealers in raleigh" and then i was gonna post how i wanted to get into a personal relationship with a female slickdealer from raleigh long as she was presentable to the parents

:roll:


Make the thread, make the thread!

[NCSU2008]

:roll:


Make the thread, make the thread!

i already told you.. jedi mind tricks do not work on me. why would i make a thread just so you could troll me ;) :popcorn: :etc:

[tennisplayer123]

Um....I......you live in California right?

You are required to go to a health class that teaches sex ed where you learn awesome stuff like "penis" and "vagina". That's during high school.

In elementary though, we had to watch a video back from like the 1980's on it.

Please don't tell me your mother signed a note to not watch that and you are only now discussing this.

I moved to CA 3 yrs. ago or so.

[DNN]

Does a condom fit over the floppy part?
i think it not a good idea ,

[pictureframes]

I moved to CA 3 yrs. ago or so.

shes just making sure ur ready for the real world. its sorta like buyers regret. u know.
my son is uncut and i always wonder if i did the right thing. shes really just asking if u need an exchange.
so what do u think? happy or unhappy with a litte extra down there? :popcorn:

im asking as a mother. :)

[slutsky]

20 years old? You are young. But, 20 years old is late for college isn't it?

[Frogstar]

Make the thread, make the thread!
:iagree:

[tennisplayer123]

shes just making sure ur ready for the real world. its sorta like buyers regret. u know.
my son is uncut and i always wonder if i did the right thing. shes really just asking if u need an exchange.
so what do u think? happy or unhappy with a litte extra down there? :popcorn:

im asking as a mother. :)

Well currently, I guess it is better uncut, with bearing how it would be after, and this is how we are born naturally so why change that. It's like a persons tonsils, you can remove it or not, but it is in our body and serves a purpose, whether we know what it does or not. I mean if you asked me when I was way younger or if I was cut, I would be indifferent. Even now I would say I am indifferent, but prefer to stay the way I am. As for your wondering with your son, it depends, see I googled the issue the first few times when the skin uncovered the head and why it was so painful because of the sensitivity. And I solved that issue, so I would say no problems now. However, if its someone who has never done it or felt the pain, then yea it would be painful and it'd be better to cut. However if they were cut in the later ages, like if I did, it would still be painful, not the procedure itself, but the next week or so that follows where you walk around with a limp/bow leg type of pain due to the sensitivity. Yes I know what you mean about my mom, she was just bringing up the issue bc it happened with my dad and wanted me to know about it, if you do, happen to, discuss it with your son, please do not bring up the SO so soon, not a good way to start the convo.

20 years old? You are young. But, 20 years old is late for college isn't it?

I started college when I was 18, and I am not quite 20 yet, about 6 months away.

[slutsky]

I started college when I was 18, and I am not quite 20 yet, about 6 months away.


18 sounds about right. But you are Asian, shouldn't it be 16 something?

[Frogstar]

18 sounds about right. But you are Asian, shouldn't it be 16 something?
That's pretty racist of you.

[Maleficent]

That's pretty racist of you.

:iagree:


Not all Asians are smart. You don't have to leave slickdeals to find that out... :tomato:

[extreme2700]

That's pretty racist of you.

At least it's a positive stereotype (unless you believe that's an oxymoron).

[slutsky]

That's pretty racist of you.


http://i.slickdeals.net/image.php?u=577811&dateline=1297963642

[tennisplayer123]

18 sounds about right. But you are Asian, shouldn't it be 16 something?
That's pretty racist of you.

I don't find that racist, so when I'm 30 I look 20, that's fine with me.

[tennisplayer123]

20 years old? You are young. But, 20 years old is late for college isn't it?

I'm also thinking of leaving college in 3 years (in my 2nd year now), hopefully get into a Pharm. School or some medical related school.

[420]

If you're oriental, you probably want to hold on to what little you've got.

[420]

Wtf is your mom doing checking out your junk?