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01-08-2013 at 10:41 AM.
01-08-2013 at 10:41 AM.
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here's a young version Cold

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail...tions.html

yet there's a senior one out there too
Yeah... no.
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client paid food tastes best Whee
It ain't not bad!

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ugg.. that was kind of freaky. Thanks for sparing me though, I wouldn't want to see the older version.

Why would anyone want their lips blown up like that.. lol.
I was expecting someone that dressed and had hair like Jessica, not lips.

Hmmm.. I wonder how big cartoon Jessica's other lips are lol
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01-08-2013 at 10:44 AM.
01-08-2013 at 10:44 AM.
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I'm eating free (client-purchased) Chipotle. The hot salsa is pretty good.
I'm having lentil soup for dinner.

Made by tennis girl. nod

Then she's taking me to a show. nod nod
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01-08-2013 at 10:45 AM.
01-08-2013 at 10:45 AM.
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True, but when you live your life like you have to be honest about everything, it really makes a difference in your decision making.
well, i said what i did cuz some folks play doormat like that's the thing to do

yep, not gonna be emotionally sucker punched

so, i've learned "lines" to say &/or merely not engage laugh out loud

there's strength in righteous conduct bulb
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01-08-2013 at 10:45 AM.
01-08-2013 at 10:45 AM.
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I'm having lentil soup for dinner.
Do not want.
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Made by tennis girl. nod

Then she's taking me to a show. nod nod
This I'd be okay with.

Do you wonder what nickname she has for you?
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01-08-2013 at 10:47 AM.
01-08-2013 at 10:47 AM.
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Build up your farking imune system Tongue
hey, already said that High Five perhaps he'll listen to you!
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01-08-2013 at 10:48 AM.
01-08-2013 at 10:48 AM.
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Do not want.

This I'd be okay with.

Do you wonder what nickname she has for you?
Uh-oh. Is lentil soup bad? I've never had it before...

I'd like to think she calls me "that super-hot bald guy who's a really good kisser" but I suspect it's probably "ToeShoes." laugh out loud
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01-08-2013 at 10:53 AM.
01-08-2013 at 10:53 AM.
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So how would you recommend bringing it up then? That's what I'm struggling with. My thought was to wait until things had escalated physically - which could be several more dates/weeks with both of these girls - before even beginning to talk about "going steady" (for lack of a better term). That also gives me time to decide which of them I want to be with, and, I presume, them more time for similar contemplation. In fact waiting a while longer may well take the choice out of my hands if that makes any sense.

I just can't see a positive side to blurting out anything about dating other girls this early on in the relationships. But I could also be rationalizing some pretty selfish motives to arrive at that conclusion.

laugh out loud Thanks
As long as you're not having hour long make-out sessions with lots of grinding, then I don't think it's necessary to Define The Relationship (DTR). If you're just talking and hanging out and playing games and whatnot, I think it's fine not to have the DTR talk, because at this point you're just building friendships that may or may not turn into a stronger relationship.

Every strong relationship needs a good base in friendship, which is what you should be building while dating. I'm still friends with all of my ex's because there was a friendship there first that has not gone away despite the breakup.

Phrozt is actually the shortest friendship before make out sessions, but we talked for a looong time and really got to know each other first.

I think if they want to discuss it then it's fine and just be honest and define what's been going on and your views on it. If they flip out that you were "cheating" on them, then they're not people you really want to be with in the long term anyway because jealousy is going to get in the way of logic.

I think you're letting TG1 get to you too much. Do what you think is best for you with honesty and things will fall into place for you. If you're nervous in the gut because you feel you're being deceiving, then tell them how you're feeling. If you feel happy and confident that you are going about this the best way for you, then don't worry about it.

Now the above is NOT advice I would give a douchey guy, because they don't give a flying fark about someone else's feelings. You sound like you care but are also staying strong in your independent beliefs on relationships (and not just trying to score). I think it would be a good thing for you to find someone who isn't bothered by the non-exclusiveness until discussions have been had. If you both have similar morals on relationships, then your relationship will be stronger.

That you'll find out once discussions are had, obviously, but I don't think you need to force yourself faster than you deem necessary.

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hey, already said that High Five perhaps he'll listen to you!
I must have miss your reply...I was kinda flying through the old posts Grin
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01-08-2013 at 10:58 AM.
01-08-2013 at 10:58 AM.
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I don't see how he's deceiving them.
Iagree

They haven't brought up monogamy to him either. God whatever happened to DATING?
Is he supposed to email and gchat with a girl, have a couple dates, and suddenly be engaged? Wtf that only happens in crazy land.

I applaud you for your restraint, VQ. Don't let crazy get in your head!

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I like that!
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01-08-2013 at 11:04 AM.
01-08-2013 at 11:04 AM.
Quote from veritablequandary :
Uh-oh. Is lentil soup bad? I've never had it before...

I'd like to think she calls me "that super-hot bald guy who's a really good kisser" but I suspect it's probably "ToeShoes." laugh out loud
It's just not for me, that's all.
And it sounds like you have realistic expectations laugh out loud
They're interesting, but I don't like having things between my toes, so I've taken a pass on them.
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As long as you're not having hour long make-out sessions with lots of grinding, then I don't think it's necessary to Define The Relationship (DTR). If you're just talking and hanging out and playing games and whatnot, I think it's fine not to have the DTR talk, because at this point you're just building friendships that may or may not turn into a stronger relationship.
How about hour long make-out sessions without grinding? Scratchchin
Wait, are those a thing, even?
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01-08-2013 at 11:07 AM.
01-08-2013 at 11:07 AM.
Obvioulsy everyone has different expectations when dating. If any of these gals want to take a strong stance on being committed - it's up to them to bring it up when they feel its reasonable if he hasn't.
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01-08-2013 at 11:08 AM.
01-08-2013 at 11:08 AM.
Bowdown
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01-08-2013 at 11:10 AM.
01-08-2013 at 11:10 AM.
Quote from beanqueen :
Build up your farking imune system Tongue
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hey, already said that High Five perhaps he'll listen to you!
I eat pretty healthy and get plenty of exercise. I take my vitamins like my boss tells me to. My immune system is pretty good, but that's not the point. They shouldn't be coming in sick when they can stay home and work from their company provided laptop. They have the choice to endanger others or not. They are also given a week of sick time every year that they can take so they don't have to work.

And it's not me I'm worried about; it's my kids. I don't want my kids getting sick because I carried something home from work that I otherwise wouldn't have if these sick dicks worked from home.
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01-08-2013 at 11:15 AM.
01-08-2013 at 11:15 AM.
Doc gave me a script for more hydrocodone, but no muscle relaxants. Damn it.
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01-08-2013 at 11:16 AM.
01-08-2013 at 11:16 AM.
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Doc gave me a script for more hydrocodone, but no muscle relaxants. Damn it.
Do you know why?
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01-08-2013 at 11:18 AM.
01-08-2013 at 11:18 AM.
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Do you know why?

Obamacare. Smack
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