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Relationship Help

151 21 February 19, 2013 at 07:25 PM in Chat (2)
It has been a while since I've been in a relationship with someone, like four years. I met a girl online via online dating site and really thought I hit it off. She's attractive and has an interesting personality. I got her number last night and we've been communicating since then. Two questions:
I asked if she wanted to meet, response: "Maybe Smilie"
How am I supposed to take that? Good/bad?

Also, earlier when we first met, she mentioned she's not the best at asking questions (ain't that the truth). So, I've been asking her some questions and been getting one word answers in return. Is this good/bad/neutral?

I don't want to screw this relationship up. Advice please?
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Joe Davola
02-20-2013 at 06:41 AM.
02-20-2013 at 06:41 AM.
There are obviously no sparks on either side and no personality or real interest on her side. Seriously why keep wasting your time? Dontknow

Move on. Good luck!
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chevvy
02-20-2013 at 06:45 AM.
02-20-2013 at 06:45 AM.
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02-20-2013 at 06:50 AM.
02-20-2013 at 06:50 AM.
Quote from Beartrkkr :
Ask if you can PIITB.
What is PIITB?
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02-20-2013 at 06:52 AM.
02-20-2013 at 06:52 AM.
Quote from dealgate :
Ask her if she has cats!
Just did. Felt like I asked before but asked again.
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02-20-2013 at 06:55 AM.
02-20-2013 at 06:55 AM.
Quote from dealgate :
Ask her if she has cats!
Has a kitten and two dogs.
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dealgate
02-20-2013 at 06:58 AM.
02-20-2013 at 06:58 AM.
Quote from Squilly :
Has a kitten and two dogs.
Her animals are her life then. She has given up on finding anyone. No way it ever works out. Cat woman are psychotic. Run!
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02-20-2013 at 07:01 AM.
02-20-2013 at 07:01 AM.
Quote from dealgate :
Her animals are her life then. She has given up on finding anyone. No way it ever works out. Cat woman are psychotic. Run!
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teenbean
02-20-2013 at 07:07 AM.
02-20-2013 at 07:07 AM.
Quote from Squilly :

She says more then one word texts!!
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02-20-2013 at 07:10 AM.
02-20-2013 at 07:10 AM.
Quote from teenbean :
She says more then one word texts!!
Yeah. Luckily she's been improving. There's a whole conversation of one worders though.
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Bareborn
02-20-2013 at 07:11 AM.
02-20-2013 at 07:11 AM.
Shes a freshman in college? let it go man let it go
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iRabbitt
02-20-2013 at 07:13 AM.
02-20-2013 at 07:13 AM.
look out for the viper. don't drink out of a glass that she won't drink out of.
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idkist
02-20-2013 at 07:15 AM.
02-20-2013 at 07:15 AM.
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they all have issues.
qft;;
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02-20-2013 at 07:15 AM.
02-20-2013 at 07:15 AM.
Quote from Bareborn :
Shes a freshman in college? let it go man let it go
I'm a freshman in college too...
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teenbean
02-20-2013 at 07:18 AM.
02-20-2013 at 07:18 AM.
Quote from Squilly :
I'm a freshman in college too...

This makes soo much more sense now. Neither of you are experienced in dating.


Do you both go to the same college?
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Bareborn
02-20-2013 at 07:18 AM.
02-20-2013 at 07:18 AM.
Quote from Squilly :
I'm a freshman in college too...
Then why the fark are you on a dating site? Get out there and meet girls!
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