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Relationship Help
February 19, 2013 at
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It has been a while since I've been in a relationship with someone, like four years. I met a girl online via online dating site and really thought I hit it off. She's attractive and has an interesting personality. I got her number last night and we've been communicating since then. Two questions:
I asked if she wanted to meet, response: "Maybe
"
How am I supposed to take that? Good/bad?
Also, earlier when we first met, she mentioned she's not the best at asking questions (ain't that the truth). So, I've been asking her some questions and been getting one word answers in return. Is this good/bad/neutral?
I don't want to screw this relationship up. Advice please?
I asked if she wanted to meet, response: "Maybe
"How am I supposed to take that? Good/bad?
Also, earlier when we first met, she mentioned she's not the best at asking questions (ain't that the truth). So, I've been asking her some questions and been getting one word answers in return. Is this good/bad/neutral?
I don't want to screw this relationship up. Advice please?
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Do you both go to the same college?
I'm shy too -.-
Perfect time for you to come out of your shell! Get out and have fun!
Do you both go to the same college?
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The first time a girl puts your schlong in her mouth you'll know what I'm saying. Get out there...for the love of everything holy!
I have some concerns after reading your posts and the other answers. First, this last text about her last boyfriend/fiance, This bit of conversation makes me wonder if she is the type of female who becomes possessive. Not sure I would want to date someone who calls other women sluts. Second if you two are only 20 min apart from each other at different colleges and she will not meet you in person that's a warning flag to me as well.
Lastly the fact you are asking for our advise tells me you already feel warning signs about this girl and are needing either confirmation or help making excuses to keep seeing/texting her. Always trust your gut when you feel something is OFF then there is.
I understand it is very hard when you are a shy person to meet people. Check into college activities that interest you, Clubs you can join, Talk to people in your classes to overcome the shyness. Hang in there when the right person comes along you realize it.
That is all I have for now, Thanks for listening to me
Mom of 2 adult children,1 is my shy child, married now with 2 children
Lastly the fact you are asking for our advise tells me you already feel warning signs about this girl and are needing either confirmation or help making excuses to keep seeing/texting her. Always trust your gut when you feel something is OFF then there is.
I understand it is very hard when you are a shy person to meet people. Check into college activities that interest you, Clubs you can join, Talk to people in your classes to overcome the shyness. Hang in there when the right person comes along you realize it.
That is all I have for now, Thanks for listening to me
Mom of 2 adult children,1 is my shy child, married now with 2 children
Remember, he brought up the question about her past relationships.
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I'm shy too -.-