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Relationship Help

151 21 February 19, 2013 at 07:25 PM in Chat (2)
It has been a while since I've been in a relationship with someone, like four years. I met a girl online via online dating site and really thought I hit it off. She's attractive and has an interesting personality. I got her number last night and we've been communicating since then. Two questions:
I asked if she wanted to meet, response: "Maybe Smilie"
How am I supposed to take that? Good/bad?

Also, earlier when we first met, she mentioned she's not the best at asking questions (ain't that the truth). So, I've been asking her some questions and been getting one word answers in return. Is this good/bad/neutral?

I don't want to screw this relationship up. Advice please?
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02-20-2013 at 10:07 AM.
02-20-2013 at 10:07 AM.
Quote from Amaylin :
18? online dating is for 28 or 38 and order.
Then why are there so many 18/19 year olds on there?
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FeedMeAlmonds
02-20-2013 at 10:08 AM.
02-20-2013 at 10:08 AM.
Quote from Squilly :

What's the point of doing that? Edit: nevermind. How does this sound?
"I have plans to go to ______ (it's a buffet, remember when I mentioned that earlier? Wink) this weekend. You're welcome to join me, if you wish. Let me know."

Don't invite her to a buffet. and don't say 'if you wish'. What the hell do 18 years old's do these days?
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02-20-2013 at 10:10 AM.
02-20-2013 at 10:10 AM.
Quote from FeedMeAlmonds :
Don't invite her to a buffet. and don't say 'if you wish'. What the hell do 18 years old's do these days?
She loves food.
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FeedMeAlmonds
02-20-2013 at 10:12 AM.
02-20-2013 at 10:12 AM.
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She loves food.
Still fit though, right?
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Amaylin
02-20-2013 at 10:12 AM.
02-20-2013 at 10:12 AM.
Quote from Squilly :
Then why are there so many 18/19 year olds on there?
you kids need to find another playground.
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02-20-2013 at 10:13 AM.
02-20-2013 at 10:13 AM.
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Still fit though, right?
Yeah. She was almost an Olympian. Just putting that out there.
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02-20-2013 at 10:26 AM.
02-20-2013 at 10:26 AM.
The chemistry seems to be better than it was yesterday. Maybe because she was working she was giving me one word answers...
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02-20-2013 at 10:28 AM.
02-20-2013 at 10:28 AM.
This thread has EPIC written ALL over it.

Almost an olympian...2-3 days...cant get a drivers license...I smell CATFISH

Get a picture of her with todays date...post it...and we will judge
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02-20-2013 at 10:32 AM.
02-20-2013 at 10:32 AM.
Quote from Squilly :
I'm 18. We've been talking for two/three days.
2-3 days of interactions like the ones you've described is NOT a relationship laugh out loud
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tennisplayer888
02-20-2013 at 10:37 AM.
02-20-2013 at 10:37 AM.
Quote from Squilly :
Then why are there so many 18/19 year olds on there?
B/c they probably arent 18/19... I mean seriously, I am really taken back from this story. Is it really that hard to go out and just genuinely have a conversation with a girl/someone? I do not find it hard, and that is my method, I am around the same age as you are OP.

Online dating is something I have never thought of, well until I saw this thread, it has always been something that never comes up into my mind. And hopefully never will, as a method to get girls.
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02-20-2013 at 12:03 PM.
02-20-2013 at 12:03 PM.
Quote from acesmuzic :
2-3 days of interactions like the ones you've described is NOT a relationship laugh out loud
It isn't one yet, I know that. Maybe soon it will be though.
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02-20-2013 at 12:08 PM.
02-20-2013 at 12:08 PM.
Still epic!!!!!!!
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02-20-2013 at 12:21 PM.
02-20-2013 at 12:21 PM.
Maybe I should ask her for a pic to prove its her....
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FeedMeAlmonds
02-20-2013 at 12:31 PM.
02-20-2013 at 12:31 PM.
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Maybe I should ask her for a pic to prove its her....
Wait what? What picture did she give you, no video chat?
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02-20-2013 at 12:45 PM.
02-20-2013 at 12:45 PM.
Quote from FeedMeAlmonds :
Wait what? What picture did she give you, no video chat?
Nada, other than what is on her profile.
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