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Relationship Help
February 19, 2013 at
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It has been a while since I've been in a relationship with someone, like four years. I met a girl online via online dating site and really thought I hit it off. She's attractive and has an interesting personality. I got her number last night and we've been communicating since then. Two questions:
I asked if she wanted to meet, response: "Maybe
"
How am I supposed to take that? Good/bad?
Also, earlier when we first met, she mentioned she's not the best at asking questions (ain't that the truth). So, I've been asking her some questions and been getting one word answers in return. Is this good/bad/neutral?
I don't want to screw this relationship up. Advice please?
I asked if she wanted to meet, response: "Maybe
"How am I supposed to take that? Good/bad?
Also, earlier when we first met, she mentioned she's not the best at asking questions (ain't that the truth). So, I've been asking her some questions and been getting one word answers in return. Is this good/bad/neutral?
I don't want to screw this relationship up. Advice please?
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Well this thread looks amusing!
OP, I was a shy college kid once too. Really, a dating website doesn't seem right for someone your age. I knew I was horribly shy, but you have to face your difficulties, and just put yourself out there. I would force myself to sit in some of the most high-traffic areas of my (very small) college lounge, hoping it would increase the chance that I would meet people.
It worked. Not a lot, not perfectly, but it worked.
Just get out there, force yourself to say hi, ask other people how their day is going. Even if you don't care. Even if you don't know who they are. It's hard, but you won't meet people if you don't get out there. And though I could be completely wrong, I'd bet most teens on a dating website aren't looking for relationships, but just one night stands instead. So if you're on there looking for a relationship, you might not have much luck.
Funny... that's how the rest of the lounge feels about all your threads!
OMG, whatever! If OP knew about all your "girl crisis" threads and how incredibly socially inept you were, he would laugh at this comment, too.
You of all people should seriously consider online dating.
Funny... that's how the rest of the lounge feels about all your threads!
Yea I was reading this too and thought about thread I made or was a part of with something like this. I was like "Why does this sound so familiar?".
Anyway, I may have the similar problem, but I never resorted to online dating, plus my problem was and still is, I get to know the person/girl, get their number and such but i never contact them back. We have been over and over this before.
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