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Relationship Help

151 21 February 19, 2013 at 07:25 PM in Chat (2)
It has been a while since I've been in a relationship with someone, like four years. I met a girl online via online dating site and really thought I hit it off. She's attractive and has an interesting personality. I got her number last night and we've been communicating since then. Two questions:
I asked if she wanted to meet, response: "Maybe Smilie"
How am I supposed to take that? Good/bad?

Also, earlier when we first met, she mentioned she's not the best at asking questions (ain't that the truth). So, I've been asking her some questions and been getting one word answers in return. Is this good/bad/neutral?

I don't want to screw this relationship up. Advice please?
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user2049276
02-21-2013 at 01:30 PM.
02-21-2013 at 01:30 PM.
I'm getting ignored by her now. Frown
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square_one
02-21-2013 at 01:35 PM.
02-21-2013 at 01:35 PM.
Quote from Squilly :
I'm getting ignored by her now. Frown
cheer up dude, there are other fake internet chicks out there for you.
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02-21-2013 at 01:36 PM.
02-21-2013 at 01:36 PM.
Quote from Squilly :
Really? Frown;(


Comfort
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FeedMeAlmonds
02-21-2013 at 01:39 PM.
02-21-2013 at 01:39 PM.
Quote from Squilly :
I'm getting ignored by her now. Frown
full court press will get you burned, told you to back off homeboy.
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02-21-2013 at 01:39 PM.
02-21-2013 at 01:39 PM.
Quote from square_one :
cheer up dude, there are other fake internet chicks out there for you.
No one said she was fake -.-
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PaintTheSkyGrey
02-21-2013 at 01:42 PM.
02-21-2013 at 01:42 PM.
Quote from Squilly :
No one said she was fake -.-
She just ignores you when you want to webcam with her, doesn't accept Facebook friend requests from you, and has never even sent you a picture of herself to confirm her identity.

Sounds totally legit.

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Did you mistakenly quote me or summin?
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Frogstar
02-21-2013 at 01:42 PM.
02-21-2013 at 01:42 PM.
Quote from Squilly :
No one said she was fake -.-
I'm pretty sure some people here did.

Quote from PaintTheSkyGrey :
Did you mistakenly quote me or summin?
No, it was intentional, I just removed the content since I'm pretty sure that person has you on ignore, but I thought it was funny.
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02-21-2013 at 01:45 PM.
02-21-2013 at 01:45 PM.
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No, it was intentional, I just removed the content since I'm pretty sure that person has you on ignore, but I thought it was funny.
Roll

Understood.
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02-21-2013 at 01:57 PM.
02-21-2013 at 01:57 PM.
I don't have anyone on my ignore list.

Quote from PaintTheSkyGrey :
She just ignores you when you want to webcam with her, doesn't accept Facebook friend requests from you, and has never even sent you a picture of herself to confirm her identity.

Sounds totally legit.


Did you mistakenly quote me or summin?
She was all for web camming with me yesterday.
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Last edited by Squilly2314 February 21, 2013 at 01:58 PM.
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02-21-2013 at 05:30 PM.
02-21-2013 at 05:30 PM.
Still completely unresponsive.
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tennisplayer888
02-21-2013 at 06:23 PM.
02-21-2013 at 06:23 PM.
Is this like your first like/love or something? Seriously dude, she may just be busy or something, if anything just back off now and give you and her some space. She will respond back to you if she is truly interested.
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KAlR
02-21-2013 at 06:31 PM.
02-21-2013 at 06:31 PM.
Did you text any pictures of genitalia, as suggested?
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02-21-2013 at 06:38 PM.
02-21-2013 at 06:38 PM.
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Did you text any pictures of genitalia, as suggested?
Ummm....
No.
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GoKingsGo
02-21-2013 at 07:16 PM.
02-21-2013 at 07:16 PM.
Man I love this thread.


The worst thing you can do when you've sent a text and she hasn't responded is to keep texting. You'll look like a desperate idiot. Wait for a response. If you don't get one, move on. It's not worth it. This whole thing is absurd anyway.
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vaultaddict
02-21-2013 at 07:25 PM.
02-21-2013 at 07:25 PM.
You sent her your picture, didn't you ?

Quote from Squilly :
Ummm....
No.
Seems like that was a mistake now, doesn't it?
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Last edited by vaultaddict February 21, 2013 at 07:26 PM.
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