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Relationship Help

151 21 February 19, 2013 at 07:25 PM in Chat (2)
It has been a while since I've been in a relationship with someone, like four years. I met a girl online via online dating site and really thought I hit it off. She's attractive and has an interesting personality. I got her number last night and we've been communicating since then. Two questions:
I asked if she wanted to meet, response: "Maybe Smilie"
How am I supposed to take that? Good/bad?

Also, earlier when we first met, she mentioned she's not the best at asking questions (ain't that the truth). So, I've been asking her some questions and been getting one word answers in return. Is this good/bad/neutral?

I don't want to screw this relationship up. Advice please?
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ashcampbell
02-22-2013 at 08:42 AM.
02-22-2013 at 08:42 AM.
Quote from Squilly :
Asked her question, no response. Should I wait.... again? Or is it over? :/
Its not over until you finish and\or the cops slap the cuffs on.
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user2049276
02-22-2013 at 08:50 AM.
02-22-2013 at 08:50 AM.
Quote from PaintTheSkyGrey :
This implies it began at some point.
"Thought" it did.
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vaultaddict
02-22-2013 at 11:18 AM.
02-22-2013 at 11:18 AM.
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It's not a relationship yet.

Take it easy.
ahem.
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02-22-2013 at 11:33 AM.
02-22-2013 at 11:33 AM.
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ahem.
laugh out loud High Five
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02-22-2013 at 11:48 AM.
02-22-2013 at 11:48 AM.
What?
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Majide
02-22-2013 at 12:43 PM.
02-22-2013 at 12:43 PM.
Facepalm Dude, move on. It never began, so it's not over. Just move on.

Go make some friends or something... Don't get so serious with the first girl you see that's pretty, 'kay?
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MakeitRainDolla
02-22-2013 at 01:32 PM.
02-22-2013 at 01:32 PM.
For every reasonably attractive girl in online dating world their are 50+ dudes messaging her a day.
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tennisplayer888
02-22-2013 at 01:36 PM.
02-22-2013 at 01:36 PM.
Quote from Majide :
Facepalm Dude, move on. It never began, so it's not over. Just move on.

Go make some friends or something... Don't get so serious with the first girl you see that's pretty, 'kay?
I wish I could do that, but then I would have to look at the next pretty girl that passes by too...
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02-22-2013 at 01:43 PM.
02-22-2013 at 01:43 PM.
Quote from WildChickenDanc :
For every reasonably attractive girl in online dating world their are 50+ dudes messaging her a day.
I know... it sucks Frown
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tennisplayer888
02-22-2013 at 02:08 PM.
02-22-2013 at 02:08 PM.
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I know... it sucks Frown
Any updates?
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02-22-2013 at 04:02 PM.
02-22-2013 at 04:02 PM.
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Any updates?
Nope. Still no response.
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02-23-2013 at 12:09 PM.
02-23-2013 at 12:09 PM.
shes about 300 pounds
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handyguy
02-25-2013 at 09:15 AM.
02-25-2013 at 09:15 AM.
Best thing I have seen on the topic:
What Makes You Click? An Empirical Analysis of Online Dating

http://academic.research.microsof...89801.aspx
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11-11-2013 at 12:31 PM.
11-11-2013 at 12:31 PM.
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Manti, is that you?
HAH! I understand that reference.
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11-11-2013 at 01:08 PM.
11-11-2013 at 01:08 PM.
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HAH! I understand that reference.

Why bump this hooey for that hooey comment?
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