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Relationship Help
February 19, 2013 at
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It has been a while since I've been in a relationship with someone, like four years. I met a girl online via online dating site and really thought I hit it off. She's attractive and has an interesting personality. I got her number last night and we've been communicating since then. Two questions:
I asked if she wanted to meet, response: "Maybe
"
How am I supposed to take that? Good/bad?
Also, earlier when we first met, she mentioned she's not the best at asking questions (ain't that the truth). So, I've been asking her some questions and been getting one word answers in return. Is this good/bad/neutral?
I don't want to screw this relationship up. Advice please?
I asked if she wanted to meet, response: "Maybe
"How am I supposed to take that? Good/bad?
Also, earlier when we first met, she mentioned she's not the best at asking questions (ain't that the truth). So, I've been asking her some questions and been getting one word answers in return. Is this good/bad/neutral?
I don't want to screw this relationship up. Advice please?
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This should seal any potential deal that is to be made.
Ten percent of the time it works every time.
This should seal any potential deal that is to be made.
Unless she REALLY has nothing to say.
Unless she REALLY has nothing to say.
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An acquaintance of mine went onto the dating service sites (all the major ones) for one reason and one reason only; sex. He found that talking nasty (not real bad but being very suggestive) to the girls was the way to get to what he wanted. When he was "nice" he got nothing at all. Usually not even a response. He slept with about 6 or 7 girls over a month period. His best week was 4 different girls. He kept the "best" ones on the hook and sees them when he needs to from time to time. It only took on average about 2 "real" dates to get to that point. Oh and he is married. Most didn't care.
I asked if she wanted to meet, response: "Maybe
How am I supposed to take that? Good/bad?
Also, earlier when we first met, she mentioned she's not the best at asking questions (ain't that the truth). So, I've been asking her some questions and been getting one word answers in return. Is this good/bad/neutral?
I don't want to screw this relationship up. Advice please?
How old are you? How old is she?
Maybe she's just not much of a talker or she is shy. She said Maybe and smiled so it's a good thing. Why don't you text her for a week or two and then meet her someone very public.
Have her send you a picture dated with the days date to verify it is who she says it is. Secondly dont be to worried about one word texts...shes on a dating site for a reason, shes an awkward person. Shes probably like that turtle head you needed to push a little bit to get out. Give her some time to open up.
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