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Plays Well with Others: The Surprising Science Behind Relationships (eBook)
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- Can you judge a book by its cover? Is a friend in need truly a friend indeed? Does love conquer all? Is no man an island?
- Leveraging the best evidence available—free of platitudes or magical thinking—Barker analyzes multiple sides of an issue before rendering his verdict. What he's uncovered is surprising, counterintuitive, and timely—and will change the way you interact in the world and with those around you just when you need it most.
- In Plays Well With Others, Eric Barker dives into these questions, drawing on science to reveal the truth beyond the conventional wisdom about human relationships. Combining his compelling storytelling and humor, Barker explains what hostage negotiation techniques and marital arguments have in common, how an expert con-man lied his way into a twenty-year professional soccer career, and why those holding views diametrically opposed to our own actually have the potential to become our closest, most trusted friends.
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Amazon has Plays Well with Others: The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know About Relationships Is (Mostly) Wrong (eBook) by Eric Barker on sale for $1.99.
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About this Book:
- Can you judge a book by its cover? Is a friend in need truly a friend indeed? Does love conquer all? Is no man an island?
- Leveraging the best evidence available—free of platitudes or magical thinking—Barker analyzes multiple sides of an issue before rendering his verdict. What he's uncovered is surprising, counterintuitive, and timely—and will change the way you interact in the world and with those around you just when you need it most.
- In Plays Well With Others, Eric Barker dives into these questions, drawing on science to reveal the truth beyond the conventional wisdom about human relationships. Combining his compelling storytelling and humor, Barker explains what hostage negotiation techniques and marital arguments have in common, how an expert con-man lied his way into a twenty-year professional soccer career, and why those holding views diametrically opposed to our own actually have the potential to become our closest, most trusted friends.
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Written by ValPal2011 | Staff- About the store:
- Don't have Amazon Prime? Students can get a free 6-Month Amazon Prime trial with free 2-day shipping, unlimited video streaming & more.
- If you're not a student, there's also a free 1-Month Amazon Prime trial available.
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Play Well With Others: The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know About Relationships Is (Mostly) Wrong by Eric Barker is a research-driven exploration of what actually makes relationships—friendships, romances, and work connections—successful and meaningful. The book challenges common myths about socializing and replaces them with insights grounded in psychology, neuroscience, and real-world studies.
Key Themes
1. Rethinking Relationship Myths
Barker argues that much of our folk wisdom about relationships (e.g., "just be yourself" or "opposites attract") doesn't hold up under scientific scrutiny. He unpacks these clichés to show when they might work and when they backfire.
2. The Power of Vulnerability and Trust
Meaningful bonds require openness. Sharing vulnerabilities, rather than presenting a polished façade, is what deepens trust and intimacy. Barker explains why trust is fragile but essential, and how it can be built more reliably.
3. Cooperation vs. Competition
Drawing from game theory and evolutionary psychology, the book shows how humans are wired both to compete and to cooperate. Long-term thriving comes not from dominance, but from reciprocity, generosity, and building reputations for fairness.
4. Navigating Conflict
Conflict is inevitable in any close relationship. Barker provides evidence-based strategies for handling disagreements—focusing on listening, perspective-taking, and compromise rather than "winning" arguments.
5. Networks and Community
Instead of focusing solely on one-to-one ties, the book highlights the importance of broader social networks. Weak ties and community connections can be just as crucial to happiness, opportunity, and resilience as deep friendships.
6. The Role of Humor and Play
Playfulness is not trivial—it's fundamental to bonding. Humor, shared fun, and lightheartedness strengthen trust, diffuse tension, and make people more resilient during hardship.
Style and Takeaways
The book blends psychology experiments, historical anecdotes, and practical tips. Barker's style is witty and conversational, making complex research accessible. The overarching message is that strong relationships are less about following fixed rules and more about cultivating behaviors—vulnerability, generosity, perspective-taking, and play—that science shows consistently deepen human connection.
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