Walking Marriage, a sweetdeal for men

2,960 May 12, 2018 at 09:24 PM

TLDR; the benefits of a matriarchy utopia for men: SNU-SNU all day, every day.

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the Mosuo ... mating system is called "walking marriage" where the man and woman do not live together even though they sleep together.

As soon as she is sexually mature, a young woman gets her own bedroom and may invite a man to spend the night with her. If babies are produced from these informal unions, they are raised by the mother with the help of her siblings and the father does not provide economic support.

...in some developed countries, the majority of children are already born outside marriage in a fast-developing trend.

src: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/ni...10981.html

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Parents who engage in multiple, short-term, extra-marital sexual liaisons irresponsibly threaten their children's emotional development (Wait, L.) Children in a Mosuo household are taken care of by their mother's family. Their only male influences are their mother's brothers. Instead of marrying and sharing family life with spouses, adult Mosuo children remain in extended, multigenerational households with their mother and her blood relatives.
src: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mosuo_women

Pros for men: (fixed)

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boatman-A: Speaking of walking marriage, I have done it over 100 TIMES. At 2AM, some girl would give me a bootie call. I tell the first one "I have things to take care of at home". Then I meet the second one at her bar. Usually we would just get a room and stay there.

boatman-B: Walking marriage is the best for men. we don't need to do much work. Because women run the household. So Women take care of everything, we don't need to do too much.

boatman-A: Let me tell you, the woman you saw before, when her husband is not around, she'll do a small walking marriage. She is still doing walking marriage. This is very normal.

time: 5:50 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t_l9D7tEixc

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Role of men:
According to some, men have no responsibility in Mosuo society—they have no jobs, rest all day, and conserve their strength for nighttime visits.
src: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mosuo

example: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6xx_SKnxhnE
time: 17:46 - man: "carry this gramma"
time: 18:00 - man: "add these too"

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After the birth of the child, the man has no moral, cultural, or legal obligation to take care of the child. However, the child will be raised with adequate care and attention. The overwhelming support from the woman's extended family, allows both the man and woman to engage in sexual relations with whom ever they please.

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The father usually has little responsibility for his offspring." However, this doesn't mean that men can wipe their hands free of responsibilities and spend every night participating in shenanigans. After work, they are obligated to go home and help raise their nieces and nephews. The children rely on the collective effort of the extended family as a substitute for the care and affection of the biological father.
src: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mosuo

Utopia ---------------------

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There's no such thing as equality here. Women work harder at everything, in every way.

time: 8:37 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eoTrARDa8BU

example2,3,4: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t_l9D7tEixc