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Real-life drama at the beach ... Rammy's in trouble again ... apparently the wife doesn't like me taking pictures of other women
July 22, 2009 at
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Amongst the ~200 photos I took last week at the beach, I snapped 3-4 pictures of some hotties that were walking up and down the beach. The wife took great offense to this and I thought it was playful at first but (as women are apt to do) an argument ensued which turned into her giving me the cold, silent treatment for the next 24 hours. She indicated I was "to take pictures of only her & the kids".
Disrespectful? Immature? In hindsight a little, but in her words "I'm married, I'm not dead". I wasn't peeping through a peephole at some ESPN hottie, I was taking a picture of someone strolling a few yards in front of me proudly displaying the goods that God gave her. Just how insecure can she be?
Is this a potential for a double standard? The wife had a massage at a day spa from a "young surfer dude" who was checking her out. Do I come out with the directive "no man can touch you except for me at any time". To take it to another level, shouldn't I be able to get lap dances (I don't btw) without feeling guilty. I agree that's extreme, but give me a break.
I thought things had cooled down the next day or two (makeup OTs) but then out of the blue the wife went through and deleted the pictures on my camera - which simply pissed me off. The following is all that's left. It was intended to be a humorous presentation to the lounge: (a) picture of hotties, (b) picture of wife holding up hand in front of camera, (c) picture of ocean as wife punched hubby in stomach.
Disrespectful? Immature? In hindsight a little, but in her words "I'm married, I'm not dead". I wasn't peeping through a peephole at some ESPN hottie, I was taking a picture of someone strolling a few yards in front of me proudly displaying the goods that God gave her. Just how insecure can she be?
Is this a potential for a double standard? The wife had a massage at a day spa from a "young surfer dude" who was checking her out. Do I come out with the directive "no man can touch you except for me at any time". To take it to another level, shouldn't I be able to get lap dances (I don't btw) without feeling guilty. I agree that's extreme, but give me a break.
I thought things had cooled down the next day or two (makeup OTs) but then out of the blue the wife went through and deleted the pictures on my camera - which simply pissed me off. The following is all that's left. It was intended to be a humorous presentation to the lounge: (a) picture of hotties, (b) picture of wife holding up hand in front of camera, (c) picture of ocean as wife punched hubby in stomach.
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your dw already feels upset over the pics and if she finds this thread and reads it, i think it'll add to the bad feelings that she is already harboring. kinda disrespectful....that's just me. it's almost as if you're trying to justify something.
My husband wouldn't take them. He would find it disrespectful to me because he would think if I did it, it would be disrespectful to him. Does he look? Sure. Do I? Sure. But we don't ogle in front of the other. He might mention a girl being attractive, as I might mention a man being attractive, but that's it. It's just the line of respect we draw with each other and our marriage. A picture of strange girls is just....weird...and kinda creepy.
And I agree with BG---it's not the girls' fault. They wore bikinis to the beach....that's fairly normal.
I would slap the shit out of my man if he did that in front of me...but the difference is he wouldnt because he knows where we draw the line...but hell we check out others and even point them out to the other...and we laugh..
Like you said, it's respect.
I would slap the shit out of my man if he did that in front of me...but the difference is he wouldnt because he knows where we draw the line...but hell we check out others and even point them out to the other...and we laugh..
Like you said, it's respect.
He seems like a good guy. No need to make an issue over a few photos when she knows her husband would never stray.
Rammy shouldn't have to walk on eggshells his whole life.
... the occasional OTs and a night out with the boys is a welcome blessing
Proof that men should only be in the kitchen on the way to the garage
If so then this doesn't sound so much like a jealousy issue as much as a respect issue. I know it sucks to argue with a spouse...I hope that you're each listening to each other so that your relationships continues to grow in a positive direction.
naughty by naturejust stupid ... but lovable creatures most of the time.Rammy may be an ass for what he did, but leave the girls at the beach out of this. I mean it's a beach, what do you expect them to wear...a friggin toga??
And yes, I wear a bikini to the beach...guess that makes me a whore, thanks..
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You do realize the photos were of hotties as they passed by my kids ... sure it was planned but my insecure ass wife notices these honeys coming from a mile away and sets her radar off to make sure I'm not checking them out. Did you not see the photo? That was the very first photo (of the 4 I took) and it set her off.
1. You should have asked if it's that time of the month
2. should have handed her a mydol and a heatpad
3. set-up a live feed for the lounge of her kicking your ass
Wow PG, maybe shouldnt judge someone you don't know here. Just because someone walks a "beach" in a Bikini doesn't make them a whore.
Rammy may be an ass for what he did, but leave the girls at the beach out of this. I mean it's a beach, what do you expect them to wear...a friggin toga??
And yes, I wear a bikini to the beach...guess that makes me a whore, thanks..
I called the girls skanks in a previous post... mostly because I say skank a lot of the time. Not because I was really wanting to blame them.
Then he pulled that out of my entire post and tried to make me look stupid instead of addressing the real issue (that jj120381202345342523452665487322 kid).
So I made a joke. About the seagulls. Because he said it was the same thing as photographing hot women. Because seagulls are the same as hot women, apparently.
I wear a bikini, too. So why would I call you and every woman a whore that wears a bikini?
What camera do you use?
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