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Real-life drama at the beach ... Rammy's in trouble again ... apparently the wife doesn't like me taking pictures of other women
July 22, 2009 at
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Amongst the ~200 photos I took last week at the beach, I snapped 3-4 pictures of some hotties that were walking up and down the beach. The wife took great offense to this and I thought it was playful at first but (as women are apt to do) an argument ensued which turned into her giving me the cold, silent treatment for the next 24 hours. She indicated I was "to take pictures of only her & the kids".
Disrespectful? Immature? In hindsight a little, but in her words "I'm married, I'm not dead". I wasn't peeping through a peephole at some ESPN hottie, I was taking a picture of someone strolling a few yards in front of me proudly displaying the goods that God gave her. Just how insecure can she be?
Is this a potential for a double standard? The wife had a massage at a day spa from a "young surfer dude" who was checking her out. Do I come out with the directive "no man can touch you except for me at any time". To take it to another level, shouldn't I be able to get lap dances (I don't btw) without feeling guilty. I agree that's extreme, but give me a break.
I thought things had cooled down the next day or two (makeup OTs) but then out of the blue the wife went through and deleted the pictures on my camera - which simply pissed me off. The following is all that's left. It was intended to be a humorous presentation to the lounge: (a) picture of hotties, (b) picture of wife holding up hand in front of camera, (c) picture of ocean as wife punched hubby in stomach.
Disrespectful? Immature? In hindsight a little, but in her words "I'm married, I'm not dead". I wasn't peeping through a peephole at some ESPN hottie, I was taking a picture of someone strolling a few yards in front of me proudly displaying the goods that God gave her. Just how insecure can she be?
Is this a potential for a double standard? The wife had a massage at a day spa from a "young surfer dude" who was checking her out. Do I come out with the directive "no man can touch you except for me at any time". To take it to another level, shouldn't I be able to get lap dances (I don't btw) without feeling guilty. I agree that's extreme, but give me a break.
I thought things had cooled down the next day or two (makeup OTs) but then out of the blue the wife went through and deleted the pictures on my camera - which simply pissed me off. The following is all that's left. It was intended to be a humorous presentation to the lounge: (a) picture of hotties, (b) picture of wife holding up hand in front of camera, (c) picture of ocean as wife punched hubby in stomach.
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Anyways, my fiancees friends always text him naked pics of women on his cell phone...should I delete them?
It was funny when we went to verizon store to get the firmware updated on his phone. When we came back an hour later to get the phone, the kid was looking like he was trying not to laugh and the girl wouldnt even look at us. And they must have thought I had no clue what was on there.
Sadly there is stuff worse then Bennos posts...
Anyways, my fiancees friends always text him naked pics of women on his cell phone...should I delete them?
It was funny when we went to verizon store to get the firmware updated on his phone. When we came back an hour later to get the phone, the kid was looking like he was trying not to laugh and the girl wouldnt even look at us. And they must have thought I had no clue what was on there.
Sadly there is stuff worse then Bennos posts...
Mark this date down, for once BG is going to shut her mouth. And I know you gals won't be agreeing with me..
And I haven't given my opinion on the whole thing yet for a reason. How do you know I wouldn't agree with you?
And I haven't given my opinion on the whole thing yet for a reason. How do you know I wouldn't agree with you?
Funny thing is by trying not to create drama, I created MORE drama
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LOOK AT ME...LOOK AT ME..I'm an attention whore
/iiiaaws
Not that there's anything different in that.
Not that there's anything different in that.
Your last comment is very telling.. Do you think the man needs to be totally submissive for a marriage to work? I don't. I also don't think the woman should be submissive either.
These "other women" were just people walking on the beach. How is that different than taking pictures of a seagull?
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Wait...is that Rammy at the beach?
Wait...is that Rammy at the beach?
Ahhhh.
Wait...is that Rammy at the beach?
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