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Who needs a Hug?

27,804 541 December 22, 2005 at 06:33 PM
We fellow Loungers are giving them away today. Anyone need one? All ya gotta do is ask!

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ThriftShopperNC
07-19-2008 at 10:37 PM.
07-19-2008 at 10:37 PM.
Quote from ashleyl0413 :
Thanks...



Yeah, except the issue I am having involves someone who frequents this forum and would be angry if I explained the Frown in an open forum...so I'm stuck asking for hugs.

To make it short...I think I am getting dumped after a 5 year (Four dating one as friends) relationship.
hug hug hug hug hug

If you are the phone getting dumped, who gives a gosh darn if he gets upset? Besides you could change names.

Like if he's named John, change it to "Jason" for your posts Smilie
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ashleyl0413
07-19-2008 at 10:40 PM.
07-19-2008 at 10:40 PM.
Quote from ThriftShopperNC :
hug hug hug hug hug

If you are the phone getting dumped, who gives a gosh darn if he gets upset? Besides you could change names.

Like if he's named John, change it to "Jason" for your posts Smilie
Yeah, this screen name is brutally obvious...I use the same name for like everything.
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07-19-2008 at 10:45 PM.
07-19-2008 at 10:45 PM.
Quote from ashleyl0413 :
Yeah, this screen name is brutally obvious...I use the same name for like everything.
still, if you're getting dumped, who cares what he thinks??
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07-19-2008 at 10:48 PM.
07-19-2008 at 10:48 PM.
Quote from ThriftShopperNC :
still, if you're getting dumped, who cares what he thinks??
Well, if he does read this I will regret it. I am not for sure getting dumped. He withdrew all affection, doesn't say "I love you" for the past few weeks, then was telling me on his lay-over on his flight home he is going to stop at this girls house that was obsessed with him and cuddle, and that I should be okay with that. I shouldn't be mad, he says he senses jealousy, so I told him to put himself in my shoes. He replied with "I don't have time for that right now I am tired." and that was the end of it.

Yes, I know I should just leave him and be over it but it hurts so bad Frown.
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07-19-2008 at 10:53 PM.
07-19-2008 at 10:53 PM.
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Well, if he does read this I will regret it. I am not for sure getting dumped. He withdrew all affection, doesn't say "I love you" for the past few weeks, then was telling me on his lay-over on his flight home he is going to stop at this girls house that was obsessed with him and cuddle, and that I should be okay with that. I shouldn't be mad, he says he senses jealousy, so I told him to put himself in my shoes. He replied with "I don't have time for that right now I am tired." and that was the end of it.

Yes, I know I should just leave him and be over it but it hurts so bad Frown.
Aw, you do need a hug! hug hug hug hug

Yes, he does sound like an azz, but I know it is painful to leave someone, even if they aren't too nice.

I'm sorry hon!
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07-19-2008 at 10:55 PM.
07-19-2008 at 10:55 PM.
Quote from ThriftShopperNC :
Aw, you do need a hug! hug hug hug hug

Yes, he does sound like an azz, but I know it is painful to leave someone, even if they aren't too nice.

I'm sorry hon!
Thanks...I feel like such an idiot when I sit here and know that I am being treated poorly, but want so badly for him to call me tomorrow and apologize and say everything is okay. Yes, I have it bad Frown Frown
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07-19-2008 at 10:59 PM.
07-19-2008 at 10:59 PM.
Quote from ashleyl0413 :
Thanks...I feel like such an idiot when I sit here and know that I am being treated poorly, but want so badly for him to call me tomorrow and apologize and say everything is okay. Yes, I have it bad Frown Frown
I've been there and done that. It hurts, and I know this sounds cheesy, but there ARE other fish in the sea.

I had a bad break up with a BF, and then once I got over it, and dated a few really crap guys once or twice, I met my husband, who is the sweetest nicest, most understanding guy out there.

It may not feel like it, but there are other guys out there, and one of them might be the "one" who treats you like you deserve to be treated.
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07-19-2008 at 11:00 PM.
07-19-2008 at 11:00 PM.
Quote from ashleyl0413 :
Thanks...I feel like such an idiot when I sit here and know that I am being treated poorly, but want so badly for him to call me tomorrow and apologize and say everything is okay. Yes, I have it bad Frown Frown
hug

Quote from ThriftShopperNC :
I've been there and done that. It hurts, and I know this sounds cheesy, but there ARE other fish in the sea.

I had a bad break up with a BF, and then once I got over it, and dated a few really crap guys once or twice, I met my husband, who is the sweetest nicest, most understanding guy out there.

It may not feel like it, but there are other guys out there, and one of them might be the "one" who treats you like you deserve to be treated.
hug
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07-19-2008 at 11:04 PM.
07-19-2008 at 11:04 PM.
I could use a hug tonight. Sadwalk

My husband is such an ass. I've dealt a long time with loving and hating him at the same time...and it's just getting harder and harder to love him.
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07-19-2008 at 11:05 PM.
07-19-2008 at 11:05 PM.
Quote from BrgnHntr :
I could use a hug tonight. Sadwalk

My husband is such an ass. I've dealt a long time with loving and hating him at the same time...and it's just getting harder and harder to love him.
hug Seems its just that time for men to be buttholes.
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07-19-2008 at 11:07 PM.
07-19-2008 at 11:07 PM.
Quote from BrgnHntr :
I could use a hug tonight. Sadwalk

My husband is such an ass. I've dealt a long time with loving and hating him at the same time...and it's just getting harder and harder to love him.
hug hug

Quote from ashleyl0413 :
hug Seems its just that time for men to be buttholes.
except for my husband. But he is sleeping, and they are always MUCH nicer while sleeping Smilie Kinda like kids. And old folks. Some types/groups of people are so much nicer to be around when they are asleep!
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07-19-2008 at 11:09 PM.
07-19-2008 at 11:09 PM.
Quote from ThriftShopperNC :
hug hug


except for my husband. But he is sleeping, and they are always MUCH nicer while sleeping Smilie Kinda like kids. And old folks. Some types/groups of people are so much nicer to be around when they are asleep!
Yeah. I should be sleeping soon. I think I am all cried out, nothing left.
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07-19-2008 at 11:11 PM.
07-19-2008 at 11:11 PM.
Quote from ashleyl0413 :
Well, if he does read this I will regret it. I am not for sure getting dumped. He withdrew all affection, doesn't say "I love you" for the past few weeks, then was telling me on his lay-over on his flight home he is going to stop at this girls house that was obsessed with him and cuddle, and that I should be okay with that. I shouldn't be mad, he says he senses jealousy, so I told him to put himself in my shoes. He replied with "I don't have time for that right now I am tired." and that was the end of it.

Yes, I know I should just leave him and be over it but it hurts so bad Frown.
If you're not getting dumped, then dump him! Trust me, it'll hurt worse down the road if you stay with him. I promise.
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07-19-2008 at 11:12 PM.
07-19-2008 at 11:12 PM.
Quote from BrgnHntr :
I could use a hug tonight. Sadwalk

My husband is such an ass. I've dealt a long time with loving and hating him at the same time...and it's just getting harder and harder to love him.
hug hug
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08-17-2008 at 01:19 PM.
08-17-2008 at 01:19 PM.
This one is for serra...

hug.just.hug
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