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Question about the threesome

1,436 50 September 10, 2010 at 09:48 AM in Chat
Let's say if you are going to have a threesome, is it true that the third person better be a stranger?
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AbbyGabby
09-10-2010 at 10:09 AM.
09-10-2010 at 10:09 AM.
Quote from Melmo :
But why do you need a third person to satisfy what is lost in a relationship? It's a red flag that something is missing and you need something outside the relationship to fulfill it. If both parties agree, that's even worse. Both are unhappy with the sex between each other and need another? Conservative? no....just believe in monogamy.
I bet you only have sex in Missionary position in the dark, don't you? And never on Sunday, because that's a holy day?

I'm not going to discuss this kind of thing with you. shake head
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OwenKealy
09-10-2010 at 10:09 AM.
09-10-2010 at 10:09 AM.
Quote from Melmo :
But why do you need a third person to satisfy what is lost in a relationship? It's a red flag that something is missing and you need something outside the relationship to fulfill it. If both parties agree, that's even worse. Both are unhappy with the sex between each other and need another? Conservative? no....just believe in monogamy.
Or they could just want to have a little random fun.
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beanqueen
09-10-2010 at 10:09 AM.
09-10-2010 at 10:09 AM.
Quote from wiles :
boys are soooooo scared of MMF 3somes but are all YEAH for FFM 3somes
Hahah...yeah...it's weird...laugh out loud

I don't think it *has* to be a stranger, but if it's not it better be someone who won't bring it up or make you feel awkward or that either one of you will be jealous of...ie someone decently attractive enough that you wanna see them naked but not so much so that either of you are really interested...

Idk...I really think 3somes are just something that happens...planning it makes it weird...
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Melmo
09-10-2010 at 10:10 AM.
09-10-2010 at 10:10 AM.
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I bet you only have sex in Missionary position in the dark, don't you? And never on Sunday, because that's a holy day?

I'm not going to discuss this kind of thing with you. shake head
lol ...not quite Wink I just dont believe a couple can go outside of the relationship for sex and stay together.
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travisshyn
09-10-2010 at 10:10 AM.
09-10-2010 at 10:10 AM.
it should only be with sub-humans
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AbbyGabby
09-10-2010 at 10:11 AM.
09-10-2010 at 10:11 AM.
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Scratchhead

Not committing fraudulent activity is being conservative? Damn.. does that mean all the liberals need to be locked up? Scratchchin
Fraudulent? Really? Giving them a black ipod in exchange for an orange one is fraudulent? They carry that ipod in thousands of stores across the country. You think they care if this particular ipod came from an Amazon warehouse? laugh out loud
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incogito
09-10-2010 at 10:11 AM.
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Do people actually have threesomes? I thought it was a porn thing.
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AbbyGabby
09-10-2010 at 10:12 AM.
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Quote from OwenKealy :
Or they could just want to have a little random fun.
Exactly.
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MissyMooMoo
09-10-2010 at 10:13 AM.
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definitely a sign that your relationship is in trouble
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idkist
09-10-2010 at 10:14 AM.
09-10-2010 at 10:14 AM.
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it should only be with sub-humans
what like midgets?
LMAO
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AbbyGabby
09-10-2010 at 10:14 AM.
09-10-2010 at 10:14 AM.
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definitely a sign that your relationship is in trouble
I'll email you in 40 years when we're still together laugh out loud

You people!! Roll
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beanqueen
09-10-2010 at 10:14 AM.
09-10-2010 at 10:14 AM.
Quote from Melmo :
But why do you need a third person to satisfy what is lost in a relationship? It's a red flag that something is missing and you need something outside the relationship to fulfill it. If both parties agree, that's even worse. Both are unhappy with the sex between each other and need another? Conservative? no....just believe in monogamy.
I don't think it's that something is lost in the relationship so much as trying something new and different...I am more than happy with my sex life and so is my SO and I don't think either of us could do something like that unless we were suuuuuuuuper secure in our relationship...I actually think something like a 3some means that all the problems are pretty much solved to the extent that we could do something that would normally jeapordize a relationship but doesn't because of the security.

I guess I'm just saying that it's not a *need* but more a whim, maybe we could try this kinda thing for shits and giggles.
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vviles
09-10-2010 at 10:17 AM.
09-10-2010 at 10:17 AM.
Quote from jmegirl :
Wait, what?

It's not at all possible that two people want to bring someone else into their bedroom together, to enjoy the experience as a couple? How are you cheating if it's something you both want?

There are way too many conservative people in the Lounge today. First people get mad that someone made an even exchange for an ipod at a store they didn't purchase the ipod from, and now this? Facepalm
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Quote from Melmo :
But why do you need a third person to satisfy what is lost in a relationship? It's a red flag that something is missing and you need something outside the relationship to fulfill it. If both parties agree, that's even worse. Both are unhappy with the sex between each other and need another? Conservative? no....just believe in monogamy.
who said 2 of the members in the 3some have to be in a relationship?
Cant you just all be friends? Its not always BF/GF/GF's hot friend
it can be like friend/friend/friend's sex buddy

Quote from OwenKealy :
Because - Oh Noes - you might see another guy's junk!

I've always facepalmed at the fear of the MMF threesome.

But hey, keep everyone happy, just snag another couple.
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Brilliant!
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09-10-2010 at 10:17 AM.
09-10-2010 at 10:17 AM.
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I'll email you in 40 years when we're still together laugh out loud

You people!! Roll

It's just my opinion but it's based on what I have witnessed happening for the past 30 years to people's relationships. If your relationship isn't in trouble already, there's a good chance that it will be soon. Maybe if it was a one time thing it would be okay. Otherwise, problems will almost definitely start developing.

I hope the best for you. I definitely don't have any ill will towards you.
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appleyum
09-10-2010 at 10:19 AM.
09-10-2010 at 10:19 AM.
Quote from jmegirl :
Fraudulent? Really? Giving them a black ipod in exchange for an orange one is fraudulent? They carry that ipod in thousands of stores across the country. You think they care if this particular ipod came from an Amazon warehouse? laugh out loud
Yep...because she didn't buy the black ones from Best Buy.

Have you ever took a course in business or marketing? Or owned a business? Carry the correct color in-stock can make a huge difference. If orange is a more popular than black then what she did seriously harmed the store.

Did she tell Best Buy customer rep that the black ipod came from Amazon? If she did do you think Best Buy would have taken it?
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