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For Women Only..What's the largest age difference to get married?

2,091 502 October 13, 2010 at 04:52 AM in Chat
I am a man.....I have a girl that is interested in marrying me....I feel uncomfortable with our age difference and feel she is too young, but need other opinions because I am no expert in marriage, having never done it before.

I just want to get different opinions on what the women on this board feel is a reasonable (to them) age difference...Please post your opinion, no matter what that is. I am asking women only because I feel they are more in tune with this and have a better perspective...

Thanks in advance.

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Iaaaiws
10-13-2010 at 01:12 PM.
10-13-2010 at 01:12 PM.
Quote from dalokgawd :
Does anyone else think that this entire post constitutes gold digging? Dontknow
That entire online persona constitutes gold digging.
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Fallacy
10-13-2010 at 01:16 PM.
10-13-2010 at 01:16 PM.
Quote from Iaaaiws :
That entire online persona constitutes gold digging.
Iagree
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10-13-2010 at 01:52 PM.
10-13-2010 at 01:52 PM.
Quote from dalokgawd :
Does anyone else think that this entire post constitutes gold digging? Dontknow
MEN. BLAH whyyyyyyyyy?
WHYYYYYYY does it constitue gold digging? women have requirements. they ALL do. and anyone who says differnet. is single.
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Titansfan1234
10-13-2010 at 01:53 PM.
10-13-2010 at 01:53 PM.
Quote from Tamales. :
MEN. BLAH whyyyyyyyyy?
WHYYYYYYY does it constitue gold digging? women have requirements. they ALL do. and anyone who says differnet. is single.
Yes, but to have an acceptable age range dependent on money is gold digging.
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Fallacy
10-13-2010 at 01:54 PM.
10-13-2010 at 01:54 PM.
Quote from Tamales. :
MEN. BLAH whyyyyyyyyy?
WHYYYYYYY does it constitue gold digging? women have requirements. they ALL do. and anyone who says differnet. is single.
Iagree

All women have requirements. Every single one of them.

But only the gold digging ones require a $ amount, the non-gold digging ones care about looks, personality, penis size, etc.
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10-13-2010 at 01:59 PM.
10-13-2010 at 01:59 PM.
Quote from Titansfan1234 :
Yes, but to have an acceptable age range dependent on money is gold digging.
ok. so what should the dependable age range be based on???
looks? that would make u superficial.
a persons income highly affects their social status? Unsure and mentality. theyre WHOLE persona.
*this does not apply to women.
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dalokgawd
10-13-2010 at 02:06 PM.
10-13-2010 at 02:06 PM.
Quote from Titansfan1234 :
Yes, but to have an acceptable age range dependent on money is gold digging.
I think that's the DEFINITION of gold digging.
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coulditbeSatan
10-13-2010 at 05:28 PM.
10-13-2010 at 05:28 PM.
OP you are concentrating on the wrong thing. Pay attention to the most basic and important requirements:

1) Is she hot?
2)Spit or swallow?
3) Real or silicone?
4) Does she bring you a beer when you snap your fingers?
5) Is she a great housekeeper an accomplished chef in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom? Just remember you can hire a maid and a cook.Wink5
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10-13-2010 at 05:38 PM.
10-13-2010 at 05:38 PM.
34? I don't know.
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petaaboo
10-13-2010 at 07:50 PM.
10-13-2010 at 07:50 PM.
Apparently you don't love her that much, or you will not concern so much about age difference.
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Filet-O-Fish
10-13-2010 at 09:58 PM.
10-13-2010 at 09:58 PM.
Quote from MissyMooMoo :
I was 25 when I met my future husband. He was 11 years older then me. It's funny because I thought he was younger then his actual age and he thought I was older. We both felt awkward when we found out the age difference. We didn't let the age difference change anything. It was just weird when we discovered it about 3 weeks after we had first met.

Our son was only 6 years old when he passed away. But I think we would still be together if he were alive.

At my ripe old age now, 11 year age difference is nothing.
men usually look a lot younger than their actual real age.

Quote from vec :
I will answer this for all of the Lounge women. It depends on the size of the guys wallet. The higher the income, the higher the age. Low income, low age. It's as simple as that.

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100% agreed! look at Anna Nicole Smith.
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Filet-O-Fish
10-13-2010 at 10:02 PM.
10-13-2010 at 10:02 PM.
Quote from dalokgawd :
Does anyone else think that this entire post constitutes gold digging? Dontknow
gold digging goes both ways IMO....young hot girl is looking for the $$$, old rich man is looking for the young fresh you know what.....so $ for ass. fair trade i guess.
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Maleficent
10-13-2010 at 11:37 PM.
10-13-2010 at 11:37 PM.
Quote from Titansfan1234 :
Yes, but to have an acceptable age range dependent on money is gold digging.
Definitely.

Quote from Fallacy :
Iagree

All women have requirements. Every single one of them.

But only the gold digging ones require a $ amount, the non-gold digging ones care about looks, personality, penis size, etc.
Iagree

Except the part about looks and penis size, those were never on my requirements list. laugh out loud

Quote from Tamales. :
ok. so what should the dependable age range be based on???
looks? that would make u superficial.
a persons income highly affects their social status? Unsure and mentality. theyre WHOLE persona.
*this does not apply to women.
Facepalm

Wow... just wow. I don't think I could ever understand women that think this way. It's like an entirely different species. Women are from Venus, my ass. It's like Venus and a bowl of soup.

Quote from coulditbeSatan :
OP you are concentrating on the wrong thing. Pay attention to the most basic and important requirements:

1) Is she hot?
2)Spit or swallow?
3) Real or silicone?
4) Does she bring you a beer when you snap your fingers?
5) Is she a great housekeeper an accomplished chef in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom? Just remember you can hire a maid and a cook.Wink5
Oh look, a male version of sbux. laugh out loud


You two are perfect for each other. LMAO
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10-14-2010 at 06:51 AM.
10-14-2010 at 06:51 AM.
Quote from coulditbeSatan :
OP you are concentrating on the wrong thing. Pay attention to the most basic and important requirements:

1) Is she hot?
2)Spit or swallow?
3) Real or silicone?
4) Does she bring you a beer when you snap your fingers?
5) Is she a great housekeeper an accomplished chef in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom? Just remember you can hire a maid and a cook.Wink5
I OBJECT. men REALLY dont wanna hire a maid or cook. i think u should look into wether she can cook or not. are her toliets clean? is a MORE important ? then her age. SERIOUSLY. her age will not make u miserable 15 yrs from now. a toliet ring however...is gonna bug the shit outta ya.
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10-14-2010 at 06:53 AM.
10-14-2010 at 06:53 AM.
Quote from Maleficent :
Definitely.



Iagree

Except the part about looks and penis size, those were never on my requirements list. laugh out loud



Facepalm

Wow... just wow. I don't think I could ever understand women that think this way. It's like an entirely different species. Women are from Venus, my ass. It's like Venus and a bowl of soup.



Oh look, a male version of sbux. laugh out loud


You two are perfect for each other. LMAO
are u a guy? or girl? u can PM me if u want Smilie
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