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Missing 16 year old...please read! Update Post 133 - Found

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Hello, everyone. My daughter's friend is missing. From all reports, she ran away with her boyfriend on Monday, April 11. The last message that she left said that she was going to shut her phone off and throw it out the car window. That call was placed in Fond du Lac, WI.

I know this is a HUGE site and gets a lot of traffic, so I'm asking if everyone could keep an eye out for her car. It is a light green 2006 Ford Focus, Wisconsin plate 842 KDV.

Casey is 5'6, medium to thin build with shoulder length dark hair. Kris (her boyfriend) is 17 years old, a bit taller with shoulder length blonde shaggy hair. He is running away from legal trouble (I don't know what kind of trouble) but it should be noted that he stole a car 2 years ago and was found in New Mexico after 2 days. Because of that fact, they could be anywhere.

If you see them or their car, please call the police.

Here [facebook.com] is a link to a facebook page her mother created. It contains photos and more information.

Thank you for reading! I know her mother is frantic, and we are trying to get the message out so hopefully she can be brought home safely.

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04-19-2011 at 09:06 AM.
04-19-2011 at 09:06 AM.
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04-19-2011 at 09:15 AM.
04-19-2011 at 09:15 AM.
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theres a difference between parenting and helicoptering….
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uf...ature=fvwp

Amen Dance13 You're preaching to the choir. nod
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04-19-2011 at 09:20 AM.
04-19-2011 at 09:20 AM.
Quote from MissyMooMoo :
Amen Dance13 You're preaching to the choir. nod
i dont know the specifics but this parent is sounding like this mother - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qc...ature=fvwp
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tmcws
04-19-2011 at 12:36 PM.
04-19-2011 at 12:36 PM.
Quote from tigger_too_wooh :
If they cross state lines then he can be arrested for kidnapping and they should be able to put out an amber alert at that point...
The problem is that they have to prove the kids crossed state lines before an Amber Alert will be issued. With no confirmed sightings and no word from the kids, it's impossible to prove. Frown

Quote from rachael_9667 :
Any word today?

Also, I don't get the RIP pages - are you talking about 4chan the internet group/rickroll people? Why would they get involved with a missing girl?
Nothing. At all. Everyone feels like the boy's friends are involved, because they're watching Facebook and any possible sighting makes them "remember" something. Someone saw them in Arkansas? Oh yeah, they might have said something about Arkansas...or was it New York? ....farking idiots. Mad

I have no idea why 4chan got involved, but I was able to find a cached page from them making jokes about it and cross-posting fake leads they had put on Casey's page. If they would help, there are so many of them...they have so much ability to do good in this situation!

Quote from daniel32 :
what's with the 4chan part?

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See above. I don't know why they found it funny, but I guess they did.

Quote from LinuxChick :
At 16 she's full of hormones and errant irrational decision making is to be expected. I'm certain that at some point she will want and try to leave realizing that she's made a mistake. Again, I hope not just that she comes home safe but that he does also and that he gets his life together. heart

P.S. Please understand that at some point she will change her mind about being with him away from her friends and family. At that point if he refused to let her leave it would be kidnapping and false imprisonment. I suspect she'll change her mind when he tries to pimp her out to get money. Sorry to be blunt. Frown
This boy has been on papers since he was around 10 years old, if that gives you any insight as to his personality. When he took off two years ago, he convinced a friend to run with him. That friend's mom is helping with the search, and from what she says, he's more conniving than I ever would have thought possible in a human being, much less a teenager.

Quote from HeyLookItsMe :
ORshe tricked him into having unprotected sex with her telling him she was on the pill, she is now preggers with his baby. she is telling him he has to raise the baby and her parents want to abort it so they have to run away from home….


why does he have to be the bad guy?


why are we making up stories as to what might be happening….
Trust me, I've known Casey for several years. I'm not saying she's always been an angel, but she has NEVER not answered a phone call from her Mom. She has never not come home when she said she would. It speaks volumes that the boy's parents aren't helping search, because they don't want him to come back.

Quote from Curtieson :
Again...everyone is painting this as a completely one way situation...does the girl have a record? She is hanging out with "felons" so it wouldn't surprise me... And to add...the girl never mentioned she was running away with her BF, it is all admittedly her mothers assumption.

I guess it just bugs me that everyone's 1st assumption is that the boy is controlling the girl in this situation, and I believe that is solely just because the girls mom is the one freaking out and calling Internets-11, even though the girl is the one with the car and it is widely known girls are more mature at a younger age then boys so really she could be the one manipulating him.

The girl did tell her mom that she was leaving. The last call she made was from the area of the boy's home. He also went missing at the exact same time. The family is not making every lead known, because his friends are possibly passing the leads back to him.
As far as the boy controlling the girl or vice versa...honestly, does it REALLY matter? Two minors are missing and have been for 8 days. No one has seen or heard from them. We want them to come home. However, just to put it out there for inquiring minds, Casey does not have a record.

Quote from Fallacy :
Facepalm some of you are just as bad as the people who made the RIP pages.
I totally farking agree.

Quote from HeyLookItsMe :
this story is soo much drama it just screams over-protective parent…. i have no doubts as to why that girl ran…. her parents were smothering her to death….
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i dont know the specifics but this parent is sounding like this mother - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qc...ature=fvwp
If anything, it's the opposite. The mom has always tried to be a good parent, although she took the "friend" approach perhaps a little too much. I'm not here to judge her parenting style, but I will say that she is not, nor was she ever an overprotective, smothering parent.
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04-19-2011 at 12:51 PM.
04-19-2011 at 12:51 PM.
Quote from HeyLookItsMe :
i dont know the specifics but this parent is sounding like this mother - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QctvGpuY7Ck&NR=1&feature=fvwp
How so? Those kids are in college. This girl is 16. I recognize that's only a couple of years of difference, but when you're talking about teenagers, a lot of growing happens in those years.
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04-19-2011 at 12:53 PM.
04-19-2011 at 12:53 PM.
Quote from tmcws :
As far as the boy controlling the girl or vice versa...honestly, does it REALLY matter? Two minors are missing and have been for 8 days. No one has seen or heard from them. We want them to come home. However, just to put it out there for inquiring minds, Casey does not have a record.
Well...yea...it kind of does...people are going on and on about how she is being controlled against her own will...

Really, the whole cop thing probably has her so spooked that she won't try to contact home for weeks...add to that all the "we just want her home" stuff which in her mind "home" = "without the love of my life since they will make me leave him"....she is never going to come back because in her mind it isn't worth it.

Yea, it is all hind sight, but maybe it would have been better to start without the cops/amber alerts/major freak-out posting car plates all over the internet and she could have just sent a personal, private msg to all of her and his friends saying she would like a call to check in and know she was safe.

Again...I feel for you and your friend (bold for honesty)...but I for sure think inviting 500,000 people on facebook + all the other internet forums is a tad bit drastic.
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04-19-2011 at 12:58 PM.
04-19-2011 at 12:58 PM.
Quote from SlicKitty :
How so? Those kids are in college. This girl is 16. I recognize that's only a couple of years of difference, but when you're talking about teenagers, a lot of growing happens in those years.
That exact same argument could be used to prove that a 16 year old is basically like an 18 yo because "at 16 you are much more mature then you would think"

Every single kid is different...we don't know the girl OR the boy yet 600k+ people are being sent looking for her. (But in all honesty...the lady in the video is just plain whacked out, haha)
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04-19-2011 at 01:01 PM.
04-19-2011 at 01:01 PM.
We need pics of her to better assess ther situation.
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04-19-2011 at 01:07 PM.
04-19-2011 at 01:07 PM.
Quote from tmcws :
Trust me, I've known Casey for several years. I'm not saying she's always been an angel, but she has NEVER not answered a phone call from her Mom. She has never not come home when she said she would. It speaks volumes that the boy's parents aren't helping search, because they don't want him to come back.
yes and everyone is always so predictable… you know the one thing that is always lacking in news reports is people saying "I never would have thought they would do this, they were quiet and nice"…. its always the angry mean people who do the f'ed up stuff…..


"Mr. Klebold said he had no idea what happened or why, and indicated that Dylan was his best friend and that they spent a lot of time together," investigators wrote in an April 30 report. " [tripod.com]The Klebolds indicated that Dylan was gentle, and was that way until the day he died." [tripod.com]


Friends of the suspect call the accused shooter a warm guy who would help others with work around the house. Tonya Haltom says the suspect is her son's best friend. She says the teen suspect stayed at here home Thursday night. [wishtv.com]




The mother of former South Carolina standout Kenny McKinley's 1-year-old son says she never suspected the Denver Broncos receiver would take his own life. [go.com]
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04-19-2011 at 01:10 PM.
04-19-2011 at 01:10 PM.
Quote from tmcws :

The girl did tell her mom that she was leaving. The last call she made was from the area of the boy's home. He also went missing at the exact same time. The family is not making every lead known, because his friends are possibly passing the leads back to him.
As far as the boy controlling the girl or vice versa...honestly, does it REALLY matter? Two minors are missing and have been for 8 days. No one has seen or heard from them. We want them to come home. However, just to put it out there for inquiring minds, Casey does not have a record.
so then she isnt reall missing… she simply doesnt want to be found...
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04-19-2011 at 01:12 PM.
04-19-2011 at 01:12 PM.
Quote from Curtieson :

Again...I feel for you and your friend (bold for honesty)...but I for sure think inviting 500,000 people on facebook + all the other internet forums is a tad bit drastic.

Iagree


and it in some ways disparages those who are truly kidnapped/abducted and in REAL DANGER
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04-19-2011 at 01:19 PM.
04-19-2011 at 01:19 PM.
Quote from HeyLookItsMe :
Iagree


and it in some ways disparages those who are truly kidnapped/abducted and in REAL DANGER

Ummm...yeah. The mother should stop looking for her child because it trivalizes others that are in trouble too. Roll Eyes (Sarcastic)

I guess you need to set up a system so that people can get an okay from you before they decide that their child is in a dangerous situation. Maybe you can have some kind of online application for them to fill out. I'm sure that you are a much better judge of when a parent should start to worry about their own children then they are. nod
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04-19-2011 at 01:19 PM.
04-19-2011 at 01:19 PM.
Quote from HeyLookItsMe :
so then she isnt reall missing… she simply doesnt want to be found...

Roll Eyes (Sarcastic) My mom always said that if you're not part of the solution, you're part of the problem. Nothing you've said to this point does anything to help find Casey or Kris. Sorry I've asked you to waste your time by glancing at passing cars. Please go on about your busy life and forget about it. wave
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04-19-2011 at 01:21 PM.
04-19-2011 at 01:21 PM.
Quote from MissyMooMoo :
Ummm...yeah. The mother should stop looking for her child because it trivalizes others that are in trouble too. Roll Eyes (Sarcastic)

I guess you need to set up a system so that people can get an okay from you before they decide that their child is in a dangerous situation. Maybe you can have some kind of online application for them to fill out. I'm sure that you are a much better judge of when a parent should start worry then they are. nod

not what i said… the manner in which she is doing it is overboard and is disparaging because its simply not needed. her daughter ran away but the mom wants her situation to be handled as if her daughter were abducted…..
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04-19-2011 at 01:21 PM.
04-19-2011 at 01:21 PM.
Quote from Curtieson :
That exact same argument could be used to prove that a 16 year old is basically like an 18 yo because "at 16 you are much more mature then you would think"

Every single kid is different...we don't know the girl OR the boy yet 600k+ people are being sent looking for her. (But in all honesty...the lady in the video is just plain whacked out, haha)
No, it can't. Not legally [thefreedictionary.com], anyway. The law doesn't say, "Unless, of course...they're super-duper mature...in which case...anything goes."
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