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if you had the chance to be with a post-op transsexual...

5,257 3,968 September 21, 2011 at 06:50 AM in Chat (2)
...would you?

i started thinking about this recently when i saw an old Real World episode with Katelynn (she used to be a he).

now with Chaz Bono on DWTS (he used to be a she) it has made me curious how others feel.

guys, would you be intimate with a woman who used to be a man?
ladies, would you be intimate with a man who used to be a woman?


i just popped some fresh Popcorn

who are you, and who would you do?
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beanqueen
09-21-2011 at 08:28 AM.
09-21-2011 at 08:28 AM.
Quote from Landers :
Lemme guess, you have some sort of psych degree or at the least a minor in it.
No, I'm a chemist that has a strong interest in genetics and human sexuality. Also a strong interest in human rights and therefore wish that people of all different types could be better understood and treated fairly.
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extreme2700
09-21-2011 at 08:33 AM.
09-21-2011 at 08:33 AM.
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Not necessarily, many people experience the feeling that who they are doesn't fit with society's view of their sex when placed in a certain gender role. I just can't agree with you thinking someone is meant to be born a certain way, when genetics is such a complicated thing and so much can go wrong with the way genes split and align, etc. That's why there are things like "birth defects," if we saw everything as if it were meant to be that way, it wouldn't be referred to as a "defect."

I'm in no way saying that trans-anything is a brain/body defect. I'm just saying that unless you never see anything as a "defect" then your logic is wrong. Things happen and don't quite fit into a black and white ideal, and people will find a way to fit their feelings into a societal role, because we are group creatures and need to be able to work within the society.
Hey, ya got me. I'm still a bit of a closed-minded asshole. I'm a lot better than I used to be, though. You do make a good point about birth defects.
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Landers
09-21-2011 at 08:35 AM.
09-21-2011 at 08:35 AM.
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I'm not trying to attack you, it's simply that so many people use the terminology wrong, and it makes it difficult for people to come to an understanding of what is actually going on. The only reason I knew what you meant is because you explained it. I simply gave you the correct word for your definition. This is a very confusing subject and it's easier if this topic at least has a terminology base for discussion.
Appreciate the assistance with the proper terminology. Thumbup

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Maybe this isn't an important topic to you, but I know lots of people and even some on this board that deal with these issues day in and day out and it never hurts to have a little bit of a better understanding of the society.
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No, I'm a chemist that has a strong interest in genetics and human sexuality. Also a strong interest in human rights and therefore wish that people of all different types could be better understood and treated fairly.
Not particularly an important topic in the grand scheme of things I suppose, but I appreciate good discussion. I can, however, understand if someone is feeling confused as to who/what they are. And I'm not sitting here attacking them for what they decide to do with their own lives. Fortunately, they get to make that choice.

Does it weird me out? Yup. Am I okay with that? Yup. Am I going to attack someone for their personal views (not saying you are Smilie) or how they choose to live their life and what makes them happy? As long as it's not harming me or my family, nope, not at all.


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beanqueen
09-21-2011 at 08:38 AM.
09-21-2011 at 08:38 AM.
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Hey, ya got me. I'm still a bit of a closed-minded asshole. I'm a lot better than I used to be, though. You do make a good point about birth defects.
I always think that if you're trying to better yourself and become more understanding then you're on a good path, even if you're not the most open-minded...nod
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ALVSGIRLY
09-21-2011 at 08:39 AM.
09-21-2011 at 08:39 AM.
I'm very happy with being a female. It's lots of fun Whee!
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09-21-2011 at 08:39 AM.
09-21-2011 at 08:39 AM.
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beanqueen
09-21-2011 at 08:42 AM.
09-21-2011 at 08:42 AM.
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Appreciate the assistance with the proper terminology. Thumbup





Not particularly an important topic in the grand scheme of things I suppose, but I appreciate good discussion. I can, however, understand if someone is feeling confused as to who/what they are. And I'm not sitting here attacking them for what they decide to do with their own lives. Fortunately, they get to make that choice.

Does it weird me out? Yup. Am I okay with that? Yup. Am I going to attack someone for their personal views (not saying you are Smilie) or how they choose to live their life and what makes them happy? As long as it's not harming me or my family, nope, not at all.



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09-21-2011 at 08:48 AM.
09-21-2011 at 08:48 AM.
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09-21-2011 at 08:49 AM.
09-21-2011 at 08:49 AM.
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You told me you were no longer contagious Mad
don't worry
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beanqueen
09-21-2011 at 08:49 AM.
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This is just one of my buzz topics Smilie
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idkist
09-21-2011 at 08:52 AM.
09-21-2011 at 08:52 AM.
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09-21-2011 at 08:55 AM.
09-21-2011 at 08:55 AM.
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This is the only relevant part of your post nod
I'm surprised it took so long for someone to see that...bounce
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cupcake42
09-21-2011 at 09:58 AM.
09-21-2011 at 09:58 AM.
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the hottest post-op girl you can find Dontknow

it isn't anyone in particular really
Now if it was Autumn.......
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09-21-2011 at 10:28 AM.
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Now if it was Autumn.......
Would you suck on her toes?
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cupcake42
09-21-2011 at 10:42 AM.
09-21-2011 at 10:42 AM.
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Would you suck on her toes?
I would be hacking up hairballs for weeks! Nono2
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