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Should I Tell My Boss I Hate Her Perfume?

19,678 2,309 October 17, 2006 at 08:43 AM in Question
Lately she has been wearing this Raspberry perfume that I absolutely despise.

It makes me sick to my stomach. Not only is it horrible smelling to begin with, but I have a history with this perfume.

At my last job, I worked with a woman who had a stinky crotch from hell. She used to cover it up with Sun Ripened Raspberry from Bath and Body works. Her crotch was so smelly, we made the office manager talk to her about it. She denied knowing about it, was apologetic and the crotch went right on stinking.

Think about stinky crotch smell mixed with Raspberry. vomit

I really don't know if I can take it. Should I tell her the story and ask her if she will wear the perfume less?

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AggieMom
10-17-2006 at 09:30 AM.
10-17-2006 at 09:30 AM.
Just go away, Final Quest. Ranting Go have a bad day somewhere else.

Kimber, talk to her. If you do nothing, it'll never get better. At least if you talk to her you have a chance of some fresh air.
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FactaNonVerba
10-17-2006 at 09:31 AM.
10-17-2006 at 09:31 AM.
The only kind of bitch Kimber is , is a HOT SEXY BIATCH Smilie
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10-17-2006 at 09:32 AM.
10-17-2006 at 09:32 AM.
Quote from Final Quest :
Any chance that you're just a bitch?
Any chance you could be more of an asshole?
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10-17-2006 at 09:33 AM.
10-17-2006 at 09:33 AM.
Quote from Landers :
Any chance you could be more of an asshole?

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10-17-2006 at 09:37 AM.
10-17-2006 at 09:37 AM.
Quote from ChrissyL :
The best part is, if I get warned, i truly don't care Big Grin
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Final Quest
10-17-2006 at 09:41 AM.
10-17-2006 at 09:41 AM.
Oh cmon, that was totally tongue in cheek. This is not the Manhattan Project here.

Hell yeah, I could be much more of an asshole, to answer the question.
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10-17-2006 at 09:43 AM.
10-17-2006 at 09:43 AM.
Quote from Final Quest :
Oh cmon, that was totally tongue in cheek. This is not the Manhattan Project here.

Hell yeah, I could be much more of an asshole, to answer the question.
Didn't seem that way. Roll Eyes (Sarcastic)
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brbubba
10-17-2006 at 09:46 AM.
10-17-2006 at 09:46 AM.
Quote from AggieMomx2 :
I would tell her that you are sensitive to perfumes and chemicals and that you are getting headaches and an upset stomach from her perfume. If she's a good boss, she'll understand and will either tone it down or cut it out altogether.

Or... you could use this opportunity to angle for an office w/ a window!
Thats probably the best bet, although what if OP decides to wear cologne one day? Its definitely an issue, if people overdo it or are wearing crapola perfume I will get an immediate headache if I have to stand near them.

Too bad you hate that scent, it only brings back good memories for me, he he. I can always tell when someone has that sun ripened raspberry stuff on immediately and I always say something. I think it freaks most people out that I can so easily recognize it. What they don't realize is that thats probably the only cosmetic scent I can recognize.
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AggieMom
10-17-2006 at 09:58 AM.
10-17-2006 at 09:58 AM.
Quote from Final Quest :
Oh cmon, that was totally tongue in cheek. This is not the Manhattan Project here.

Hell yeah, I could be much more of an asshole, to answer the question.
Yeah, well... you shouldn't mess with Kimber like that. How rude. Mad
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lukesfather
10-17-2006 at 10:00 AM.
10-17-2006 at 10:00 AM.
raspberry? crotch? raspberry? crotch? hmmm...must let russell stovers know about this.
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~Kimber~
10-17-2006 at 10:02 AM.
10-17-2006 at 10:02 AM.
Thanks everyone for sticking up for me. I really appreciate it. I certainly hope it's not just cuz I'm a bitch. laugh out loud

It appears that the concensus is to blame it on allergies, headaches, etc. and not tell the stinky crotch story. Ok, working up the courage!!
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lukesfather
10-17-2006 at 10:06 AM.
10-17-2006 at 10:06 AM.
Quote from ~Kimber~ :
Thanks everyone for sticking up for me. I really appreciate it. I certainly hope it's not just cuz I'm a bitch. laugh out loud

It appears that the concensus is to blame it on allergies, headaches, etc. and not tell the stinky crotch story. Ok, working up the courage!!
Throw her a raspberry Kimber! woot You can do this! Make us proud! hug
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10-17-2006 at 10:07 AM.
10-17-2006 at 10:07 AM.
Quote from ~Kimber~ :
Thanks everyone for sticking up for me. I really appreciate it. I certainly hope it's not just cuz I'm a bitch. laugh out loud

It appears that the concensus is to blame it on allergies, headaches, etc. and not tell the stinky crotch story. Ok, working up the courage!!
Let us know how that turns out. hug
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~Kimber~
10-17-2006 at 10:12 AM.
10-17-2006 at 10:12 AM.
Quote from ~Precious~ :
try not make it a big deal kimber..like going to HR!!!!

jus tell her delicately that you are sensitive to certain perfumes..and it causes headaches or allergy (u cant prove allergy..but ) and ask her if she can tone it down a little.

I am very sensitive to certain smells..they cause me dizzy. When I was a kid, my mom could never use sandal or any other air freshners because they made me out of breath.
Tell you boss the same thing.
if she is a good boss she will understand..

and btw..does she put on the whole bottle? none of my bath n body works perfumes are strong or last longer than an hour or two. :sadwalk:
I'm not sure if it IS actual Bath and Body Works brand, but it smells very similar and its very strong and smells up the whole, entire office.
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lukesfather
10-17-2006 at 10:14 AM.
10-17-2006 at 10:14 AM.
Maybe you need to spray her area with oust?
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