Joined Oct 2005
...---...
Forum Thread
Man Says Ex-Girlfriend Stole His Sperm to Create Kids
November 27, 2011 at
04:58 PM
in
Babies & Kids
(4)
A New York man was stunned to find out that his four-year-old twins were not an accidental pregnancy after all -- but that his desperate girlfriend secretly stashed away his sperm and used it for an in-vitro procedure, he charges in a lawsuit.
Joseph Pressil, 36, was not planning on having children with Anetria Burnett, with whom he was in a relationship for six months in 2007, he said.
So she took matters into her own hands, he told the New York Post, in order to remain in his Texas house and make a legal bid for half of his possessions.
http://www.foxnews.com/us/2011/11...z1exPMALDX
Joseph Pressil, 36, was not planning on having children with Anetria Burnett, with whom he was in a relationship for six months in 2007, he said.
So she took matters into her own hands, he told the New York Post, in order to remain in his Texas house and make a legal bid for half of his possessions.
http://www.foxnews.com/us/2011/11...z1exPMALDX
163 Comments
Your comment cannot be blank.
Sign up for a Slickdeals account to remove this ad.
/thatisall
/thatisall
Fortunately the father is taking responsibility and seeking custody of the kids, instead of being forced to pay child support and never being involved.
What I don't understand is, why didn't she simply lie to him, tell him he didn't need a condom and "poof" she gets knocked up, instead of going through the expense of the in-vitro procedure?
VQ,
The
I'm not going to lie...I think the child support system is messed up. No one is responsible for proving that money goes to the kid or the kid's benefit...I think that kinda notebook keeping should be required for anyone wanting to get child support. You should have to justify what you're using it for or at least the majority of it. It's just wrong that people get to do what they will with it with no thought to the kid. It makes me sick!
TAKE farkING RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOURSELF!
/thatisall
Edit: Sorry...didn't mean to jump down your throat...this whole thing really pisses me off and Phrozt's ex is being incredibly unfair right now about his son and it just really sucks...so I'm especially touchy today...
My views on sex are completely different than others because of what happened to me. I didn't sleep with my DH for over a year after we dated and it was worth the wait. Some people don't want to wait and I'm cool with that.
Sign up for a Slickdeals account to remove this ad.
Edit: Sorry...didn't mean to jump down your throat...this whole thing really pisses me off and Phrozt's ex is being incredibly unfair right now about his son and it just really sucks...so I'm especially touchy today...
My views on sex are completely different than others because of what happened to me. I didn't sleep with my DH for over a year after we dated and it was worth the wait. Some people don't want to wait and I'm cool with that.
I totally understand waiting...and my biggest thing is that the other person knows my stance on BC, abortion etc and that I know their stance on everything and that I feel comfortable enough to work though all the messy shit with them if anything would happen...that's my limit to sleeping with someone...I always have to say ...ok I'm going to have sex with this person and therefore have a child with them if the universe decides to go that direction...am I comfortable with all the possibilites with this person? And they all know that...
But I've seen too many of my family and my friends (males) go through dealing with greedy women over kids and it makes me sick...my uncle's soon to be ex-wife...had the gaul to say that he wanted to sexually abuse his daughter because he wanted to show her the new bedroom set he'd gotten her when he had to move out and get a new place...and show that as a reason for full custody and CS...it's disgusting the things some women will do for greed...so this kinda thing is complete BS and I hate it.
I totally understand waiting...and my biggest thing is that the other person knows my stance on BC, abortion etc and that I know their stance on everything and that I feel comfortable enough to work though all the messy shit with them if anything would happen...that's my limit to sleeping with someone...I always have to say ...ok I'm going to have sex with this person and therefore have a child with them if the universe decides to go that direction...am I comfortable with all the possibilites with this person? And they all know that...
But I've seen too many of my family and my friends (males) go through dealing with greedy women over kids and it makes me sick...my uncle's soon to be ex-wife...had the gaul to say that he wanted to sexually abuse his daughter because he wanted to show her the new bedroom set he'd gotten her when he had to move out and get a new place...and show that as a reason for full custody and CS...it's disgusting the things some women will do for greed...so this kinda thing is complete BS and I hate it.
Edit: Sorry...didn't mean to jump down your throat...this whole thing really pisses me off and Phrozt's ex is being incredibly unfair right now about his son and it just really sucks...so I'm especially touchy today...
Fortunately the father is taking responsibility and seeking custody of the kids, instead of being forced to pay child support and never being involved.
What I don't understand is, why didn't she simply lie to him, tell him he didn't need a condom and "poof" she gets knocked up, instead of going through the expense of the in-vitro procedure?
VQ,
The
My son's shoes have been falling apart for over a month and apparently $500 a month can't replace a $20 pair of shoes. I have him very close to half the time, but that doesn't mean crap. She continues to exploit him for free money, despite not needing it at all, and only doing so to "get back at me" even tho she's the one that cheated on me and left me (I have all of the txts to back this up).
I'm just relating this because child custody laws are incredibly farked up and HEAVILY favor the mother just because of past precedence, even in the face of terrible mothers. I absolutely hate this ugly world (child custody laws/child support). I had no clue about how terrible it was until I was forced into it.
I'm seriously hoping this dood doesn't go through all of that. Hell.. maybe he can even make some headway for us decent fathers out there...
EDIT: Oh and.. FWIW.. the reason I'm pissed today is because she just emailed me that she enrolled our son in a new daycare that he'll be starting at NEXT WEEK. It's closer to her place and another 10 minutes away from me (so probably about 40 minutes of driving him to daycare and getting BACK to work, while it's on her way to work).
She didn't talk to me about it at all, and when I asked her if we could talk about it, she ignored me. I can't do a farking thing about it because of this farked up child custody system.
Sign up for a Slickdeals account to remove this ad.
My son's shoes have been falling apart for over a month and apparently $500 a month can't replace a $20 pair of shoes. I have him very close to half the time, but that doesn't mean crap. She continues to exploit him for free money, despite not needing it at all, and only doing so to "get back at me" even tho she's the one that cheated on me and left me (I have all of the txts to back this up).
I'm just relating this because child custody laws are incredibly farked up and HEAVILY favor the mother just because of past precedence, even in the face of terrible mothers. I absolutely hate this ugly world (child custody laws/child support). I had no clue about how terrible it was until I was forced into it.
I'm seriously hoping this dood doesn't go through all of that. Hell.. maybe he can even make some headway for us decent fathers out there...
EDIT: Oh and.. FWIW.. the reason I'm pissed today is because she just emailed me that she enrolled our son in a new daycare that he'll be starting at NEXT WEEK. It's closer to her place and another 10 minutes away from me (so probably about 40 minutes of driving him to daycare and getting BACK to work, while it's on her way to work).
She didn't talk to me about it at all, and when I asked her if we could talk about it, she ignored me. I can't do a farking thing about it because of this farked up child custody system.
If I may ask, how old is your boy?
And FWIW, this crap will come back and bite your ex in the ass. Trust me. Your son isn't stupid, he knows how his mother "supports" him and how his father "supports" him. When he is old enough to be on his own, the two of you will have a great relationship while your ex's relationship with him will be