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09-16-2012 at 01:14 PM.
09-16-2012 at 01:14 PM.
Quote from beowulf7 :
Yes, RU has played at Giants Stadium before. In fact, that's where Eric LeGrand was paralyzed in Oct. 2010. Sadwalk

Yeah, I can imagine KK blowing up when pregnant. I heard about Kanye playing Kim's sex tape when he'd hook up w/ another chick. That'd be freaky if he still watches it w/ her and seeing another guy w/ her. laugh out loud

That would be impressive for GB to get w/ the much younger Rivers. nod

The Giants game from Giants Stadium isn't being shown on TV for me. Mad I found an Internet stream of it so watching that way - better than nothing or just audio. Cool
Tie game! Go Giants!

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so my "friend" (not someone i was sleeping with) was being a real dick to me (not in the good way) to the point where i told him to shove it and i haven't talked to him since. basically he was being really mean to me and said such things as "I was only your friend because i felt sorry for you" and i decided that i don't want that kind of person in my life.




anyways he send me an email today and says:



so now i am struggling with what i should do. he behavior was really egregious and while i forgive him, i am not being fair to myself if i allow people who treat me poorly into my life. So how do i decide if i want him to be in my life or not? no this isn't the first time this has happened...
He's an ass. Don't get caught up in his nonsense Unclesam
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The Llama
09-16-2012 at 01:19 PM.
09-16-2012 at 01:19 PM.
Quote from HeyLookItsMe :

so now i am struggling with what i should do. he behavior was really egregious and while i forgive him, i am not being fair to myself if i allow people who treat me poorly into my life. So how do i decide if i want him to be in my life or not? no this isn't the first time this has happened...
Sounds like this is the "pulling strings" part. I'd just ignore him and try to forget about it.
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HeyLookItsMe
09-16-2012 at 01:22 PM.
09-16-2012 at 01:22 PM.
Quote from wiles :
Tie game! Go Giants!


He's an ass. Don't get caught up in his nonsense Unclesam
Quote from The Llama :
Sounds like this is the "pulling strings" part. I'd just ignore him and try to forget about it.

thanks…


I am struggling because i have spent the last few months studying the teachings of buddha, and part of it is to forgive people and not hold a grudge, to love anyone and everyone unconditionally and I am willing to do that with this person. I am not going to be angry or seek revenge. but i just am struggling with how does one respect and take care of themselves in situations like this… it just seems oxymoronic
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09-16-2012 at 01:38 PM.
09-16-2012 at 01:38 PM.
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thanks…


I am struggling because i have spent the last few months studying the teachings of buddha, and part of it is to forgive people and not hold a grudge, to love anyone and everyone unconditionally and I am willing to do that with this person. I am not going to be angry or seek revenge. but i just am struggling with how does one respect and take care of themselves in situations like this… it just seems oxymoronic
Yeah, no need for revenge and if you want to forgive him and be at peace, that's fine too. But that doesn't mean that you need to have contact with the person anymore. think of it as making a decision for an easier path to peace. Forgive, move on, and find better people to speak with.
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09-16-2012 at 02:18 PM.
09-16-2012 at 02:18 PM.
You can love (theoretically as a human being, mind you!) and forgive him, not seek to cause harm- but that doesn't mean you have to spend time with him on a regular basis.
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tennisplayer888
09-16-2012 at 02:31 PM.
09-16-2012 at 02:31 PM.
Today has got to set a brand new record for most Receiving Yards ever, it seems like every "star" receiver out there is catching over 100yds. today.
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VorlonFrog
09-16-2012 at 03:55 PM.
09-16-2012 at 03:55 PM.
I just couldn't believe today's Braves/Nationals game was scheduled for 8 pm. Usually Sunday games are 1 pm or 4 pm afternoon games, damn it.
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09-16-2012 at 03:59 PM.
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I just couldn't believe today's Braves/Nationals game was scheduled for 8 pm. Usually Sunday games are 1 pm or 4 pm afternoon games, damn it.
You will be a night owl Faint

Ooooh Jets Annoyed
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09-16-2012 at 04:06 PM.
09-16-2012 at 04:06 PM.
Quote from VorlonFrog :
I just couldn't believe today's Braves/Nationals game was scheduled for 8 pm. Usually Sunday games are 1 pm or 4 pm afternoon games, damn it.
Is it a featured game? Like ESPN or Fox?
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VorlonFrog
09-16-2012 at 04:41 PM.
09-16-2012 at 04:41 PM.
ESPN feature (East Coast, at least.)
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09-16-2012 at 04:45 PM.
09-16-2012 at 04:45 PM.
Quote from HeyLookItsMe :
so my "friend" (not someone i was sleeping with) was being a real dick to me (not in the good way) to the point where i told him to shove it and i haven't talked to him since. basically he was being really mean to me and said such things as "I was only your friend because i felt sorry for you" and i decided that i don't want that kind of person in my life.




anyways he send me an email today and says:



so now i am struggling with what i should do. he behavior was really egregious and while i forgive him, i am not being fair to myself if i allow people who treat me poorly into my life. So how do i decide if i want him to be in my life or not? no this isn't the first time this has happened...
Forgive....always forgive, and if you live by a turn the other cheek philosophy, just remember that you only have two cheeks. After that, feel free to unload bloodshed, my friend. Ninja

Oh, and I was talking face cheeks -- not face cheeks AND butt cheeks. Don't go all gay on me. Roll Eyes (Sarcastic)
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09-16-2012 at 04:51 PM.
09-16-2012 at 04:51 PM.
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thanks…


I am struggling because i have spent the last few months studying the teachings of buddha, and part of it is to forgive people and not hold a grudge, to love anyone and everyone unconditionally and I am willing to do that with this person. I am not going to be angry or seek revenge. but i just am struggling with how does one respect and take care of themselves in situations like this… it just seems oxymoronic
FYI....there is such a thing as healthy anger. Again, always forgive, but that doesn't mean that you have to communicate with the guy any more. I was molested by a church leader as a child, fired from a job for false accusations by someone who wanted my job, and had to bury my son because my wife's doctor was late for a golf game and didn't want to be bothered any more. Forgiveness is hard, but you can learn from it. Memorize the asshole's personality and don't let anyone else like that in your life because you know where it's gonna go. hug


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09-16-2012 at 04:53 PM.
09-16-2012 at 04:53 PM.
Quote from VorlonFrog :
I just couldn't believe today's Braves/Nationals game was scheduled for 8 pm. Usually Sunday games are 1 pm or 4 pm afternoon games, damn it.

maybe they went to church? Hispanics are really big on Catholicism.
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VorlonFrog
09-16-2012 at 05:03 PM.
09-16-2012 at 05:03 PM.
I'd just rather not stay up past 11 pm when I have to get to work tomorrow morning. Everyone at my office are basketball and football fans, and don't appreciate how much I enjoy baseball.
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09-16-2012 at 05:06 PM.
09-16-2012 at 05:06 PM.
Quote from chewspam :
FYI....there is such a thing as healthy anger. Again, always forgive, but that doesn't mean that you have to communicate with the guy any more. I was molested by a church leader as a child, fired from a job for false accusations by someone who wanted my job, and had to bury my son because my wife's doctor was late for a golf game and didn't want to be bothered any more. Forgiveness is hard, but you can learn from it. Memorize the asshole's personality and don't let anyone else like that in your life because you know where it's gonna go. hug


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I'd have killed the Dr.
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