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28,148 544 May 23, 2007 at 09:32 AM in Finance (12)
My Method: after date numero uno: wait no less than 3 days before calling. [i]I went out monday last week, called her sunday. Always make first conversation after first date brief (2-3 minutes TOPS). I said had great time wednesday, how about yourself, quick small talk, and ended with a nice "hope we can get together again sometime soon if ya interested". she ends with a most definitely and said I would call her in a few days. NEVER call back less than AT LEAST a week, typically if they dont call by then, they arent/werent interested. Basically putting the ball somewhat in their court if they really want to get together SOONER rather than LATER. She called back today and said, "hey you never said when you want to get together again." Date 2 saturday nod

HOOK and FKIN SINKERED!
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Fallacy
05-23-2007 at 10:30 AM.
05-23-2007 at 10:30 AM.
Quote from caveney :
how you figure? the reason i was off the horse for 4 years was because I was married, not because I was trying to get with someone and failing.
laugh out loud isn't that what happened though?
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cav
05-23-2007 at 10:34 AM.
05-23-2007 at 10:34 AM.
Quote from Texazz :
How many dates before she gets the other half of your stuff?
the rest I just roll with. this is the ONLY RULE that I follow when dating. dont push things quick, it didnt fail me in the past, and didnt fail me this time around...
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n19htmare
05-23-2007 at 10:35 AM.
05-23-2007 at 10:35 AM.
Quote from caveney :
My Method: after date numero uno: wait no less than 3 days before calling. [i]I went out monday last week, called her sunday. Always make first conversation after first date brief (2-3 minutes TOPS). I said had great time wednesday, how about yourself, quick small talk, and ended with a nice "hope we can get together again sometime soon if ya interested". she ends with a most definitely and said I would call her in a few days. NEVER call back less than AT LEAST a week, typically if they dont call by then, they arent/werent interested. Basically putting the ball somewhat in their court if they really want to get together SOONER rather than LATER. She called back today and said, "hey you never said when you want to get together again." Date 2 saturday nod

HOOK and FKIN SINKERED!
too much waiting and work...... Fact is if she is into you and likes you, it doesn't matter when you call, how you call or whatever. If she is already into you after the first date, she's already into you. Theres no need to "play games" to get her. It doesn't take long to find out there is chemistry and a connection.
Point is this girl is obviously interested in you, you could have called her the next day and she would still go out with you.

Congrats anyways Smilie
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JackHandey
05-23-2007 at 10:35 AM.
05-23-2007 at 10:35 AM.
Quote from sassysour :
You've been off the horse for 4 years?? Are you from Washington???
Granted it has been about 10 years for me, but I remember plenty of booty being available in WA state...
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JackHandey
05-23-2007 at 10:38 AM.
05-23-2007 at 10:38 AM.
Quote from n19htmare :
too much waiting and work...... Fact is if she is into you and likes you, it doesn't matter when you call, how you call or whatever. If she is already into you after the first date, she's already into you. Theres no need to "play games" to get her. It doesn't take long to find out there is chemistry and a connection.
Point is this girl is obviously interested in you, you could have called her the next day and she would still go out with you.

Congrats anyways Smilie
I agree with you on this, man. I can't remember who the comedian was who said it, but it went like this "A guy spends all night trying to figure out if he is going to get in her pants. She decided in the first 30 seconds."
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Brrcats
05-23-2007 at 10:55 AM.
05-23-2007 at 10:55 AM.
Congrats, unfortunately it is all about the game. Its not the girls fault though, its just the way thier mind works.
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redjen910
05-23-2007 at 11:06 AM.
05-23-2007 at 11:06 AM.
Sorry guys. Some of us have the reverse rule; no call within 3 days means I lose your number and forget your name.
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05-23-2007 at 11:09 AM.
05-23-2007 at 11:09 AM.
Quote from jennz :
Sorry guys. Some of us have the reverse rule; no call within 3 days means I lose your number and forget your name.
If you say so nod
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05-23-2007 at 11:10 AM.
05-23-2007 at 11:10 AM.
Quote from jennz :
Sorry guys. Some of us have the reverse rule; no call within 3 days means I lose your number and forget your name.
then you werent interested. period.
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05-23-2007 at 11:13 AM.
05-23-2007 at 11:13 AM.
Quote from Brrcats :
Congrats, unfortunately it is all about the game. Its not the girls fault though, its just the way thier mind works.
I don't agree, games are for kids. I had a date last saturday with a nice Dr. I met at my gym. He called me the next day and said he had a great time. I was glad he did, we're going out again this week.
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redjen910
05-23-2007 at 11:13 AM.
05-23-2007 at 11:13 AM.
Quote from caveney :
then you werent interested. period.
Totally correct. Not interested in game players.
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n19htmare
05-23-2007 at 11:13 AM.
05-23-2007 at 11:13 AM.
Quote from caveney :
then you werent interested. period.
Exactly the point I was trying to make. If the other party is already interested, than waiting 3 days /a week doesn't really do anything.
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05-23-2007 at 11:15 AM.
05-23-2007 at 11:15 AM.
Quote from n19htmare :
Exactly the point I was trying to make. If the other party is already interested, than waiting 3 days /a week doesn't really do anything.
Actually I made that point a few posts before you, but that's alright nod
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05-23-2007 at 11:16 AM.
05-23-2007 at 11:16 AM.
Quote from RandomGirl :
I don't agree, games are for kids. I had a date last saturday with a nice Dr. I met at my gym. He called me the next day and said he had a great time. I was glad he did, we're going out again this week.
I hope you didn't meet him at the aids clinic
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05-23-2007 at 11:17 AM.
05-23-2007 at 11:17 AM.
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I hope you didn't meet him at the aids clinic
They have an AIDS clinic at your gym? Dontknow
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