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May 23, 2007 at
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My Method: after date numero uno: wait no less than 3 days before calling. [i]I went out monday last week, called her sunday. Always make first conversation after first date brief (2-3 minutes TOPS). I said had great time wednesday, how about yourself, quick small talk, and ended with a nice "hope we can get together again sometime soon if ya interested". she ends with a most definitely and said I would call her in a few days. NEVER call back less than AT LEAST a week, typically if they dont call by then, they arent/werent interested. Basically putting the ball somewhat in their court if they really want to get together SOONER rather than LATER. She called back today and said, "hey you never said when you want to get together again." Date 2 saturday 
HOOK and FKIN SINKERED!
HOOK and FKIN SINKERED!
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I'm neutral on this opinion, I think before you get engaged/married you needed to have had at least 1 other serious relationship and slept with at LEAST a few different girls/women. If you call the sleeping around, then yes I think it's necessary, if you call that casual dating, then yes I think it's still necessary.
I'm neutral on this opinion, I think before you get engaged/married you needed to have had at least 1 other serious relationship and slept with at LEAST a few different girls/women. If you call the sleeping around, then yes I think it's necessary, if you call that casual dating, then yes I think it's still necessary.
Why is it necessary to sleep around?
Why is it necessary to sleep around?
And the reason to sleep around, is a relationship is also physical, no matter how you play it, no relationship (or let me rephrase that, no healthy relationship) is all mental/emotional. There has to be sex to make it work, it's the way our brains are programmed. So I think you should at least know what it's like to have sex with someone else before you make a commitment with one person to sleep with them for the rest of your life.
You could play devils advocate and say "ignorance is bliss"...
And the reason to sleep around, is a relationship is also physical, no matter how you play it, no relationship (or let me rephrase that, no healthy relationship) is all mental/emotional. There has to be sex to make it work, it's the way our brains are programmed. So I think you should at least know what it's like to have sex with someone else before you make a commitment with one person to sleep with them for the rest of your life.
You could play devils advocate and say "ignorance is bliss"...
My fiance is the only man I've ever had sex with and ever want to have sex with. With sex this good, who needs anything else?
My fiance is the only man I've ever had sex with and ever want to have sex with. With sex this good, who needs anything else?
And with the second part, I understand where you're coming from, and not be an ass, but how do you know what sex is like with other men? it could be much worse than your fiance or it could be much better. (and even if it is better, it's not like you're going to dump your fiance and move on, most long term relationships are not purely physical or purely mental/emotional, it's a combination of the two).
I wasn't saying that you have to go sleep around, I just think that both the man and woman in the relationship would have a more secure feeling about the relationship if they had 1 serious relationship before they get married (mental/emotional aspect) and had a few partners (physical aspect).
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HOOK and FKIN SINKERED!
And with the second part, I understand where you're coming from, and not be an ass, but how do you know what sex is like with other men? it could be much worse than your fiance or it could be much better. (and even if it is better, it's not like you're going to dump your fiance and move on, most long term relationships are not purely physical or purely mental/emotional, it's a combination of the two).
I wasn't saying that you have to go sleep around, I just think that both the man and woman in the relationship would have a more secure feeling about the relationship if they had 1 serious relationship before they get married (mental/emotional aspect) and had a few partners (physical aspect).
And thegoalie, as long as you're open and honest about your desires and dislikes with your partner, there should be no problems. My guy and I are blunt and it makes things great
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