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May 23, 2007 at
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My Method: after date numero uno: wait no less than 3 days before calling. [i]I went out monday last week, called her sunday. Always make first conversation after first date brief (2-3 minutes TOPS). I said had great time wednesday, how about yourself, quick small talk, and ended with a nice "hope we can get together again sometime soon if ya interested". she ends with a most definitely and said I would call her in a few days. NEVER call back less than AT LEAST a week, typically if they dont call by then, they arent/werent interested. Basically putting the ball somewhat in their court if they really want to get together SOONER rather than LATER. She called back today and said, "hey you never said when you want to get together again." Date 2 saturday 
HOOK and FKIN SINKERED!
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I think the problem is people tend to generalize. "All women like men who play games" "All women play mind games" "All guys want to do is get laid"..etc.
I am not interested in a guy who plays games. If he's going to be stupid and actually Count the days until he will call me...fark him (not literally, lol). On the other hand...it can go to the other extreme. I had a guy call me 23 times the day after our first date (I saw them all on caller ID when I got home and thought "wtf"..lol). So no...girls don't want desperate either.
I think basically what we want is to find a guy who Wants to call us the next day but isn't stalkerish or desperate, lol. That calls us when he feels like it because he wants to..not just because the appropriate amount of days has passed.
My husband and I had a nice first date. One or two days later (I can't remember) he called me and said he had just had a really stressful day at work and did I want to go for a drive. We went and drove around and talked. We didn't make out..we didn't even kiss yet. We talked for hours. You know..that's when I fell in love with him. Was that a "Game"? I don't think so. Just because he hates it when he thinks there's a possibility I'm playing games so I really doubt he plays one.
I think there's a difference between playing games and trying to impress. Maybe a guy doesn't call a girl..not because he's trying to make her "wait it out" but because he's afraid he'll look desperate. I don't know.
/rambling
But I still think you're wrong
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