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I gave it 30 minutes and turned if off. It didn't keep my interests.
So is that all you did for Guy Fawkes day?
Wait...
You haven't brought up
Didn't speak all weekend, had a HUGE argument via IM this morning, wherein she called me a jerk, asshole, dick, etc. and I called her a flaming bitch... many other words were exchanged (did I mention she just had 5 years sober?) and we were poised to go our separate ways.... when she sensed me approaching escape velocity, and pulled me back in by apologizing and saying she wished we could move past all that (less than 30 minutes after telling me we couldn't be friends and I'm a total dick).
And, huge jackass that I am, I said "okay.jpg" and re-entered her orbit, albeit at a slightly higher altitude. And we've been IM'ing a bit since then.
/whining
Didn't speak all weekend, had a HUGE argument via IM this morning, wherein she called me a jerk, asshole, dick, etc. and I called her a flaming bitch... many other words were exchanged (did I mention she just had 5 years sober?) and we were poised to go our separate ways.... when she sensed me approaching escape velocity, and pulled me back in by apologizing and saying she wished we could move past all that (less than 30 minutes after telling me we couldn't be friends and I'm a total dick).
And, huge jackass that I am, I said "okay.jpg" and re-entered her orbit, albeit at a slightly higher altitude. And we've been IM'ing a bit since then.
/whining
Didn't speak all weekend, had a HUGE argument via IM this morning, wherein she called me a jerk, asshole, dick, etc. and I called her a flaming bitch... many other words were exchanged (did I mention she just had 5 years sober?) and we were poised to go our separate ways.... when she sensed me approaching escape velocity, and pulled me back in by apologizing and saying she wished we could move past all that (less than 30 minutes after telling me we couldn't be friends and I'm a total dick).
And, huge jackass that I am, I said "okay.jpg" and re-entered her orbit, albeit at a slightly higher altitude. And we've been IM'ing a bit since then.
/whining
Ummm- she doesn't sound very happy joyous and free at 5 years.
Take some time and think about what you really want. Don't you just want a nice calm time?
I'd get the DVDs back just in case, btw.
Ummm- she doesn't sound very happy joyous and free at 5 years.
Take some time and think about what you really want. Don't you just want a nice calm time?
I'd get the DVDs back just in case, btw.
I want... I don't know wtf I want. I want my DVDs back!
She still hasn't re-friended me on FB either.
My sponsor has been telling me to run away from this girl for weeks. He's going to laugh his balls off this afternoon when I tell him about all of this.
I want... I don't know wtf I want. I want my DVDs back!
She still hasn't re-friended me on FB either.
My sponsor has been telling me to run away from this girl for weeks. He's going to laugh his balls off this afternoon when I tell him about all of this.
Damn you know who'd Defriend and refriend guys on FB, and engage in those kind of behaviours? Me in active addiction.
I have a friend I've been through so much of this crazy with over the years- our commitment issues, our drinking, etc. D. I really always have had a soft spot for this guy for a decade- it must be reciprocal- because otherwise there's no way we'd even talk. So we have some contact now- he texts me once a week to check in. He'd ask me to come over sometimes- flirty
You and I both know that's exactly what I don't need to reinvite into my life, especially in early sobriety. So I told him that a few weeks ago. I can't flirt with you or make plans to see you to hook up. That's my alcoholic behavior and it doesn't work for what I want in life now. I told him I don't even talk to most people I used to know anymore, and I'm accepting and happy with these changes. He was Whoa.
Damn I cried all night. It was releasing my insecurity blanket that I held for so long, but I will never have room for anything else in life I'd I'm still playing games with him. Nature abhors a vacuum. Things may feel empty for a while- but you need empty to fill up with a relationship that's better for you.
He did text me the next week- but it was cordial and not a come on. I set a boundary and I'm proud of that. Now I'm crying again
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My kid would like one of those if she had money
Damn you know who'd Defriend and refriend guys on FB, and engage in those kind of behaviours? Me in active addiction.
I have a friend I've been through so much of this crazy with over the years- our commitment issues, our drinking, etc. D. I really always have had a soft spot for this guy for a decade- it must be reciprocal- because otherwise there's no way we'd even talk. So we have some contact now- he texts me once a week to check in. He'd ask me to come over sometimes- flirty
You and I both know that's exactly what I don't need to reinvite into my life, especially in early sobriety. So I told him that a few weeks ago. I can't flirt with you or make plans to see you to hook up. That's my alcoholic behavior and it doesn't work for what I want in life now. I told him I don't even talk to most people I used to know anymore, and I'm accepting and happy with these changes. He was Whoa.
Damn I cried all night. It was releasing my insecurity blanket that I held for so long, but I will never have room for anything else in life I'd I'm still playing games with him. Nature abhors a vacuum. Things may feel empty for a while- but you need empty to fill up with a relationship that's better for you.
He did text me the next week- but it was cordial and not a come on. I set a boundary and I'm proud of that. Now I'm crying again
Edit: Sorry to hear, I just read the whole post. You'll get through it, don't worry. It's for the best and it is great that you have still kept the same mindset, others would have given in.
Damn you know who'd Defriend and refriend guys on FB, and engage in those kind of behaviours? Me in active addiction.
I have a friend I've been through so much of this crazy with over the years- our commitment issues, our drinking, etc. D. I really always have had a soft spot for this guy for a decade- it must be reciprocal- because otherwise there's no way we'd even talk. So we have some contact now- he texts me once a week to check in. He'd ask me to come over sometimes- flirty
You and I both know that's exactly what I don't need to reinvite into my life, especially in early sobriety. So I told him that a few weeks ago. I can't flirt with you or make plans to see you to hook up. That's my alcoholic behavior and it doesn't work for what I want in life now. I told him I don't even talk to most people I used to know anymore, and I'm accepting and happy with these changes. He was Whoa.
Damn I cried all night. It was releasing my insecurity blanket that I held for so long, but I will never have room for anything else in life I'd I'm still playing games with him. Nature abhors a vacuum. Things may feel empty for a while- but you need empty to fill up with a relationship that's better for you.
He did text me the next week- but it was cordial and not a come on. I set a boundary and I'm proud of that. Now I'm crying again
I need to try that myself sometime.
I might have to tell
What I can't figure out is why I even like her.
People do sick things to each other.
but i know what tumescence is
I need to try that myself sometime.
I might have to tell
What I can't figure out is why I even like her.
People do sick things to each other.
Granted what you described sometimes sounds like Phrozt and me...idunno, it's tough...you either work through it or you let it go. Her actions like this aren't cyclical (ie by month) are they? That's I think what happens with Phrozt and me...
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Granted what you described sometimes sounds like Phrozt and me...idunno, it's tough...you either work through it or you let it go. Her actions like this aren't cyclical (ie by month) are they? That's I think what happens with Phrozt and me...