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Wiles, how about a recap? :waits:
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nessy is, apparently, a thread slacker Mad
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VF is drug soaked insomniac
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11-06-2012 at 10:35 AM.
11-06-2012 at 10:35 AM.
Quote from ILove.Asian.Girls888 :
You vote?

Edit: Sorry to hear, I just read the whole post. You'll get through it, don't worry. It's for the best and it is great that you have still kept the same mindset, others would have given in.
thanks sweetie. I'm content with my decision and it's ok to feel and express emotions. I wont text him right now and say hey I'm crying about releasing the thought of us together ever again, lol but I'll share it here laugh out loud I just wanted VQ to know he's not alone in these sorts of relations quandaries Cool
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hug Sounds like you are making healthy choice. High Five

I need to try that myself sometime. LMAO

I might have to tell Girly that I think her initial assessment was correct - we can't be friends. That might actually be the easier course for both of us. She's trying to fix her past relationships using me just as much as I'm trying to fix my marriage using her. We're both trying to shove the other one into a frame and getting mad when they move out of it. This reminds me of a fight between two eagles where they tear the shit out of each other and both fall to the ground still clawing away at each other's eyes... turns out bad for both of them. She can't be having a nice time of this, either.

What I can't figure out is why I even like her. Anybody else who said the things to me that she's said, or treated me the way she does, would've been kicked to the curb long ago. Yet I soak it up from this chick... I have to keep asking myself what I'M getting out of that... lately what I've come up with is that the relationship is very similar to me & my ex at the end: me chasing her around begging for affection and her being downright mean to me but once in a while acting nice to keep me around.

People do sick things to each other.
Thanks Hug2


So I'm sure you're doing some soul searching and figuring out why you're accepting this kind of treatment, right? A part of that crazy is intensity and excitement- is that it?
Have you been sober so long and living so right that this kind of snuck in, and you feel that adrenaline, and it kind of pushes you back into those rush-filled feelings like fighting with the ex again? Living a nice, even comfortable keel, and BOOM lightening strikes and shes sexy and you cant have her but maybe you can and what a rush?

Take a step back. Falling for somebody should be exciting and make your pulse race. But not make you want to smash a pumpkin off your driveway Annoyed (just an example of frustration emotion).
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11-06-2012 at 10:38 AM.
11-06-2012 at 10:38 AM.
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I got lazy and didn't register, wish I did now... Go Obama!
Nono1 Geez stop being so lazy young man! laugh out loud
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i dunno what trepanation is

but i know what tumescence is


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11-06-2012 at 10:40 AM.
11-06-2012 at 10:40 AM.
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thanks sweetie. I'm content with my decision and it's ok to feel and express emotions. I wont text him right now and say hey I'm crying about releasing the thought of us together ever again, lol but I'll share it here laugh out loud I just wanted VQ to know he's not alone in these sorts of relations quandaries Cool

Thanks Hug2


So I'm sure you're doing some soul searching and figuring out why you're accepting this kind of treatment, right? A part of that crazy is intensity and excitement- is that it?
Have you been sober so long and living so right that this kind of snuck in, and you feel that adrenaline, and it kind of pushes you back into those rush-filled feelings like fighting with the ex again? Living a nice, even comfortable keel, and BOOM lightening strikes and shes sexy and you cant have her but maybe you can and what a rush?

Take a step back. Falling for somebody should be exciting and make your pulse race. But not make you want to smash a pumpkin off your driveway Annoyed (just an example of frustration emotion).
hug Thank you. I think you described it perfectly. In some ways it's the same as why a dog chases a cat - because the cat runs away. But this relationship does have huge parallels to my unhealthy marriage and yeah, this snuck up on me in a lot of ways too. I've said it before and I'll say it again: emotions are intoxicating, and I cannot handle intoxicants safely.

But unlike substances I can put into my body - these feelings already come from inside me, so it's harder to tell when I'm abusing them (if that makes sense). There's nothing I can put my finger on and say "I'm going to stop drinking/eating/snorting/smoking this and see how that works." Like I was up all night tossing and turning until I finally wrote Girly an email at 3am which is what prompted this whole debacle today. If I could've withstood that craving ('cause that's what it was) I wouldn't have had the fight and we probably still wouldn't be talking (hadn't spoken since Friday night).

One day I'll grow up... I hope! If nothing else this has been great for my diet & cardio. Did I mention that already? laugh out loud
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11-06-2012 at 10:41 AM.
11-06-2012 at 10:41 AM.
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So did you stage any weird protests yesterday ?
Let's say I held a poorly attended sit-in to protest the stupidity of society at large.
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11-06-2012 at 10:45 AM.
11-06-2012 at 10:45 AM.
Quote from AbbyGabby :
i dunno what trepanation is

but i know what tumescence is


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"This reminds me of the time you tried to drill a hole in your head."
"That would have worked if you hadn't stopped me."
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Trepanning is the addition of a new hole/holes in the skull.
Pseudoscientific/snake oil benefits abound, or so the people that want to drill a hole in your head would have you believe.
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11-06-2012 at 10:46 AM.
11-06-2012 at 10:46 AM.
Mad Dude screw this chick. We're finally talking again, I mention about the 5k - my first ever, ran it in under 28 minutes - instead of "way to go" or "congrats" she goes "haven't you ever run 3 miles before?"

This literally just happened. It's exactly the kind of shit I'm talking about. She is not a good friend. I'm not sure she even knows how to be one.
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11-06-2012 at 10:49 AM.
11-06-2012 at 10:49 AM.
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I got lazy and didn't register, wish I did now... Go Obama!

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11-06-2012 at 10:50 AM.
11-06-2012 at 10:50 AM.
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hug Thank you. I think you described it perfectly. In some ways it's the same as why a dog chases a cat - because the cat runs away. But this relationship does have huge parallels to my unhealthy marriage and yeah, this snuck up on me in a lot of ways too. I've said it before and I'll say it again: emotions are intoxicating, and I cannot handle intoxicants safely.

But unlike substances I can put into my body - these feelings already come from inside me, so it's harder to tell when I'm abusing them (if that makes sense). There's nothing I can put my finger on and say "I'm going to stop drinking/eating/snorting/smoking this and see how that works." Like I was up all night tossing and turning until I finally wrote Girly an email at 3am which is what prompted this whole debacle today. If I could've withstood that craving ('cause that's what it was) I wouldn't have had the fight and we probably still wouldn't be talking (hadn't spoken since Friday night).

One day I'll grow up... I hope! If nothing else this has been great for my diet & cardio. Did I mention that already? laugh out loud
ʞuıɥʇ ʞuıɥʇ ʞuıɥʇ

you got a thinking problem, Mister!!!

If you are up at 3am tossing and turning over something, then it's not healthy. My sweet Mom, her favorite tag line from my past was "This isn't a normal healthy relationship"
I know she'd say that when me and my ex would fight like crazy, and when I was dating the 35 year olds that would never move out of their Mom's houses. And she'd say it in the same tone all the time laugh out loud and they werent normal healthy relationships, and I knew that inside, but I was ok with it at the time. I didnt WANT a normal healthy relationship, laugh out loud I wanted make up sex and crazy and I wanted some guy who wasnt going to pester me every day because I had my own stuff to do. Until you are not OK with this and be honest with yourself that this wont ever be normal and healthy (thats not me saying so- thats just what I think based upon experience)-- you will keep doing the same things until you decide that it's not what you want.
And get the endorphins from the workouts, not from the Crazy!! Roll Eyelash
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11-06-2012 at 10:51 AM.
11-06-2012 at 10:51 AM.
I got Battleship for $9 at Walmart Whee
It's $20 on their website and Amazon, younger kid has wanted it for a while. Got her a new set of footie pajamas too. Two more presents to add to the cache Cool2
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Mad Dude screw this chick. We're finally talking again, I mention about the 5k - my first ever, ran it in under 28 minutes - instead of "way to go" or "congrats" she goes "haven't you ever run 3 miles before?"

This literally just happened. It's exactly the kind of shit I'm talking about. She is not a good friend. I'm not sure she even knows how to be one.
Haven't you ever had a psycho hose beast as a friend before?


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11-06-2012 at 10:53 AM.
11-06-2012 at 10:53 AM.
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Let's say I held a poorly attended sit-in to protest the stupidity of society at large.
on your couch?

Quote from Frogstar :
"This reminds me of the time you tried to drill a hole in your head."
"That would have worked if you hadn't stopped me."
Prop
Trepanning is the addition of a new hole/holes in the skull.
Pseudoscientific/snake oil benefits abound, or so the people that want to drill a hole in your head would have you believe.
similar to a lobotomy? Confused

Quote from veritablequandary :
Mad Dude screw this chick. We're finally talking again, I mention about the 5k - my first ever, ran it in under 28 minutes - instead of "way to go" or "congrats" she goes "haven't you ever run 3 miles before?"

This literally just happened. It's exactly the kind of shit I'm talking about. She is not a good friend. I'm not sure she even knows how to be one.
dude that's pretty darn mean
That doesnt sound like a normal healthy friendship??? (in Mom Voice)
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11-06-2012 at 10:57 AM.
11-06-2012 at 10:57 AM.
Well I pointed out the difference and apparently that was wrong too. Pissed her off again. Maybe this is my chance to finally escape! Roll
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11-06-2012 at 10:57 AM.
11-06-2012 at 10:57 AM.
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Haven't you ever had a psycho hose beast as a friend before?
Reminds me of my first M-I-L. Wink
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11-06-2012 at 11:00 AM.
11-06-2012 at 11:00 AM.
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on your couch?
Not at all!

Recliner.
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similar to a lobotomy? Confused
Eh, with a lobotomy they're going to be trying to remove bits of brain, generally not the reason behind trepanning.

That reminds me I watched Sucker Punch not too long ago. I liked that one too, especially the ending.
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11-06-2012 at 11:06 AM.
11-06-2012 at 11:06 AM.
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Well I pointed out the difference and apparently that was wrong too. Pissed her off again. Maybe this is my chance to finally escape! Roll
laugh out loud

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Reminds me of my first M-I-L. Wink
and my Gram bulb

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Not at all!

Recliner.

Eh, with a lobotomy they're going to be trying to remove bits of brain, generally not the reason behind trepanning.

That reminds me I watched Sucker Punch not too long ago. I liked that one too, especially the ending.
guess what
I dont want anyone screwing around with scissors and scalpels and mini vaccums around my brain and skull- no trepanning or no lobotomy. Unless it will save my life or something.

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maybe all of the obama college kid vote will be too lazy to go out and pull the levers laugh out loud
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11-06-2012 at 11:08 AM.
11-06-2012 at 11:08 AM.
Quote from vviles :
guess what
I dont want anyone screwing around with scissors and scalpels and mini vaccums around my brain and skull- no trepanning or no lobotomy. Unless it will save my life or something.
I don't figure most people do laugh out loud


Wait, what about ice picks? Scratchchin
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