Slickdeals is community-supported.  We may get paid by brands for deals, including promoted items.
Forum Thread

The lounge really has gone downhill.

14,733 848 June 19, 2007 at 11:25 AM in Rant
What is with the new people constantly going into threads and cutting people down? Why are we putting down other's screennames? why are we so goshdarn rude? This site has gotten out of control and mods really need to take control of the rudeness of it. This site used to be such a nice place to hang out. Now you have to stand up for yourself in every thread you make because the asshats come along and either hijack the thread or will start being, well, asshats. And people wonder why we start going to other forums?

Community Wiki

Last Edited by The Raddish June 19, 2007 at 04:17 PM
We have the mod alert feature for a reason, people. Use it. There are eleven of us, and thousands of all of you. We can't read every post.

The Lounge is what you make it. You have the control to help make it better. You want a better Lounge? Be pro-active and do something about it.



This post can be edited by most users to provide up-to-date information about developments of this thread based on user responses, and user findings. Feel free to add, change or remove information shown here as it becomes available. This includes new coupons, rebates, ideas, thread summary, and similar items.

Once a Thread Wiki is added to a thread, "Create Wiki" button will disappear. If you would like to learn more about Thread Wiki feature, click here.

847 Comments

Your comment cannot be blank.

Sign up for a Slickdeals account to remove this ad.

Joined Jan 2005
.
> bubble2 9,603 Posts
caveat depascor
06-19-2007 at 02:10 PM.
06-19-2007 at 02:10 PM.
Quote from Peachyum View quoted comment :
I look at the registration dates and look around the lounge. Same people, some different user names, some forgiven and allowed back, but basically, all the same. So, did the people change or did the rules change?
None of the above. It is 3 months since the last "Bemoan the change in the Lounge" thread. It's all cyclical: cliques, bannishments, storms, all of it.

Be the change you want to see in the lounge --Ghandi (well, if he was a lounger) and if you can't do that either Mod Alert or live with it.
Reply
Joined Sep 2006
Chivalry-never outdated
> bubble2 13,690 Posts
Just Peachy
06-19-2007 at 02:23 PM.
06-19-2007 at 02:23 PM.
Quote from caveat depascor View quoted comment :

Be the change you want to see in the lounge --Ghandi (well, if he was a lounger) and if you can't do that either Mod Alert or live with it.
'Being the change' doesn't make it change. Mod alerting doesn't make it change, it just allows a person time off temporarily. Living with it... I suppose thats the reason for those motoring on to other places. If those who try to make like Ghandi moved on, the only people left would be those who are quite happily living with it no matter what it does to this place.
Reply
Joined Jan 2004
Here's to the future
> bubble2 25,143 Posts
707 Reputation
Iaaaiws
06-19-2007 at 02:24 PM.
06-19-2007 at 02:24 PM.
Quote from The Raddish View quoted comment :
We have the mod alert feature for a reason, people. Use it. There are eleven of us, and thousands of all of you. We can't read every post.

The Lounge is what you make it. You have the control to help make it better. You want a better Lounge? Be pro-active and do something about it.
Ok, so I lied. I guess I do have something to add now. laugh out loud

The problem with that Raddish is that the things that have made the Lounge less enjoyable for some of us aren't necessarily things that are against the rules and therefor don't seem worth mod-alerting. I think I have said it before--what seems to be lacking these days here is respect. It isn't just about the rudeness and the insults; those have always been here. You do it and Lord knows I have done my share. The difference is knowing when it is inappropriate and too often that simple little courtesy just doesn't exist. It took me taking a step back and realizing that I was starting to follow the same pattern to see how easy it is to lose that respect and I didn't like what I saw.

The Lounge is what the members make it. Unfortunately when the numbers grow to such a huge group the ones who seek the most attention are the ones who set the patterns. I've told other people who got upset here in the past that they didn't have thick enough skin to survive the Lounge. It took me quite a while to realize my own skin wasn't quite as thick as I thought.
Reply
Joined Jan 2004
Here's to the future
> bubble2 25,143 Posts
707 Reputation
Iaaaiws
06-19-2007 at 02:27 PM.
06-19-2007 at 02:27 PM.
Quote from caveat depascor View quoted comment :
None of the above. It is 3 months since the last "Bemoan the change in the Lounge" thread. It's all cyclical: cliques, bannishments, storms, all of it.

Be the change you want to see in the lounge --Ghandi (well, if he was a lounger) and if you can't do that either Mod Alert or live with it.
Where do all of your not-so-subtle belittling insults fit in with that advice? Scratchchin
Reply
Joined Jun 2004
L10: Grand Master
> bubble2 27,804 Posts
541 Reputation
Pig
06-19-2007 at 02:33 PM.
06-19-2007 at 02:33 PM.
Quote from ~Kimber~ View quoted comment :
I definately think that there was kind of a "magic" here a year ago that just isn't here for me anymore.

Those were good, silly, fun and crazy times. Sadwalk
So says the person who used to go postal when anyone said the same thing a year back Popcorn
Reply
Joined May 2006
the one and only :)
> bubble2 3,373 Posts
472 Reputation
Slinger
06-19-2007 at 02:37 PM.
06-19-2007 at 02:37 PM.
Quote from The Raddish View quoted comment :
We have the mod alert feature for a reason, people. Use it. There are eleven of us, and thousands of all of you. We can't read every post.

The Lounge is what you make it. You have the control to help make it better. You want a better Lounge? Be pro-active and do something about it.
ok, make me a moderator then Big Grin
Reply
Joined Jun 2004
L10: Grand Master
> bubble2 27,804 Posts
541 Reputation
Pig
06-19-2007 at 02:39 PM.
06-19-2007 at 02:39 PM.
Quote from caveat depascor View quoted comment :
None of the above. It is 3 months since the last "Bemoan the change in the Lounge" thread. It's all cyclical: cliques, bannishments, storms, all of it.

Be the change you want to see in the lounge --Ghandi (well, if he was a lounger) and if you can't do that either Mod Alert or live with it.
Gandhi.

EDIT: Umm...and...it's banishments.

Mod-alerted for having typos in your post.
Reply

Sign up for a Slickdeals account to remove this ad.

Joined Nov 2004
Wuzzy's Best Friend
> bubble2 49,735 Posts
5,126 Reputation
Pro
Staff
Autumn | Staff
06-19-2007 at 02:40 PM.
06-19-2007 at 02:40 PM.
Quote from Iaaaiws View quoted comment :
Ok, so I lied. I guess I do have something to add now. laugh out loud

The problem with that Raddish is that the things that have made the Lounge less enjoyable for some of us aren't necessarily things that are against the rules and therefor don't seem worth mod-alerting. I think I have said it before--what seems to be lacking these days here is respect. It isn't just about the rudeness and the insults; those have always been here. You do it and Lord knows I have done my share. The difference is knowing when it is inappropriate and too often that simple little courtesy just doesn't exist. It took me taking a step back and realizing that I was starting to follow the same pattern to see how easy it is to lose that respect and I didn't like what I saw.

The Lounge is what the members make it. Unfortunately when the numbers grow to such a huge group the ones who seek the most attention are the ones who set the patterns. I've told other people who got upset here in the past that they didn't have thick enough skin to survive the Lounge. It took me quite a while to realize my own skin wasn't quite as thick as I thought.
I always thought I'd never get involved with one of these "The Lounge isn't the same.." discussions either..then I'm always sucked back in, lol. I agree though...with what you first said. Some stuff is either too small to mod alert (but big enough to make the person feel bad/unwelcome) or it doesn't *technically* break the rules. I know there have been a few times in the past week or so I've seen a post that I've thought uncalled for but not necessarily bad enough to mod alert. I know the mods have their hands full already without me filling up their mod alert box with more problems.

Quote from Iaaaiws View quoted comment :
Where do all of your not-so-subtle belittling insults fit in with that advice? Scratchchin

Honestly...I'm trying to think..I don't think I remember CD posting insults. Then again..sometimes it has to be more-than-subtle for me to catch on Wink
Reply
Joined Jun 2004
L10: Grand Master
> bubble2 27,804 Posts
541 Reputation
Pig
06-19-2007 at 02:41 PM.
06-19-2007 at 02:41 PM.
Autumn isn't the same anymore Nono2
Reply
Joined Nov 2004
Wuzzy's Best Friend
> bubble2 49,735 Posts
5,126 Reputation
Pro
Staff
Autumn | Staff
06-19-2007 at 02:43 PM.
06-19-2007 at 02:43 PM.
Quote from Pig View quoted comment :
Gandhi.

EDIT: Umm...and...it's banishments.

Mod-alerted for having typos in your post.
Mod-alerted you for being annoying Annoyed

(j/k...you know I love ya in a non-stalker internet friend way, lol)

Quote from Pig View quoted comment :
Autumn isn't the same anymore Nono2
Unfortunately Pig is exactly the same Roll Eyes (Sarcastic)
Reply
Last edited by Autumn | Staff June 19, 2007 at 02:43 PM.
Joined Jun 2004
L10: Grand Master
> bubble2 27,804 Posts
541 Reputation
Pig
06-19-2007 at 02:43 PM.
06-19-2007 at 02:43 PM.
I'm gonna start a new lounge that will be uphill all the way....take that you biotchesfemale dogs!!!!
Reply
Joined Nov 2004
Wuzzy's Best Friend
> bubble2 49,735 Posts
5,126 Reputation
Pro
Staff
Autumn | Staff
06-19-2007 at 02:44 PM.
06-19-2007 at 02:44 PM.
Quote from Pig View quoted comment :
I'm gonna start a new lounge that will be uphill all the way....take that you biotches!!!!
I'm gonna make a post "The Lounge really has gone uphill"...I think I'd get a lot of Huh posts in it, lol
Reply
Joined Jul 2005
Scarydevil Monastery
> bubble2 26,676 Posts
2,344 Reputation
veritablequandary
06-19-2007 at 02:44 PM.
06-19-2007 at 02:44 PM.
Hey look! Shiny things!
Reply
Joined Jun 2004
L10: Grand Master
> bubble2 27,804 Posts
541 Reputation
Pig
06-19-2007 at 02:44 PM.
06-19-2007 at 02:44 PM.
Quote from Autumn View quoted comment :
I'm gonna make a post "The Lounge really has gone uphill"...I think I'd get a lot of Huh posts in it, lol
Let's see Woot

Quote from veritableqndry View quoted comment :
Hey look! Shiny things!
Woot
Reply
Last edited by Pig June 19, 2007 at 02:44 PM.

Sign up for a Slickdeals account to remove this ad.

Joined Sep 2006
Chivalry-never outdated
> bubble2 13,690 Posts
Just Peachy
06-19-2007 at 02:45 PM.
06-19-2007 at 02:45 PM.
Quote from Pig View quoted comment :
I'm gonna start a new lounge that will be uphill all the way....take that you biotchesfemale dogs!!!!
Annoyed Nono1
Reply
Page 12 of 57
Start the Conversation
 
Link Copied

The link has been copied to the clipboard.