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Is Pornography Cheating?

4,596 545 June 20, 2007 at 02:34 PM in Chat
So I'm listening to my local radio station and an interesting point has been brought up by the hosts when a listener has called in. The point is that his girlfriend has really grilled him thoroughly about finding pornography on his computer.

One host says that pornography is cheating while the other feels that it is not cheating. The caller views this as not cheating. My personal opinion is that it is not cheating as long as there is no physical contact.

This same question can be posed in the form of whether an "online" relationship is considered "real" or not. However, that is for a much different topic and a much different thread.

So the question I pose to you: Is Pornography Cheating?
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GreekRebel
06-20-2007 at 07:49 PM.
06-20-2007 at 07:49 PM.
Quote from coomac :
It's only cheating if there's emotion involved (ala online relationships). When it's just beating the stick (men) or beating around the bush (women) to random strangers that one has about 0.00000000001% chance of ever meeting, it's no big deal.
i don;t think they beat. i think they rub
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Schooby
06-20-2007 at 07:52 PM.
06-20-2007 at 07:52 PM.
pppft... ummm nm
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catluver
06-20-2007 at 07:55 PM.
06-20-2007 at 07:55 PM.
Quote from Devedander :
but if I masturbate, technically I am giving a guy a handjob, but that doesn't make me gay... does it?
laugh out loud I have always wondered about that. LMAO
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Drio
06-20-2007 at 07:56 PM.
06-20-2007 at 07:56 PM.
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pppft... ummm nm
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Schooby
06-20-2007 at 07:58 PM.
06-20-2007 at 07:58 PM.
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What are you doing up so late? laugh out loud
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catluver
06-20-2007 at 07:59 PM.
06-20-2007 at 07:59 PM.
I would only consider it cheating if you would rather watch porn than have sex with your wife
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thoro
06-20-2007 at 09:01 PM.
06-20-2007 at 09:01 PM.
how is it so??
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SoccerHooligan
06-20-2007 at 09:07 PM.
06-20-2007 at 09:07 PM.
Quote from Devedander :
if I masturbate, technically I am giving a guy a handjob, but that doesn't make me gay... does it?
Only if you enjoyed it...

I dont think that porn is cheating at all.... Then again my roommate (extremely Christian) believes it to be....

Then again why not enjoy pron with others.... Much better Stick Out Tongue
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GreekRebel
06-20-2007 at 09:23 PM.
06-20-2007 at 09:23 PM.
Quote from catluver :
I would only consider it cheating if you would rather watch porn than have sex with your wife
what about watching it together, to get into the mood?
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catluver
06-20-2007 at 09:31 PM.
06-20-2007 at 09:31 PM.
Quote from GreekRebel :
what about watching it together, to get into the mood?
Totally cool!
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06-20-2007 at 10:00 PM.
06-20-2007 at 10:00 PM.
Quote from QueensFinest :
"Daddy likes 'em young!"

But in all seriousness, everyone has needs. If the woman is just not giving the guy what he wants (low sex drive, not attractive anymore), then so what? Better that the guy jerks off to some 19 year old than he goes out and hooks up with one in real life.

So no, it's not cheating. Is it immoral? IMO, it is immoral if the guy doesn't let the girl know about it, or vice-versa. However, I can't imagine a guy who doesn't satisfy his woman enough in bed. But I'm only 21, so what do I know?
Rofl2 Rofl2 Oh wait..you weren't kidding?


Stick Out Tongue
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QueensFinest
06-20-2007 at 10:07 PM.
06-20-2007 at 10:07 PM.
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Rofl2 Rofl2 Oh wait..you weren't kidding?


Stick Out Tongue
Nope. It's probably because when a guy gets older, he loses his sex drive...but I'm 21 =]

Besides, who wouldn't want to hear their girl moan? It's so hot. Hopefully one day I'll find a squirter...oh I'll be the happiest man alive.
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06-20-2007 at 10:08 PM.
06-20-2007 at 10:08 PM.
Quote from QueensFinest :
Nope. It's probably because when a guy gets older, he loses his sex drive...but I'm 21 =]

Besides, who wouldn't want to hear their girl moan? It's so hot. Hopefully one day I'll find a squirter...oh I'll be the happiest man alive.
A squirter? Confused
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Jex
06-20-2007 at 10:10 PM.
06-20-2007 at 10:10 PM.
Quote from Autumn :
A squirter? Confused
A women who shoots when she cums. Ummm at 21 I think you may be a bit inexperianced. Im just saying. Stick Out Tongue
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QueensFinest
06-20-2007 at 10:10 PM.
06-20-2007 at 10:10 PM.
Quote from Autumn :
A squirter? Confused
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_ejaculation

If you watch porn, look up the porn star Cytherea. She's called the 'goddess of gush' or something like that.

(http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cyth...rn_star%29)
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