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Is Pornography Cheating?

4,596 545 June 20, 2007 at 02:34 PM in Chat
So I'm listening to my local radio station and an interesting point has been brought up by the hosts when a listener has called in. The point is that his girlfriend has really grilled him thoroughly about finding pornography on his computer.

One host says that pornography is cheating while the other feels that it is not cheating. The caller views this as not cheating. My personal opinion is that it is not cheating as long as there is no physical contact.

This same question can be posed in the form of whether an "online" relationship is considered "real" or not. However, that is for a much different topic and a much different thread.

So the question I pose to you: Is Pornography Cheating?
Is Pornography Cheating?
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Autumn | Staff
06-20-2007 at 11:32 PM.
06-20-2007 at 11:32 PM.
Quote from Jex :
Great now there going to be mad becuse they didn't get that....

Yeah..they should be mad. I mean..when I asked for a video I thought it was gonna be some short "Hey Autumn" vid..however what you sent me..holy cow drool






Wink
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06-20-2007 at 11:33 PM.
06-20-2007 at 11:33 PM.
Quote from Autumn :
Yeah..they should be mad. I mean..when I asked for a video I thought it was gonna be some short "Hey Autumn" vid..however what you sent me..holy cow drool






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You sooo better not show anyone. Im just sayin.
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06-20-2007 at 11:35 PM.
06-20-2007 at 11:35 PM.
Quote from Jex :
You sooo better not show anyone. Im just sayin.
Don't worry. I won't.

At first I thought the clown in the back was a strange addition but then towards the end I saw how much it really added to the video.
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06-20-2007 at 11:39 PM.
06-20-2007 at 11:39 PM.
Quote from Jex :
It's worth it.nod
drool can't wait!

Quote from Autumn :
Don't worry. I won't.

At first I thought the clown in the back was a strange addition but then towards the end I saw how much it really added to the video.
But...but...we're STFU buddies! We should share things.
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06-20-2007 at 11:40 PM.
06-20-2007 at 11:40 PM.
Quote from Dizzy Devil :
drool can't wait!



But...but...we're STFU buddies! We should share things.
Scratchchin True.

Secret Ok...I'll send it to you. Don't tell Jex though!
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Dizzy Devil
06-20-2007 at 11:42 PM.
06-20-2007 at 11:42 PM.
Quote from Autumn :
Scratchchin True.

Secret Ok...I'll send it to you. Don't tell Jex though!
woot YAY!

I mean...no thank you. That would violate his trust
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Jex
06-20-2007 at 11:44 PM.
06-20-2007 at 11:44 PM.
Wait a minute now.....Mmmhmm.
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06-20-2007 at 11:48 PM.
06-20-2007 at 11:48 PM.
Quote from Dizzy Devil :
woot YAY!

I mean...no thank you. That would violate his trust
True...and we definitely wouldn't want to do anything to violet Jex's trust Nono2
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QueensFinest
06-21-2007 at 04:00 AM.
06-21-2007 at 04:00 AM.
Quote from Autumn :
Don't worry. I won't.

At first I thought the clown in the back was a strange addition but then towards the end I saw how much it really added to the video.
Ok, you people are weird. BTW I just woke up.

Quote from Autumn :
But what about the poop noodle?
Enema.
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06-21-2007 at 04:09 AM.
06-21-2007 at 04:09 AM.
What if I don't look at porn but I rub one out by myself, is that considered cheating? Confused
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StarNova
06-21-2007 at 04:12 AM.
06-21-2007 at 04:12 AM.
Quote from saint0r :
every guy looks at porn! of course it isnt cheating... i dont know what femenized men hating radio station you listen to, but... stop

I didnt know The View was on radio now...
Not every guy looks at porn. Some think it's disgusting or degrading. Many of those woman have to be drugged up or given alcohol to help them "perform". Only a few make decent money, most are used and tossed away when they lose their looks to drugs and booze.

Not to mention the AIDS and STD testing most porn stars have to go thru.

Hey, that's a great job...let's get tested for AIDS every month so you can keep your job. shake head

http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/m...ewsid=7348

article "Second porn star tested positive for HIV"
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junbug178
06-21-2007 at 04:12 AM.
06-21-2007 at 04:12 AM.
Quote from StarNova :
Not every guy looks at porn. Some think it's disgusting or degrading. Many of those woman have to be drugged up or given alcohol to help them "perform". Only a few make decent money, most are used and tossed away when they lose their looks to drugs and booze.

Not to mention the AIDS and STD testing most porn stars have to go thru.

Hey, that's a great job...let's get tested for AIDS every month so you can keep your job. shake head
Those poor women getting pounded like no tomorrow...they are consenting adults give me a break...Cool
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StarNova
06-21-2007 at 04:34 AM.
06-21-2007 at 04:34 AM.
Quote from junbug178 :
Those poor women getting pounded like no tomorrow...they are consenting adults give me a break...Cool
Not all porn is harmless, not all people you see are consenting.

Yeah and it's so fun to get AIDS and be at risk for STDs

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/progra...135473.stm

700 arrested for global child porn ring

http://www.cbc.ca/canada/edmonton...-ring.html

Violent killers and their relationship to porn

http://www.guardian.co.uk/crime/a...50,00.html

http://media.www.thebatt.com/medi...3083.shtml
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Dark_Saber
06-21-2007 at 05:24 AM.
06-21-2007 at 05:24 AM.
I don't think that it is cheating, especially when you watch it with your SO
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Mavtech
06-21-2007 at 05:24 AM.
06-21-2007 at 05:24 AM.
Quote from SlickChik :
Iagree

Also, if it has been made perfectly clear before the relationship became serious that the woman (or maybe in some cases man?) does not want her partner looking at porn.....and he does anyways and just hides it....then yeah. Its not the worst kind of cheating....but boundries were put up before things got serious.

I think a lot depends on how the other partner views porn.....I don't think there is just one definition that work across all couples.
Come on. That's just lying....not cheating. It's like saying that a guy is cheating if he checks out some hot chick. Every man does and he's a damn liar if he denies it.

Porn can have some good benefits. You know how it is after marriage and kids. The woman gets complacent and stops giving it up. I'm sure every woman would rather a man watch porn and snap one off than go out and REALLY cheat.

I sure am glad I am married to my wife and not some uptight ball and chain like some men I know. When my buddy sends me a good video clip, I always share it with my wife. Just last week, we watched the DVD I got at my bachelor party at Mons Venus.
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Last edited by Mavtech June 21, 2007 at 05:27 AM.
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