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Is Pornography Cheating?
June 20, 2007 at
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So I'm listening to my local radio station and an interesting point has been brought up by the hosts when a listener has called in. The point is that his girlfriend has really grilled him thoroughly about finding pornography on his computer.
One host says that pornography is cheating while the other feels that it is not cheating. The caller views this as not cheating. My personal opinion is that it is not cheating as long as there is no physical contact.
This same question can be posed in the form of whether an "online" relationship is considered "real" or not. However, that is for a much different topic and a much different thread.
So the question I pose to you: Is Pornography Cheating?
One host says that pornography is cheating while the other feels that it is not cheating. The caller views this as not cheating. My personal opinion is that it is not cheating as long as there is no physical contact.
This same question can be posed in the form of whether an "online" relationship is considered "real" or not. However, that is for a much different topic and a much different thread.
So the question I pose to you: Is Pornography Cheating?
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Men are pigs!
Intimacy means that you can share all your fantasies, etc. with the other person without fear of humiliation.... but it also means that you will turn to that person for those fantasies, etc. being fulfilled. Not to porn.
There is no intimacy when someone is alone. None. Sex was made so relationships can be solidified, in my opinion. Just because men like it more often or whatever doesn't mean that it's against relationship-building. It's a puzzle that the husband and wife work on together... no one said life was easy... well, sex isn't either.
The best gift a person can give their wife/husband is 100% pure, unadulterated, only-for-you, faithful, passionate sex.
Porn just robs that... it doesn't build intimacy at all.
Intimacy means that you can share all your fantasies, etc. with the other person without fear of humiliation.... but it also means that you will turn to that person for those fantasies, etc. being fulfilled. Not to porn.
There is no intimacy when someone is alone. None. Sex was made so relationships can be solidified, in my opinion. Just because men like it more often or whatever doesn't mean that it's against relationship-building. It's a puzzle that the husband and wife work on together... no one said life was easy... well, sex isn't either.
The best gift a person can give their wife/husband is 100% pure, unadulterated, only-for-you, faithful, passionate sex.
Porn just robs that... it doesn't build intimacy at all.
When doing it together, again, it CAN build intimacy....indirectly. Many therapists suggest couples watch porn together to get that spark back. In turn, that can bring back the intimacy you speak of (or enhance it).
When doing it together, again, it CAN build intimacy....indirectly. Many therapists suggest couples watch porn together to get that spark back. In turn, that can bring back the intimacy you speak of (or enhance it).
so can "BOB"
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Do you see anything wrong with a guy driving to the local high school with a video camera, and taping the cheerleader practice from the parking lot? I mean, it's only natural for a guy to get turned on by 16 year old girls in tight clothes, he should be able fire one off right there in his car, shouldn't he?
Do you see anything wrong with a guy driving to the local high school with a video camera, and taping the cheerleader practice from the parking lot? I mean, it's only natural for a guy to get turned on by 16 year old girls in tight clothes, he should be able fire one off right there in his car, shouldn't he?
now was this in KY that your above senerio takes place?? cause then i't be legal...
Do you see anything wrong with a guy driving to the local high school with a video camera, and taping the cheerleader practice from the parking lot? I mean, it's only natural for a guy to get turned on by 16 year old girls in tight clothes, he should be able fire one off right there in his car, shouldn't he?
I'm pretty sure a grown man going onto school property and snapping one off is illegal.
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I think it's kind of like the whole porn thing. There's 0% chance I could ever have these guys just like there's usually a 0% chance the guy could ever have the girl he watches in the porn video. It's pretty harmless.
Now if either of us started fantasizing about other people we know in real life and might Actually have a chance with...then I don't think I'd call that "cheating" but that's not something I would take lightly either.