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So my wife is dating this guy...

8,512 793 July 5, 2007 at 07:19 AM in Finance (13)
..I think it's time to dump her. Should we get divorced?

She went out last Saturday night with some guy, stayed out until 1 am. Then on Tuesday, she's out again until 1 am, says they went to eat and then a movie!!?! Last night, 1:30. It's getting later, I guess it's time to dump her! Sadwalk

What would you do?
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07-05-2007 at 08:06 AM.
07-05-2007 at 08:06 AM.
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I'd take you to the mat, to wrassle in some mud or jello Wink5
raspberry jello?
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07-05-2007 at 08:07 AM.
07-05-2007 at 08:07 AM.
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Really? We do that now? Scratchhead
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WoodyWoodPecker
07-05-2007 at 08:10 AM.
07-05-2007 at 08:10 AM.
That sux , good luck and you need to get money out of anything with both your names on it before she beats you to it ! nod
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07-05-2007 at 08:11 AM.
07-05-2007 at 08:11 AM.
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raspberry jello?
I only wrestle in mud..jello is too sticky. Nono2

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07-05-2007 at 08:12 AM.
07-05-2007 at 08:12 AM.
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laugh out loud I managed to pick out some good points. Thumbup
Besides the part where he said women suck. Ranting
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Shucksgirl
07-05-2007 at 08:13 AM.
07-05-2007 at 08:13 AM.
I don't like raspberries anymore and it's all Kimber's fault Frown

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stealth
07-05-2007 at 08:15 AM.
07-05-2007 at 08:15 AM.
Quote from WoodyWoodPecker :
That sux , good luck and you need to get money out of anything with both your names on it before she beats you to it ! nod
I know! But I don't want the bills to get kicked back!

My paycheck is already direct deposited to my personal account, and then I x-fer it to the joint account and pay bills. I'll probably start paying from the personal account from now on.

We both work (usually.. she's been unemployed for 2 weeks, but starts again in a week). I make more than her. I'm worried because her Mom is so selfish, always giving advice to try and get more money. When her Mom goes out to eat, she almost always complains about the food to try and get a free meal.
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Just Peachy
07-05-2007 at 08:15 AM.
07-05-2007 at 08:15 AM.
How old are all of the children and do they all live with you two?

Sorry to hear about this, Stealth. I hope that it's like some others have said is a possibility and that she's just seeing the guy as a friend and not a date. hug
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~Kimber~
07-05-2007 at 08:15 AM.
07-05-2007 at 08:15 AM.
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I don't like raspberries anymore and it's all Kimber's fault Frown

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laugh out loud Think of how I feel..all things raspberry are now evil! Crying
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07-05-2007 at 08:18 AM.
07-05-2007 at 08:18 AM.
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How old are all of the children and do they all live with you two?

Sorry to hear about this, Stealth. I hope that it's like some others have said is a possibility and that she's just seeing the guy as a friend and not a date. hug
ages 16 to 6, yes they all live with us


but when you're married, your s.o. is supposed to be your friend, not some guy who probably just wants to get laid. Mad
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~Precious~
07-05-2007 at 08:20 AM.
07-05-2007 at 08:20 AM.
Stealth, sorry to hear that. Its really awful. She is doing it openly? with you knowing ? wow!!

be glad you dont have any kids together! ya..keep safe your assets and talk to a lawyer. good luck Comfort

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laugh out loud Think of how I feel..all things raspberry are now evil! Crying
I'd like to know from your boss..how the BBW splash stays on for so long.

I pretty much dump the whole bottle on and still it doesnt last for few minutes...Ranting

and no..I dont smell bad..and im not covering up Mad

sorry for OT, OP.
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Just Peachy
07-05-2007 at 08:24 AM.
07-05-2007 at 08:24 AM.
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ages 16 to 6, yes they all live with us


but when you're married, your s.o. is supposed to be your friend, not some guy who probably just wants to get laid. Mad
Have you talked to the children to see how they feel? Their lives are in the balance on what happens here too. Sadwalk

Well, just because she's married doesn't mean she needed to give up having friends anymore than you did. I understand that coming home at 1AM is harsh, but, that doesn't mean she unequivocally has become the guys mattress. You need to be positive on what her intentions are with this guy before you disband and usurp the lives of 7 (counts household population from memory) people. Wink
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07-05-2007 at 08:24 AM.
07-05-2007 at 08:24 AM.
Quote from stealth :
..I think it's time to dump her. Should we get divorced?

She went out last Saturday night with some guy, stayed out until 1 am. Then on Tuesday, she's out again until 1 am, says they went to eat and then a movie!!?! Last night, 1:30. It's getting later, I guess it's time to dump her! Sadwalk

What would you do?
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It's been a little rocky. Married 3 years. Second marriage for both of us, we had promised not to cheat to each other. Roll Eyes (Sarcastic)

I have 2 kids, she has 3. None together.

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do any of the kids live with u2? if so, then she really msut hate u to risk kids/etc (unless kids hate u 2)

over this
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~Precious~
07-05-2007 at 08:25 AM.
07-05-2007 at 08:25 AM.
Quote from stealth :
ages 16 to 6, yes they all live with us


but when you're married, your s.o. is supposed to be your friend, not some guy who probably just wants to get laid. Mad
you might be wrong here. It is not like...you become married..and your whole world shrinks down to one person..husband, friend, everything.

With my bf, I pretty much made him everything..for me.friend..bf, co- diet-buster ..everything..but i ended up losing most of my friends because i was always always hanging out with him. not that i regret it..but i'd like to have my friends too ..ya know

my best friend is a guy..whom i hang out with often. i go out to a bar or club with him..on fridays..or weekends..and ther have been times i came home at 5:00 in the morning..now..i don expect my bf to dump me!!

be sure before you take a decision
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07-05-2007 at 08:26 AM.
07-05-2007 at 08:26 AM.
i'm sorry stealth, rammy did say he took his daughter and her 'friend' out for girls night out to see ratatouille. i wouldn't consider that a threat. just think of it as 'girls night out'.

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stealth, just teasing....i hope you two can sit down and clear up the unanswered questions so you can have a better idea of what you two want to do. hug
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