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So my wife is dating this guy...

8,512 793 July 5, 2007 at 07:19 AM in Finance (13)
..I think it's time to dump her. Should we get divorced?

She went out last Saturday night with some guy, stayed out until 1 am. Then on Tuesday, she's out again until 1 am, says they went to eat and then a movie!!?! Last night, 1:30. It's getting later, I guess it's time to dump her! Sadwalk

What would you do?
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stealth
07-05-2007 at 09:00 PM.
07-05-2007 at 09:00 PM.
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Yeah im right in the middle. Hutchinson.
I used to live in Hutch! High Five
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Jex
07-05-2007 at 09:02 PM.
07-05-2007 at 09:02 PM.
Quote from stealth :
I used to live in Hutch! High Five
Lol yeah you got out......lucky sob. Stick Out Tongue

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Hutch, shit I stayed in hutch for a little. Back when I was working the Carnival. Ahhhhh carney times, some good, some bad, great money in it though.
Im not that far down. Only about what 4 hours from kc.
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stealth
07-05-2007 at 09:14 PM.
07-05-2007 at 09:14 PM.
Quote from Jex :
Lol yeah you got out......lucky sob. Stick Out Tongue


Im not that far down. Only about what 4 hours from kc.
Harhar

Come on up! nod I know the drive well.
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User162332
07-05-2007 at 10:19 PM.
07-05-2007 at 10:19 PM.
There is nothing to talk about. She obviously has no respect for you or she wouldn't be doing what she is doing. Call a PI, get her on video for a good month, go see every divorce lawyer in the city so she can't hire one, change all your financial items to someone who actually loves you, then go on vacation and begin the rest of your life.
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jenni.
07-05-2007 at 10:41 PM.
07-05-2007 at 10:41 PM.
EEK!
Sweetie, if she doesn't have respect for you now, she ain't gonna get it. Let her go out and have her crap out on the lawn when she gets back, and have the locks changed. hug
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dinsomnia
07-05-2007 at 11:50 PM.
07-05-2007 at 11:50 PM.
Sorry to hear that, Stealth. I'm doing a divorce at work, and they just suck for everybody. I wish I had some advice for you, but I think it's been pretty well covered here already.

"There's an old saying in Tennessee I know it's in Texas, probably in Tennessee that says, fool me once, shame on shame on you. Fool me you can't get fooled again."
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Stuff4Duff
07-06-2007 at 01:13 AM.
07-06-2007 at 01:13 AM.
Just start doing what you think she is doing. Eventually you see the truth. Then make up your mind on what you want to do. Hopefully she is doing the things you think she is doing. Atleast you'll have another woman in the meanwhile to have fun with. And atleast take her (not the wife) out to dinner and be back home by 1:00 am. Then you'll atleast break even at the table. Then get the f*&^LMAO out of game.
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k_mcg
07-06-2007 at 01:48 AM.
07-06-2007 at 01:48 AM.
im sorry
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junbug178
07-06-2007 at 04:43 AM.
07-06-2007 at 04:43 AM.
Is this a wrap for SCS?
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07-06-2007 at 06:26 AM.
07-06-2007 at 06:26 AM.
Quote from stimpy :
I'm sure she just stopped for 1




..... I can only say this: If they ARE in fact farking, they will never admit it - ever. If they stay together, they'll even tell people that they didn't date till after the divorce.

(I didn't read the whole thread, sorry if this was covered.)

And glad to see you handling this so well Stealth hug
Thanks stimpy! woot

It hasn't been covered, and I think you're right. I can handle it so well cuz it's happened to me before. Sadwalk


Anyway, love the pic! Thumbup laugh out loud
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n30
07-06-2007 at 06:27 AM.
07-06-2007 at 06:27 AM.
liquidate your assets, and move them far, far, away.
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afx
07-06-2007 at 06:40 AM.
07-06-2007 at 06:40 AM.
Sorry, after page 4 I stopped reading (im on a 40 post per page too) Did he ever find out if she was really cheating on him and not just going out with a guy?
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cav
07-06-2007 at 06:42 AM.
07-06-2007 at 06:42 AM.
update?
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jenni.
07-06-2007 at 06:46 AM.
07-06-2007 at 06:46 AM.
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Did he ever find out if she was really cheating on him and not just going out with a guy?
Same thing
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stealth
07-06-2007 at 06:51 AM.
07-06-2007 at 06:51 AM.
We talked for awhile and she basically says that I push her away. I told her she's just looking for justification, and what she's doing is wrong. It was more involved but I don't want to go into it here.

As stimpy said, they won't openly admit to sleeping together. But my gut tells me they are.

He called the house yesterday! EEK! I just gave her the phone and left.

When I came back a few minutes later, she had left and went to his house. She "needed a couple of hours" to think.

I guess she thinks better on her back. EEK! (or knees) EEK!
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