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So my wife is dating this guy...

8,512 793 July 5, 2007 at 07:19 AM in Finance (13)
..I think it's time to dump her. Should we get divorced?

She went out last Saturday night with some guy, stayed out until 1 am. Then on Tuesday, she's out again until 1 am, says they went to eat and then a movie!!?! Last night, 1:30. It's getting later, I guess it's time to dump her! Sadwalk

What would you do?
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Amel
07-11-2007 at 12:23 PM.
07-11-2007 at 12:23 PM.
ghagahgahga

*shakes head*
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nutter218
07-11-2007 at 12:33 PM.
07-11-2007 at 12:33 PM.
Good luck, man.
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Mobius One
07-11-2007 at 01:09 PM.
07-11-2007 at 01:09 PM.
Quote from stealth :
The Judge wasn't available to sign the papers yesterday, but it was submitted to the courts. It should go out today and she should receive it tomorrow.
Frown so you will take the day off tomorrow to see how she takes it? I think we all want to know how the Hoe takes it. LMAO
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Autumn | Staff
07-11-2007 at 01:27 PM.
07-11-2007 at 01:27 PM.
It sounds to me like you made the right decision, even though it must be hard hug

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ghagahgahga

*shakes head*
And a ghagghagha to you too..
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stealth
07-11-2007 at 01:55 PM.
07-11-2007 at 01:55 PM.
500 replies and 10,000 views! Yahoo! Excuse me while I relish the moment.

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Drio
07-11-2007 at 01:58 PM.
07-11-2007 at 01:58 PM.
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500 replies and 10,000 views! Yahoo! Excuse me while I relish the moment.
You rock man. You should do this more often. laugh out loud
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.Ally.
07-11-2007 at 02:45 PM.
07-11-2007 at 02:45 PM.
I can't believe I read this entire thread. laugh out loud

Best of luck to you. She sounds like an idiot and a whore. I'm predicting that something will go down with this new guy and she'll run back to you. BE STRONG!!! I just went through a divorce with a cheating husband and it is no fun....does a job on your self-esteem....but IT WILL GET BETTER!!! hug
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.Ally.
07-11-2007 at 05:02 PM.
07-11-2007 at 05:02 PM.
Update, dammit! laugh out loud
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ahnil8er
07-11-2007 at 05:08 PM.
07-11-2007 at 05:08 PM.
Quote from stealth :
500 replies and 10,000 views! Yahoo! Excuse me while I relish the moment.
all it took was to divorce a cheating wife, and to screw your life over Woot
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TigerStar
07-11-2007 at 06:36 PM.
07-11-2007 at 06:36 PM.
I wonder if he is hitting it right now.
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Iaaaiws
07-11-2007 at 06:56 PM.
07-11-2007 at 06:56 PM.
This thread hit just a little too close to home for me and brought back some memories I would rather not have thought about again. Stealth, I wish you all the best and I hope you come through this as pain-free as possible like it sounds so far. People can make light of the situation and that is all right, but something like this can really catch up with you in a hurry when it all sinks in. Make sure you take care of yourself more than anything as you go through this.
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stealth
07-12-2007 at 07:38 AM.
07-12-2007 at 07:38 AM.
Quote from Iaaaiws :
This thread hit just a little too close to home for me and brought back some memories I would rather not have thought about again. Stealth, I wish you all the best and I hope you come through this as pain-free as possible like it sounds so far. People can make light of the situation and that is all right, but something like this can really catch up with you in a hurry when it all sinks in. Make sure you take care of yourself more than anything as you go through this.
Thanks Iaaaiws! Sorry to hear you went through something similar! Comfort

I told her last night that I filed, so no surprise party. Cool I'm hoping the separation will be amicable. She should receive the certified letter today or tomorrow.

I guess I still have some feelings for her, and want her to be happy. I have to shoulder some of the responsibility for not creating an atmosphere where she was happy in our marriage. I also talked to the kids about it. They are handling it very well. They already knew. We all agree that it will be a time of mixed emotions. And I let them know that they can talk to me about anything they're feeling. nod
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XXnarg
07-12-2007 at 07:41 AM.
07-12-2007 at 07:41 AM.
Quote from stealth :
...EDIT: Xnarg, notice I put your quote in my siggy! Thumbup
I saw! I'm very worship honored!

The way I heard it originally was:
"No matter how good looking a woman is, there is a guy somewhere who is tired of [farking] her."
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Drio
07-12-2007 at 07:46 AM.
07-12-2007 at 07:46 AM.
Quote from stealth :
Thanks Iaaaiws! Sorry to hear you went through something similar! Comfort

I told her last night that I filed, so no surprise party. Cool I'm hoping the separation will be amicable. She should receive the certified letter today or tomorrow.

I guess I still have some feelings for her, and want her to be happy. I have to shoulder some of the responsibility for not creating an atmosphere where she was happy in our marriage. I also talked to the kids about it. They are handling it very well. They already knew. We all agree that it will be a time of mixed emotions. And I let them know that they can talk to me about anything they're feeling. nod
You are one level headed fellow stealth. I'm sure this experience has hurt you more than you let on... but still.. I think you've handled the situation well, and you've even accepted a bit of responsibility to lie on your own shoulders. Of course a situation like this is rarely the fault of only one person, but rarely do people admit that to themselves, especially when they are in the middle of it all. Um... did that make sense? Weeeeee! Painkillers!
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XXnarg
07-12-2007 at 07:47 AM.
07-12-2007 at 07:47 AM.
Quote from Drio :
Is there any other way? Confused
You mean the woman is supposed to finish? EEK!
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