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Santa Barbara murders

12,104 277 May 26, 2014 at 05:56 AM in News (2)
Hundreds gathered at a memorial service Sunday night to mourn six young people killed two nights earlier by a gunman in a California college town.


Elliot Rodger, 22, the son of a Hollywood director, fatally stabbed three people in his apartment before shooting dead three others on Friday in Isla Vista, near the University of California at Santa Barbara campus. He then shot himself.
Rodger killed two women and four men, aged 19 to 22, and wounded 13 people, including eight who he shot as he sped through town in his black BMW, exchanging fire with police, authorities said.
Minutes before opening fire the former community college student emailed his plans to some 30 people including his mother, father and former teachers, said Cathleen Bloeser, whose son was a childhood friend of Rodger and received a copy.
Rodger stated his intention to kill his housemates, lure others to his home to continue the mayhem then slaughter women in a sorority and bring his spree to the streets of Isla Vista.
The manifesto, which details Rodger's fear that his guns might have been discovered when police visited him less than a month ago, was not the first indication of a troubled mind.

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Am I the only one who sees the results of raising a self-esteem based "everyone gets a trophy" generation here? When everyone gets a trophy and every child is constantly told that they are special and everything they do is amazing, they never learn how to deal with rejection and failure. Failure is part of life and shielding children from it to preserve their self esteem is like smothering your child in antibiotics their whole life to protect them from getting sick and then wondering why they have no immune system when they grow up. If a child never learns how to cope with losing and being wrong, when they reach adulthood they don't have the mental faculties to deal with the failure they will invariably encounter in their adult lives. The guy who shot those innocent people in Santa Barbara claims that it was revenge for being rejected by the girls and the popular kids at his college. I was rejected by girls and popular kids my entire life and shooting a bunch of people never entered my mind. Maybe instead of giving our kids a trophy when they lose, we should teach them that losing is a part of life and give them the tools that they need to cope with failure, learn from it, and then get on with their lives.

Just a thought.



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05-27-2014 at 05:03 PM.
05-27-2014 at 05:03 PM.
Quote from Zoe Moon :
Yeah because 50 years ago we didn't have TV stations or newspapers or national news. Wink
There wasn't a 24 hour news cycle though with cable news channels desperately trying to increase their ratings by sensationalizing everything though...
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05-27-2014 at 05:07 PM.
05-27-2014 at 05:07 PM.
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Yeah because 50 years ago we didn't have TV stations or newspapers or national news. Wink
Quote from dalokgawd :
There wasn't a 24 hour news cycle though with cable news channels desperately trying to increase their ratings by sensationalizing everything though...
This. I wasn't implying that national news didn't exist but it sure didn't try to cover every little shooting that happened in any public place and politicize it for the sole purpose to creating outrage and anger to draw ratings.
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05-27-2014 at 05:08 PM.
05-27-2014 at 05:08 PM.
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What's very sad is that people used to look at the person to explain why they did something. Now people blame everything BUT the person...
This is all part of the same problem I was talking about in the OP. Everyone is a special wonderful unique little snowflake who only does amazing and excellent things worthy of praise and reward. How could we possibly blame someone when they mess up if we treat our children in such a way so preserve their precious self esteem? So now, when someone screws up it is never their fault. It's society's fault, it's the government's fault, it's the video games' fault, it's Hollywood's fault... it's everyone and anyone's fault except the person who actually screwed up.
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Zoe Moon
05-27-2014 at 05:14 PM.
05-27-2014 at 05:14 PM.
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This. I wasn't implying that national news didn't exist but it sure didn't try to cover every little shooting that happened in any public place and politicize it for the sole purpose to creating outrage and anger to draw ratings.
Have you ever heard of the book, In Cold Blood? It was a mass killing of a family that made national news. Then there's the Manson Family murders, The Zodiac Killings, Bonny and Clyde, etc.
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05-27-2014 at 05:16 PM.
05-27-2014 at 05:16 PM.
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Have you ever heard of the book, In Cold Blood? It was a mass killing of a family that made national news. Then there's the Manson Family murders, The Zodiac Killings, Bonny and Clyde, etc.
And how many such murders were there that weren't sensational enough to make the national news? Even you have to admit that Zodiac and Bonny & Clyde are exceptional cases.
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05-27-2014 at 05:18 PM.
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Have you ever heard of the book, In Cold Blood? It was a mass killing of a family that made national news. Then there's the Manson Family murders, The Zodiac Killings, Bonny and Clyde, etc.
When the news reported on these killings did it just report on the killings or did it try to imply that they were a growing national problem despite statistics showing otherwise?
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05-27-2014 at 05:19 PM.
05-27-2014 at 05:19 PM.
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And how many such murders were there that weren't sensational enough to make the national news? Even you have to admit that Zodiac and Bonny & Clyde are exceptional cases.
When you're talking about multiple murders, serial killings, they usually were reported on a national level.
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05-27-2014 at 05:38 PM.
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When you're talking about multiple murders, serial killings, they usually were reported on a national level.
I wasn't alive at the time so I guess I will have to take your word for it. Dontknow
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05-27-2014 at 06:39 PM.
05-27-2014 at 06:39 PM.
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I wasn't alive at the time so I guess I will have to take your word for it. Dontknow
Travel back to 1988, go to a library, and look up old newspapers on microfiche. Lazy bum.
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05-27-2014 at 06:44 PM.
05-27-2014 at 06:44 PM.
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I wasn't alive at the time so I guess I will have to take your word for it. Dontknow
Did you just call me old! Annoyed

laugh out loud

I'm not saying every newpaper and TV station reported the stories but most did, especially the bigger papers and stations. Take a look at all the wire photos on sale on ebay, a lot of them are related to murders. The AP and other news agencies wouldn't have gone to the expense of sending out these photos if they weren't being used in various parts of the country.

I remember the Sam Sheppard retrial back in the 60's, it was a big deal at the time.


http://www.ebay.com/sch/i.html?_o...acat=14281

These are really old, pre 1940s. Before my time even.
http://www.ebay.com/dsc/Vintage-A...oto+murder
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05-27-2014 at 10:36 PM.
05-27-2014 at 10:36 PM.
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What's very sad is that people used to look at the person to explain why they did something. Now people blame everything BUT the person and you are no exception. This man was severely mentally disturbed. Believe it or not, mentally disturbed people snapped and killed people even in your "utopia" of a time period. The electronics didn't cause him to snap, the electronics caused you to think that they did because 50 years ago (during the war) news of a person killing 6 people wouldn't have made it outside of the news in that very state.
Believe it or not, we did get the news of violent crimes, but they were fewer and far between. And, I never said I lived in utopia, that is your word. We lost some of the best and brightest due to assassinations. Violence was a part of our everyday life, but not a big part of our entertainment. Our most violent games were Clue, Mousetrap, and Risk. People were shocked and saddened by the senseless loss of life. And we did have intense coverage of news events (not like the 24 news channels of today repeatedly barfing crap). I spent my entire 12th summer watching the Watergate hearings. While that wasn't about violent crimes, it was a blow to Americans to watch the depth of treachery unfold about the government that was supposed to be focused on the welfare of the country.

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This. I wasn't implying that national news didn't exist but it sure didn't try to cover every little shooting that happened in any public place and politicize it for the sole purpose to creating outrage and anger to draw ratings.
My point about how we have become desensitized. And at the same time, overwrought.

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Have you ever heard of the book, In Cold Blood? It was a mass killing of a family that made national news. Then there's the Manson Family murders, The Zodiac Killings, Bonny and Clyde, etc.
Yep, there have always been crazy people. The Manson murders were beyond belief.
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05-28-2014 at 04:50 AM.
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Did you just call me old! Annoyed
All I said is that you're older than ME. Bleh
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05-28-2014 at 04:59 AM.
05-28-2014 at 04:59 AM.
Whoa! Maine became a state in 1820!
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05-28-2014 at 06:54 AM.
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If he had spent his money on prostitutes instead of guns he would have been much happier.
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If he had spent his money on prostitutes instead of guns this story might have had a happy ending.
ftfy...
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