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So my wife is dating this guy...

8,512 793 July 5, 2007 at 07:19 AM
..I think it's time to dump her. Should we get divorced?

She went out last Saturday night with some guy, stayed out until 1 am. Then on Tuesday, she's out again until 1 am, says they went to eat and then a movie!!?! Last night, 1:30. It's getting later, I guess it's time to dump her! Sadwalk

What would you do?
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Timmmmy
07-05-2007 at 07:20 AM.
07-05-2007 at 07:20 AM.
Drop her like Mexicans drop car insurance. Sorry for the bad stereotype.
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TigerStar
07-05-2007 at 07:22 AM.
07-05-2007 at 07:22 AM.
Dude that sucks. Lot depends on if this is first sign of trouble.

Look at the bright side, if you take her back, you should be able to get OTs all of the time because she knows she screwed up.
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briang
07-05-2007 at 07:22 AM.
07-05-2007 at 07:22 AM.
she TOLD you she went to dinner and a movie with another guy?

that's messed up.
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cav
07-05-2007 at 07:22 AM.
07-05-2007 at 07:22 AM.
confront her with it first? findout what the fk is going on..
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stealth
07-05-2007 at 07:23 AM.
07-05-2007 at 07:23 AM.
Quote from TigerStar :
Dude that sucks. Lot depends on if this is first sign of trouble.

Look at the bright side, if you take her back, you should be able to get OTs all of the time because she knows she screwed up.
It's been a little rocky. Married 3 years. Second marriage for both of us, we had promised not to cheat to each other. Roll Eyes (Sarcastic)

I have 2 kids, she has 3. None together.

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she TOLD you she went to dinner and a movie with another guy?

that's messed up.
Iagree
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TigerStar
07-05-2007 at 07:23 AM.
07-05-2007 at 07:23 AM.
Yeah, get all of the facts, but there will always be a trust issue from now on.
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07-05-2007 at 07:24 AM.
07-05-2007 at 07:24 AM.
Quote from cav :
confront her with it first? findout what the fk is going on..
cav I thought you'd have good advice for me! High Five

Like, should I hire a P.I. so I'm not taken to the cleaners in the courts? Scratchhead
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TigerStar
07-05-2007 at 07:24 AM.
07-05-2007 at 07:24 AM.
Seriously, plan now.

If you are considering it, start putting away assets NOW.
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07-05-2007 at 07:25 AM.
07-05-2007 at 07:25 AM.
Quote from stealth :
cav I thought you'd have good advice for me! High Five

Like, should I hire a P.I. so I'm not taken to the cleaners in the courts? Scratchhead
if she admits to hanging out with some guy.. i would consider it if you have the money... more proof/evidence the better when it comes to our legal system. especially since the court 99% of the time leans in a females favor.
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07-05-2007 at 07:25 AM.
07-05-2007 at 07:25 AM.
Quote from TigerStar :
Seriously, plan now.

If you are considering it, start putting away assets NOW.
It's almost too late. I'm ready to file today! Woot

I'm getting ready to contact an attorney.
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TigerStar
07-05-2007 at 07:26 AM.
07-05-2007 at 07:26 AM.
Take the money out of an shared bank accounts.
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07-05-2007 at 07:26 AM.
07-05-2007 at 07:26 AM.
Quote from cav :
if she admits to hanging out with some guy.. i would consider it if you have the money... more proof/evidence the better when it comes to our legal system. especially since the court 99% of the time leans in a females favor.
Iagree
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cav
07-05-2007 at 07:27 AM.
07-05-2007 at 07:27 AM.
Quote from stealth :
It's almost too late. I'm ready to file today! Woot

I'm getting ready to contact an attorney.
i can refer you to mine.. i am about 18 more referals away from getting my 2nd divorce for free.
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07-05-2007 at 07:27 AM.
07-05-2007 at 07:27 AM.
Take her name off of any beneficiary papers (other than some like life insurance that you cannot until the divorce is final).
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