Would you advise your cousin's girlfriend not to get engaged? *UPDATED!!*
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This sounds like my last two ex gf's. They both had everything planned out in their head, down to how they wanted their dream house they wanted to look.
They wanted the Taj Mahal(or an equally...
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Part of me says "tell her to run away!" Then part of me says people grow up and make mistakes - and sometimes things work out.
When my sister got engaged I thought she was no good for her fiancé....
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I think you and your wife are too quick to judge, by the sounds of it everybody elses marriage and relationships.
Would you advise your cousin's girlfriend not to get engaged? *UPDATED!!*
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Well, there is a small twist to the story....
She suffers (very badly) from endometriosis. About 6 months ago it was so bad that she had to have surgery to figure out how bad it was. The doctor...
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Ok, this is about my wife's 23 yr old cousin. He and his girlfriend have been together off and on for about 4 years now.
Doesn't go to school and has no idea what he wants to do. He has no...
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divorce has no financial barrier.
Just as many well off people get divorced as do uneducated.
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and deaf and dumb
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Exactly, besides there's always that chance that the relationship succeeds proving any nay-saying advice wrong & totally uncalled for.
Would you advise your cousin's girlfriend not to get engaged? *UPDATED!!*
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Well she came over to our place before she left out of state for 2 weeks. She was a bridesmaid in her cousin's wedding and stayed out there for Christmas and New Years.
We sat down and caught up...
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Agreed with everyone else. It wouldn't hurt to express your opinion to her but it won't matter any. It's probably a done deal so just accept it and be ready to be there fore her when the inevitable...
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My wife and I were talking about this last night. The girl really looks up to us as individuals and as a couple. She tells us everything! Well except the bad things of when they break up and when...
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:iagree:
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I'm with finzz on this one. It is my experience that people are going to do what they want to do, regardless of family interventions. Just cringe and accept it. Cringe and accept. That's my motto....
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Sadly these days, one does not necessarily preclude the other.
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Sometimes people do crappy things and there's not a damn thing you can do about it.
That's the situation you're in.
:hug:
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As for the question, if you feel it is right, do it! Then again, it is their relationship, and it is between those two. And saving her from the very awkward situation of telling him "no" when he asks...
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Don't some churches still do pre-marital counseling? That can be a real eye opener. The Catholic church used to do it to prevent divorce. Worksheets. Questions about everything from how to raise the...
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Right, being disloyal only cheapens a relationship and eventually turns it into a huge joke :shake:.
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How would you feel if a family member of yours butted in & criticized one of your children or interfered with their lives/romances/etc? That's disloyalty.
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Well then why do you need to say anything more? If she's close with you, but already hiding things, you're just going to make her feel more alienated.
Yes, it's frustrating to watch someone we...
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The guy is my wife's cousin and is already part of the family. It's him we don't care for. :lol:
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First off, they are young, and still growing up. They will change. Maybe they will mature and be an amazing couple forever. Who knows? They probably have the same odds whether you...
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Family comes first in my book, stay out of this. None of your damn business anyway is it?
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When the heck did you get all proper? Not even a PIITB?! :eek:
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Think of all the new BABIES just waiting to be born!!
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Even if you decide not to interfere, I would suggest you recommend to her that they don't rush into having kids. That way, when the marriage goes south, she'll be able to make a clean break and not...
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Exceptionally well said.
It can be difficult to watch the people we care about make a mistake, but sometimes it's what they need from us.
OP, you said she understands he's a loser, but she...
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sadly, if she can't see her future, not sure if anyone else can get through her. she had plenty of chances to get away...
yours for me :truestory:
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Soooo, what happened? Did they get back together?
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I'm setting up a baby pool.
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love is blind.
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Hell yes, I would.
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huh? was my usual negative self. Besides, you should know by now that nothing you say to a girl is ever kept in confidence. That's why i'd never hire a female lawyer, well that & not risking her...
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It's her we care about, not him.
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"You can't put an old head on young shoulders." Basically, no matter what you say or do, they are going to need to figure it out for themselves and chalk it up to life lessons.
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Hey OP, what's up with the wall of words?
Cliff notes please and QPLR
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If it won't change anything, why even bother?
I think it's pretty clear this is a mistake she needs to make herself. Everyone has issues, this is one of hers. I doubt very much she'll ever truly...
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