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151 21 February 19, 2013 at 07:25 PM in Chat (2)
It has been a while since I've been in a relationship with someone, like four years. I met a girl online via online dating site and really thought I hit it off. She's attractive and has an interesting personality. I got her number last night and we've been communicating since then. Two questions:
I asked if she wanted to meet, response: "Maybe Smilie"
How am I supposed to take that? Good/bad?

Also, earlier when we first met, she mentioned she's not the best at asking questions (ain't that the truth). So, I've been asking her some questions and been getting one word answers in return. Is this good/bad/neutral?

I don't want to screw this relationship up. Advice please?
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02-21-2013 at 08:10 AM.
02-21-2013 at 08:10 AM.
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why?!

Hopefully.
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02-21-2013 at 08:10 AM.
02-21-2013 at 08:10 AM.
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Why?!

She has absolutely nothing to say! You can't get her to talk about anything, she's busy all the time. What could you possibly like about her?

Seriously, dating is awkward enough without having to date someone you practically have to force conversation with. You're a teenager, there will be other girls. Hopefully. laugh out loud
Have you been reading the posts from OP?
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02-21-2013 at 08:10 AM.
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Have you been reading the posts from OP?
I'm feeling optimistic today.
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02-21-2013 at 08:13 AM.
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I'm feeling optimistic today.
Fair enough
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02-21-2013 at 08:14 AM.
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Fair enough
laugh out loud
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02-21-2013 at 08:17 AM.
02-21-2013 at 08:17 AM.
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I find that so funny... LOL, I have never video chatted before, so I am finding it a bit amusing. No offense, I am not making fun or you or anything, but I guess we can relate in a way, although you took your method with the internet, my issues were always in real-life/reality. I have used facetime before, dont know if that counts but it was with my parents.
I find it funny you're judging others.
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02-21-2013 at 08:19 AM.
02-21-2013 at 08:19 AM.
She is pretty....
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02-21-2013 at 08:21 AM.
02-21-2013 at 08:21 AM.
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First impressions should happen IRL. She says she has class then work every day. Makes it nearly impossible to meet.
That doesn't sound likely. Does she also have class and work all day on the weekend?

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She is pretty....
I'm sure the actual chick is pretty. You still don't know if the person you're talking to is that chick.
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02-21-2013 at 08:27 AM.
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That doesn't sound likely. Does she also have class and work all day on the weekend?


I'm sure the actual chick is pretty. You still don't know if the person you're talking to is that chick.
Has a legit Facebook.
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02-21-2013 at 08:30 AM.
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She is pretty....
Aaaaannnnddd... there it is. There is nothing remotely likable about the girl other than her looks.

Your mother must be so proud.
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02-21-2013 at 08:32 AM.
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Has a legit Facebook.
So you're saying that someone can't find a person proximal to you, and claim to be that person?
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02-21-2013 at 08:32 AM.
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Aaaaannnnddd... there it is. There is nothing remotely likable about the girl other than her looks.

Your mother must be so proud.
Well, she is interesting to talk to, once I manage to break her out of her very hard shell.
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02-21-2013 at 08:33 AM.
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So you're saying that someone can't find a person proximal to you, and claim to be that person?
Iagree

That's relatively meaningless. laugh out loud
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So you're saying that someone can't find a person proximal to you, and claim to be that person?
Mutual friends between me and her....
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02-21-2013 at 08:37 AM.
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Mutual friends between me and her....
Are you her friend on Facebook?
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