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Seeking medical help to mend my broken heart (post #138 for NEW update)

44,792 8,817 November 20, 2009 at 10:14 AM in Sad
i dont know how to stop loving someone.

the guy im in love with is going to join the air force and wont ever be moving back here. i always thought we'd be together, get married and grow old together. it kills me inside to know he loves me but isnt in love with me anymore. i cant date anyone because i'll just keep comparing them and think "he's not adam". i've never really been in love with someone and not have them love me back the same way. i dont what to do. i dont feel like time heals all wounds. i dont feel like any amount of time will stop me from being in love with him.

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emelvee
11-20-2009 at 12:50 PM.
11-20-2009 at 12:50 PM.
I don't have anything to add, but here's a hug
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qazz11
11-20-2009 at 12:50 PM.
11-20-2009 at 12:50 PM.
Quote from emelvee :
I don't have anything to add, but here's a hug
total hug fest

hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug
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Dark_Saber
11-20-2009 at 12:52 PM.
11-20-2009 at 12:52 PM.
Big hug



oh and btw, I am Adam. . .but don't know how I would compare
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Scampsters
11-20-2009 at 01:41 PM.
11-20-2009 at 01:41 PM.
I heard they have had luck with pig hearts for transplantations
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I Am Loved
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GeminiiGirl
11-20-2009 at 01:45 PM.
11-20-2009 at 01:45 PM.
Quote from emelvee :
I don't have anything to add, but here's a hug
Quote from qazz11 :
total hug fest

hug hug hug hug hug hug hug
Grouphug
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stimpy
11-20-2009 at 01:46 PM.
11-20-2009 at 01:46 PM.
Quote from GeminiiGirl :
yup. i think it's a bad idea now, to settle down with someone who's your best friend and boyfriend. you lose one, you lose them both.

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You see, that's the nice part about sending nakie pix to some married dude from SlickDeals. You lose me, you lose nothing!
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GeminiiGirl
11-20-2009 at 01:46 PM.
11-20-2009 at 01:46 PM.
Quote from Dark_Saber :
Big hug

oh and btw, I am Adam. . .but don't know how I would compare
hug and Dontknow


Quote from Scampsters :
I heard they have had luck with pig hearts for transplantations
i dont want a pig heart. maybe my broken heart can be replaced with a stone.
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stimpy
11-20-2009 at 01:48 PM.
11-20-2009 at 01:48 PM.
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this is a fun game Grin
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Schooby
11-20-2009 at 02:15 PM.
11-20-2009 at 02:15 PM.
hug


I know it hurts like hell right now. But trust me, the pain does lessen over time. hug
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.teri.
11-20-2009 at 02:51 PM.
11-20-2009 at 02:51 PM.
Comfort I'm so sorry this has happened. It's the worst feeling in the world. I know you don't think so now, but time really does heal. You may never forget, but in time your heart will be open to someone new. Someone meant just for you. hug
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GeminiiGirl
11-20-2009 at 02:55 PM.
11-20-2009 at 02:55 PM.
Quote from schbusdrvr :
hug


I know it hurts like hell right now. But trust me, the pain does lessen over time. hug
Weeping i dunno about that.


Quote from .teri. :
Comfort I'm so sorry this has happened. It's the worst feeling in the world. I know you don't think so now, but time really does heal. You may never forget, but in time your heart will be open to someone new. Someone meant just for you. hug
thats what he was supposed to be. my heart healed after my ex before him and he was supposed to be it for me Crying
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Sonofabeech
11-20-2009 at 03:06 PM.
11-20-2009 at 03:06 PM.
If you just would have had that threesome like he wanted, this would have never happened GG. Comfort
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jahaty
11-20-2009 at 03:37 PM.
11-20-2009 at 03:37 PM.
I'm sorry for what your going through Gem!
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Justawannabe
11-20-2009 at 03:48 PM.
11-20-2009 at 03:48 PM.
Quote from R1Budha :
go into a deep depression, spend a lot of time being all emo, quit doing anything fun, stop seeing friends and become completely introverted.
Hey!! I never would have found SD if I hadn't done this!!! Still in the introverted stage...

Think of this as a really really big time out...maybe he did not like the back and forth and made a decision to move. This will keep him busy for a while and then if he still has feelings for you then he may want to talk to you about it. Keep that layer of friendship...if he needs it but no sex..
I am one that can say everything and lock the door, delete the number, burn all the pics and still not have total faith in my decision. I have to pull it out somewhere to be strong and say no to sex, and anything else that seems like it will tip the relationship back into comfy zone but with no real committment.

If you look at it like an addiction..you will realize that you have to work at it more than others, and yes it may take longer to "get over" the relationship.
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AggieMom
11-20-2009 at 05:40 PM.
11-20-2009 at 05:40 PM.
Dude... I just saw an episode of Dexter like this. She falls in love with a guy at a coffee shop and wants a relationship with him so bad that she photoshops herself into a picture with him and bashes his head in and then plays the sad fiance'. She convinced herself that they were meant to be, but she was just a crazy murderer.
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