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Serious question for you older and maybe younger women out there...do you still want sexy, sexy time after 50? No OT please.

4,298 360 April 13, 2018 at 05:28 PM in Chat (3)
I am getting a lot of excuses as my gal gets older, she says it's all ever think of, but I don't buy that. I think she should be happy, most guys my age are limp noodles,broken down, fat, and half dead..
I say if theres a problem lets fix it. I only want women's opinions in this thread please..
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DC
04-16-2018 at 12:59 PM.
04-16-2018 at 12:59 PM.
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That sounds like advice for her, not for him.
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handyguy
04-16-2018 at 06:09 PM.
04-16-2018 at 06:09 PM.
Sex is usually a great relationship indicator.
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fsyowad
04-16-2018 at 06:38 PM.
04-16-2018 at 06:38 PM.
Quote from handyguy :
Sex is usually a great relationship indicator.

I got news for you, most people lie...a lot, about their sex lives. Don't blame be for having the guts to be honest.
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cr8ter
04-16-2018 at 07:23 PM.
04-16-2018 at 07:23 PM.
it's possible that you are giving the internet more attention than her.
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04-16-2018 at 07:40 PM.
04-16-2018 at 07:40 PM.
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it's possible that you are giving the internet more attention than her.

If you make it to my age in one piece , you will probably think more like me.
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handyguy
04-16-2018 at 08:10 PM.
04-16-2018 at 08:10 PM.
If you're bored watch Sex ER on Prime. It's fun.
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User339811
04-17-2018 at 10:56 AM.
04-17-2018 at 10:56 AM.
5 days since OP has started this thread. I wonder if he get any yet?
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ProfessorChaos
04-17-2018 at 12:20 PM.
04-17-2018 at 12:20 PM.
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5 days since OP has started this thread. I wonder if he get any yet?

It's been 10 years since you joined Slickdeals. I wonder if you got any yet?

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04-17-2018 at 12:31 PM.
04-17-2018 at 12:31 PM.
Quote from xxxHolic :
5 days since OP has started this thread. I wonder if he get any yet?
In negotiations now......
I miss the old days when women would want to just play naked house all weekend.....
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04-17-2018 at 01:23 PM.
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It's been 10 years since you joined Slickdeals. I wonder if you got any yet?

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I would need to check my condoms expiration date to answer this question.
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handyguy
04-17-2018 at 01:51 PM.
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In negotiations now......
I miss the old days when women would want to just play naked house all weekend.....
Summer of love 1975?
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DocsLeiLani
04-18-2018 at 06:12 PM.
04-18-2018 at 06:12 PM.
I am almost 60 and haven't had a sexual relationship with my husband for over 10 years. He isn't interested and I have learned to be fine with that. He is still my best friend and only one I can count on. We have a wonderful relationship never fight. We talk to each other, laugh together and thoroughly love hanging out together. That said have you tried smal steps in making her feel as though she is still the love in your life without pressure of "do you wanna huh" as your rubbing yourself against her. As we age we feel less sexy since everything sags and wrinkles.
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04-18-2018 at 07:59 PM.
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Quote from DocsLeiLani :
I am almost 60 and haven't had a sexual relationship with my husband for over 10 years. He isn't interested and I have learned to be fine with that. He is still my best friend and only one I can count on. We have a wonderful relationship never fight. We talk to each other, laugh together and thoroughly love hanging out together. That said have you tried smal steps in making her feel as though she is still the love in your life without pressure of "do you wanna huh" as your rubbing yourself against her. As we age we feel less sexy since everything sags and wrinkles.
I realize this is a very tricky issue with women. I think she looks good with her sags. She has let herself go gray though, and this does kind of freak me out a little.. She says she wants to take care of that though.. I am very kind to her and we will always be there for each other.I have spent the last few days working on her home (I updated her bathrooms) and we started talking about what we want. She does not think I say those three big words enough. I always assumed she knew I loved her just by being there and taking care of her. I think its goofy but she wants me to tell her "I love you" at least 4 times a day, and to take her to the Appleton Art Museum near here when she wants to go. She is promising things will get better. I think they will.
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finzz2dlft
04-18-2018 at 08:28 PM.
04-18-2018 at 08:28 PM.
Telling someone that you love them isn't goofy. It is only weird if it isn't true, I guess.
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StormRichards
04-18-2018 at 08:31 PM.
04-18-2018 at 08:31 PM.
For her sake, I truly hope this situation is a deal breaker. I am sure she can find someone else that appreciates her and her "sags".
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