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Real-life drama at the beach ... Rammy's in trouble again ... apparently the wife doesn't like me taking pictures of other women
July 22, 2009 at
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Amongst the ~200 photos I took last week at the beach, I snapped 3-4 pictures of some hotties that were walking up and down the beach. The wife took great offense to this and I thought it was playful at first but (as women are apt to do) an argument ensued which turned into her giving me the cold, silent treatment for the next 24 hours. She indicated I was "to take pictures of only her & the kids".
Disrespectful? Immature? In hindsight a little, but in her words "I'm married, I'm not dead". I wasn't peeping through a peephole at some ESPN hottie, I was taking a picture of someone strolling a few yards in front of me proudly displaying the goods that God gave her. Just how insecure can she be?
Is this a potential for a double standard? The wife had a massage at a day spa from a "young surfer dude" who was checking her out. Do I come out with the directive "no man can touch you except for me at any time". To take it to another level, shouldn't I be able to get lap dances (I don't btw) without feeling guilty. I agree that's extreme, but give me a break.
I thought things had cooled down the next day or two (makeup OTs) but then out of the blue the wife went through and deleted the pictures on my camera - which simply pissed me off. The following is all that's left. It was intended to be a humorous presentation to the lounge: (a) picture of hotties, (b) picture of wife holding up hand in front of camera, (c) picture of ocean as wife punched hubby in stomach.
Disrespectful? Immature? In hindsight a little, but in her words "I'm married, I'm not dead". I wasn't peeping through a peephole at some ESPN hottie, I was taking a picture of someone strolling a few yards in front of me proudly displaying the goods that God gave her. Just how insecure can she be?
Is this a potential for a double standard? The wife had a massage at a day spa from a "young surfer dude" who was checking her out. Do I come out with the directive "no man can touch you except for me at any time". To take it to another level, shouldn't I be able to get lap dances (I don't btw) without feeling guilty. I agree that's extreme, but give me a break.
I thought things had cooled down the next day or two (makeup OTs) but then out of the blue the wife went through and deleted the pictures on my camera - which simply pissed me off. The following is all that's left. It was intended to be a humorous presentation to the lounge: (a) picture of hotties, (b) picture of wife holding up hand in front of camera, (c) picture of ocean as wife punched hubby in stomach.
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<--- gets same reaction
Wait, Rayz doesn't like fatties, I am good to go.
Some people like to control others, and others like to be controlled -- match made in heaven. Do I think that's healthy? Hell no, but if it works for them -- then good for them.
Some people are swingers, in which case looking would be completely fine.
If your and your wife have an understanding of "look but don't touch", then that's where the line is drawn. If you and your wife have an understanding of "taste but don't swallow" then that's where the line is drawn. If you and your wife have an understanding of "Rammy can't even look because he's a poor bastard" then that's where the line is drawn. You can try to re-establish a new line, but BOTH of you need to agree on it -- otherwise you'll have countless fights.
So Rammy, only you can answer that question.
"I just like looking at hot women in bikinis, I would never want to be with one though. That's why I married you. "
She likes steamy novels such as Danielle Steele ... do you think she's fantasizing about me as she reads those magazines?
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Of course, I spend a TON of time telling my wife how hot she is, and how much I love her, so I can get away with acting like a dog when I want to.
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My son thanks you.
when rammy took those pics it was like a slap in the face to the wife. WHY?
because she gave HIM her youth. Her hot young youthful body was given to HIM. She gave him all these years....had his kid/s,,,,,sctretch and changed her youthful body.....which can never be recovered for HIM. and for him to take a pic of some chic is like wanting to preserve that chics youthful beauty. DID THE ASSHOLE TAKE A PIC OF THE WIFE IN A BIKINI?!!!!! (sorry rammy....i got issues.) but do u have pics of the wife in a bikini????? i bet u dont.
when rammy took those pics it was like a slap in the face to the wife. WHY?
because she gave HIM her youth. Her hot young youthful body was given to HIM. She gave him all these years....had his kid/s,,,,,sctretch and changed her youthful body.....which can never be recovered for HIM. and for him to take a pic of some chic is like wanting to preserve that chics youthful beauty. DID THE ASSHOLE TAKE A PIC OF THE WIFE IN A BIKINI?!!!!! (sorry rammy....i got issues.) but do u have pics of the wife in a bikini????? i bet u dont.
when rammy took those pics it was like a slap in the face to the wife. WHY?
because she gave HIM her youth. Her hot young youthful body was given to HIM. She gave him all these years....had his kid/s,,,,,sctretch and changed her youthful body.....which can never be recovered for HIM. and for him to take a pic of some chic is like wanting to preserve that chics youthful beauty. DID THE ASSHOLE TAKE A PIC OF THE WIFE IN A BIKINI?!!!!! (sorry rammy....i got issues.) but do u have pics of the wife in a bikini????? i bet u dont.
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So Rammy, only you can answer that question.