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Real-life drama at the beach ... Rammy's in trouble again ... apparently the wife doesn't like me taking pictures of other women
July 22, 2009 at
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Amongst the ~200 photos I took last week at the beach, I snapped 3-4 pictures of some hotties that were walking up and down the beach. The wife took great offense to this and I thought it was playful at first but (as women are apt to do) an argument ensued which turned into her giving me the cold, silent treatment for the next 24 hours. She indicated I was "to take pictures of only her & the kids".
Disrespectful? Immature? In hindsight a little, but in her words "I'm married, I'm not dead". I wasn't peeping through a peephole at some ESPN hottie, I was taking a picture of someone strolling a few yards in front of me proudly displaying the goods that God gave her. Just how insecure can she be?
Is this a potential for a double standard? The wife had a massage at a day spa from a "young surfer dude" who was checking her out. Do I come out with the directive "no man can touch you except for me at any time". To take it to another level, shouldn't I be able to get lap dances (I don't btw) without feeling guilty. I agree that's extreme, but give me a break.
I thought things had cooled down the next day or two (makeup OTs) but then out of the blue the wife went through and deleted the pictures on my camera - which simply pissed me off. The following is all that's left. It was intended to be a humorous presentation to the lounge: (a) picture of hotties, (b) picture of wife holding up hand in front of camera, (c) picture of ocean as wife punched hubby in stomach.
Disrespectful? Immature? In hindsight a little, but in her words "I'm married, I'm not dead". I wasn't peeping through a peephole at some ESPN hottie, I was taking a picture of someone strolling a few yards in front of me proudly displaying the goods that God gave her. Just how insecure can she be?
Is this a potential for a double standard? The wife had a massage at a day spa from a "young surfer dude" who was checking her out. Do I come out with the directive "no man can touch you except for me at any time". To take it to another level, shouldn't I be able to get lap dances (I don't btw) without feeling guilty. I agree that's extreme, but give me a break.
I thought things had cooled down the next day or two (makeup OTs) but then out of the blue the wife went through and deleted the pictures on my camera - which simply pissed me off. The following is all that's left. It was intended to be a humorous presentation to the lounge: (a) picture of hotties, (b) picture of wife holding up hand in front of camera, (c) picture of ocean as wife punched hubby in stomach.
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If so then this doesn't sound so much like a jealousy issue as much as a respect issue. I know it sucks to argue with a spouse...I hope that you're each listening to each other so that your relationships continues to grow in a positive direction.
And I see that TS will have a very good looking DIL.
I thought my dick in the ass comment was funnier, but no one commented on it.
THAT COMMENT WAS NOT ABOUT RAMMY"S DAUGHTER, it was about Rayz and gays.
Wow. Nice double-standard you've got going there. You fantasize about farking your husband's boss, but it's a horrible crime for Rammy to take pictures of a couple girls on the beach? I think he was a total dumbass for doing so, but you're pretty damn snotty to condemn his actions and then claim that your own are OK.
OT DAMNIT.
Pissed that she deleted those pics obviously - but c'mon, how long can you hang onto something as petty as that?
mmmm approximately one month. When i found a pic of some hotties ass on the hubby's phone....i hung on to that one month.
OT DAMNIT.
You have no place to come down on Rammy like you did while you're picturing this boss doing you while you're in bed with your husband.
Rammy may be an ass for what he did, but leave the girls at the beach out of this. I mean it's a beach, what do you expect them to wear...a friggin toga??
And yes, I wear a bikini to the beach...guess that makes me a whore, thanks..
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My husband wouldn't take them. He would find it disrespectful to me because he would think if I did it, it would be disrespectful to him. Does he look? Sure. Do I? Sure. But we don't ogle in front of the other. He might mention a girl being attractive, as I might mention a man being attractive, but that's it. It's just the line of respect we draw with each other and our marriage. A picture of strange girls is just....weird...and kinda creepy.
And I agree with BG---it's not the girls' fault. They wore bikinis to the beach....that's fairly normal.