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Real-life drama at the beach ... Rammy's in trouble again ... apparently the wife doesn't like me taking pictures of other women
July 22, 2009 at
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Amongst the ~200 photos I took last week at the beach, I snapped 3-4 pictures of some hotties that were walking up and down the beach. The wife took great offense to this and I thought it was playful at first but (as women are apt to do) an argument ensued which turned into her giving me the cold, silent treatment for the next 24 hours. She indicated I was "to take pictures of only her & the kids".
Disrespectful? Immature? In hindsight a little, but in her words "I'm married, I'm not dead". I wasn't peeping through a peephole at some ESPN hottie, I was taking a picture of someone strolling a few yards in front of me proudly displaying the goods that God gave her. Just how insecure can she be?
Is this a potential for a double standard? The wife had a massage at a day spa from a "young surfer dude" who was checking her out. Do I come out with the directive "no man can touch you except for me at any time". To take it to another level, shouldn't I be able to get lap dances (I don't btw) without feeling guilty. I agree that's extreme, but give me a break.
I thought things had cooled down the next day or two (makeup OTs) but then out of the blue the wife went through and deleted the pictures on my camera - which simply pissed me off. The following is all that's left. It was intended to be a humorous presentation to the lounge: (a) picture of hotties, (b) picture of wife holding up hand in front of camera, (c) picture of ocean as wife punched hubby in stomach.
Disrespectful? Immature? In hindsight a little, but in her words "I'm married, I'm not dead". I wasn't peeping through a peephole at some ESPN hottie, I was taking a picture of someone strolling a few yards in front of me proudly displaying the goods that God gave her. Just how insecure can she be?
Is this a potential for a double standard? The wife had a massage at a day spa from a "young surfer dude" who was checking her out. Do I come out with the directive "no man can touch you except for me at any time". To take it to another level, shouldn't I be able to get lap dances (I don't btw) without feeling guilty. I agree that's extreme, but give me a break.
I thought things had cooled down the next day or two (makeup OTs) but then out of the blue the wife went through and deleted the pictures on my camera - which simply pissed me off. The following is all that's left. It was intended to be a humorous presentation to the lounge: (a) picture of hotties, (b) picture of wife holding up hand in front of camera, (c) picture of ocean as wife punched hubby in stomach.
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i dont understand the double standard
If one does and the other runs out in the heat of the moment and does so also... does it make it okay? No. Does the first one sound like a hypocrite if they get upset about it as if they're innocent? Yes.
Of course, if time has passed and you're working on moving past that it's a completely different story.
You both did something that you knew would upset the other. You're both in the wrong. Be mad as long as you want, but what's that going to do?
You both did something that you knew would upset the other. You're both in the wrong. Be mad as long as you want, but what's that going to do?
We don't like in medieval times when it's an eye for an eye.
We don't like in medieval times when it's an eye for an eye.
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Imagine your hubby threw away one of your favorite comfy bras without telling you because he thought it was really unsexy - isnt that in a way a violation of your own personal space
If you drop your husbands favorite TV remote, and he goes in the kitchen and drops a plate. Neither of you should be mad because it would by hypocritical?
If you drop your husbands favorite TV remote, and he goes in the kitchen and drops a plate. Neither of you should be mad because it would by hypocritical?
Yes i need a spoonfeeding. I LIKE the spoonfeeding
You both did something that you knew would upset the other. You're both in the wrong. Be mad as long as you want, but what's that going to do?
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