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My friend lives in NJ. His car was stolen, stripped, and abandoned. The city is making him pay for the towing and impound fees.

26,675 2,340 September 3, 2010 at 06:15 AM in Rant
Does that seem right to anyone else? It's basically costing him over $350 to have his car stolen and, since he didn't have theft insurance, it's a total loss. The only possible redemption is going to be today if a mechanic offers him any money for the scrap.

WTF?

I'm not even going into how rude the city employees were to him or how they turned him away yesterday afternoon because they didn't think he could get a tow truck (at his own expense) to the impound lot before they closed at 4:45. OR how they wouldn't help his wife when she was there at noon, because they were all at lunch.

Please reserve any comments about him being dumb for not carrying a theft clause or whatever you call it on his insurance policy. It was an older Honda Civic and he didn't think it was worth insuring for very much. I'm not sure how all of that works but his deductible might even have been more than what he would've gotten for the car, if that applies.

I think it's infuriating that the city is forcing him to pay towing and impound fees when his car was stolen! Does he have any recourse here? Maybe he can deduct the cost of the fees from his taxes or something? Who should he contact?

My friend is a really nice guy--I would've raged out on those impound lot employees for sure. My buddy said he knows when he's defeated and he's licking his wounds and counting his losses, and that his anger is reserved for the car thieves. I understand that, but really, it looks to me like the city's just adding insult to injury here.

Anyone have any experience with this?

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OP, did you read post #57? Whistling
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09-03-2010 at 07:14 PM.
09-03-2010 at 07:14 PM.
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Sorry...just trying to lighten the mood here... Grin Peace
Tow truck drivers, stripped cars, theft......


There's gotta be a moviemogul joke in here somewhere Whee
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09-03-2010 at 07:15 PM.
09-03-2010 at 07:15 PM.
Quote from veritableqndry :
So we all roll over and accept it meekly? Really? Just make the "okay" face and lay back and think of England? And anybody who gets mad or speaks out is misguided?

I don't think it's a pipe dream to expect to live in a crime-free society. And I certainly won't accept that as an answer when I ask why something happened. Would you? Can you honestly tell me you could get mugged and then shrug and say, "well, that's the price we pay for living in society! Time to go make more money!" I'm pretty sure I remember reading that you foiled a home invasion or two--par for the course? Just how things are? Price of doing business? Honestly?
Yes, I live in a society where i recognize that the police are not available to protect me and my possessions 24/7, I recognize that our society is full of criminals and increasingly so due to the poor economy, So i protect myself and my things.

You do that with insurance, with self defense training, etc.

Since when did we absolve ourselves from our own personal responsibility? You would be foolish to think the police can save you and respond fast enough when it really matters. If i waited for the police to come to my rescue during my home invasion, I would be dead. Its through no fault of the police either.

You may not like it, but that is the harsh reality of life.
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09-03-2010 at 07:15 PM.
09-03-2010 at 07:15 PM.
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Tow truck drivers, stripped cars, theft......


There's gotta be a moviemogul joke in here somewhere Whee
I didn't know he was Irish.


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09-03-2010 at 07:17 PM.
09-03-2010 at 07:17 PM.
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By the way, how long was this thing left on the street without being checked to have it stripped and towed without the owners knowledge until after it was impounded? Owner's responsibility, police officer's duty.
What? The car was stolen and taken away from where my friend lives. Was he supposed to do the detective's job and go find it himself? How would he have known where it was after the thief drove off with it?

Or did you mean how long was it unattended outside his house? Is he supposed to check his car every couple of hours to make sure it wasn't stolen?

I do have a lot of emotion invested in this. The guy is a good friend and I hate that shitty things are happening to him. This is the 3rd or 4th crappy thing in the past couple of months. So yeah, I get hot when people seem to be telling me it's his fault and he should pay the impound fees since "crime is a fact of life." Everything about that argument offends me. We shouldn't accept it and it's not good enough.
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09-03-2010 at 07:17 PM.
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Quote from bryantq :
Yes, I live in a society where i recognize that the police are not available to protect me and my possessions 24/7, I recognize that our society is full of criminals and increasingly so due to the poor economy, So i protect myself and my things.

You do that with insurance, with self defense training, etc.

Since when did we absolve ourselves from our own personal responsibility?
You also live in a right to carry state. NJ....not so much.
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09-03-2010 at 07:21 PM.
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You also live in a right to carry state. NJ....not so much.
You also live in a free society where you are free to move to states where you agree with their political policies Smilie Just like i will never move to california. lol.

But aside from right to carry, you always have a right to defend yourself in your own home.
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09-03-2010 at 07:22 PM.
09-03-2010 at 07:22 PM.
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Since when did we absolve ourselves from our own personal responsibility?
Wow. Just, wow. I can't get on board with this argument even though I generally support it. I believe we should be responsible for ourselves and our actions. I believe that if I do something wrong it's on me to make it right. I believe that I pay taxes and obey laws and that if I don't, someone will come and make me obey the laws or take away my freedom to disobey those laws. And I expect that as a result of my agreement to be a part of this society and abide by those laws, and pay those taxes to support their administration, that everyone else will behave in the same manner or suffer the same consequences. And so no, I do not believe that it should fall to me to enforce those laws, nor should I have to pay extra on top of my taxes when I become the victim of someone else's disobedience.

Would a prudent person learn self-defense against the day when a lawbreaker shows up and there aren't any police around to help? Yes. Should a person be required to do so, because the society and the government that has pledged to uphold the laws it wrote for itself isn't doing the job it promised to do? Absolutely not. At the end of the day that's what theft insurance really is, isn't it? Paying an extra tax because society's promise to an individual isn't being kept.

Huh. Maybe I'm a bit more liberal than I'd thought. Scratchhead
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09-03-2010 at 07:23 PM.
09-03-2010 at 07:23 PM.
Quote from veritableqndry :
What? The car was stolen and taken away from where my friend lives. Was he supposed to do the detective's job and go find it himself? How would he have known where it was after the thief drove off with it?

Or did you mean how long was it unattended outside his house? Is he supposed to check his car every couple of hours to make sure it wasn't stolen?

I do have a lot of emotion invested in this. The guy is a good friend and I hate that shitty things are happening to him. This is the 3rd or 4th crappy thing in the past couple of months. So yeah, I get hot when people seem to be telling me it's his fault and he should pay the impound fees since "crime is a fact of life." Everything about that argument offends me. We shouldn't accept it and it's not good enough.
Its not that he SHOULD pay, but hes the one that HAS to pay because its his property.

Crime is a fact of life as much as people are sinners and liars. When you can find a way to change people, you let me know.
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09-03-2010 at 07:23 PM.
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OP, did you read post #57? Whistling
Yes, I did, and actually that's what the person who PM'd me earlier today suggested. I've already passed that along to my friend and offered to Google some numbers for him. laugh out loud
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09-03-2010 at 07:23 PM.
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I think that since his friend reported it as stolen, he should have received a call from the police when they found it and been given the option to tow it somewhere himself. Since that didnI 't happen I can see the towing fee since he may have had to have it towed anyway. But the impound fee perhaps he shouldn't have to pay. Not sure who should, except for the thief but I can see where it is like being victimized twice.
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09-03-2010 at 07:24 PM.
09-03-2010 at 07:24 PM.
Quote from veritableqndry :
So yeah, I get hot when people seem to be telling me it's his fault and he should pay the impound fees since "crime is a fact of life."
It isn't his fault but it is his responsibility. Had the car not been stolen but simply caught on fire in front of his house and burned down to a shell he would have to pay someone to come haul it away.

As far as the impound fees and such--that sucks. But you also have to think about who he was dealing with. I'll try not to make it political, but at that level of government service the employees are nothing more than mindless drones doing their job with little or no power to change standard procedure. In fact, if they offered to drop any of the fees they could probably be fired.
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09-03-2010 at 07:25 PM.
09-03-2010 at 07:25 PM.
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Its not that he SHOULD pay, but hes the one that HAS to pay because its his property.

Crime is a fact of life as much as people are sinners and liars. When you can find a way to change people, you let me know.
If you get beat up & knifed on the street should you pay to have the sidewalk scrubbed? That blood was your property too...

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It isn't his fault but it is his responsibility. Had the car not been stolen but simply caught on fire in front of his house and burned down to a shell he would have to pay someone to come haul it away.

As far as the impound fees and such--that sucks. But you also have to think about who he was dealing with. I'll try not to make it political, but at that level of government service the employees are nothing more than mindless drones doing their job with little or no power to change standard procedure. In fact, if the offered to drop any of the fees they could probably be fired.
Thus my urging him to go rage out at the town council. laugh out loud I told him I'd call the mayor for him. He asked me to leave his name out of it. laugh out loud
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09-03-2010 at 07:26 PM.
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Wow. Just, wow. I can't get on board with this argument even though I generally support it. I believe we should be responsible for ourselves and our actions. I believe that if I do something wrong it's on me to make it right. I believe that I pay taxes and obey laws and that if I don't, someone will come and make me obey the laws or take away my freedom to disobey those laws. And I expect that as a result of my agreement to be a part of this society and abide by those laws, and pay those taxes to support their administration, that everyone else will behave in the same manner or suffer the same consequences. And so no, I do not believe that it should fall to me to enforce those laws, nor should I have to pay extra on top of my taxes when I become the victim of someone else's disobedience.

Would a prudent person learn self-defense against the day when a lawbreaker shows up and there aren't any police around to help? Yes. Should a person be required to do so, because the society and the government that has pledged to uphold the laws it wrote for itself isn't doing the job it promised to do? Absolutely not. At the end of the day that's what theft insurance really is, isn't it? Paying an extra tax because society's promise to an individual isn't being kept.

Huh. Maybe I'm a bit more liberal than I'd thought. Scratchhead
Nope. Taking responsibility for yourself and being accountable is a conservative thing.
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Some cities/towns whatever charge rape victims for the rape kits. Life sucks (ok, doubly sucks) sometimes. nod
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