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My friend lives in NJ. His car was stolen, stripped, and abandoned. The city is making him pay for the towing and impound fees.

26,675 2,340 September 3, 2010 at 06:15 AM in Rant
Does that seem right to anyone else? It's basically costing him over $350 to have his car stolen and, since he didn't have theft insurance, it's a total loss. The only possible redemption is going to be today if a mechanic offers him any money for the scrap.

WTF?

I'm not even going into how rude the city employees were to him or how they turned him away yesterday afternoon because they didn't think he could get a tow truck (at his own expense) to the impound lot before they closed at 4:45. OR how they wouldn't help his wife when she was there at noon, because they were all at lunch.

Please reserve any comments about him being dumb for not carrying a theft clause or whatever you call it on his insurance policy. It was an older Honda Civic and he didn't think it was worth insuring for very much. I'm not sure how all of that works but his deductible might even have been more than what he would've gotten for the car, if that applies.

I think it's infuriating that the city is forcing him to pay towing and impound fees when his car was stolen! Does he have any recourse here? Maybe he can deduct the cost of the fees from his taxes or something? Who should he contact?

My friend is a really nice guy--I would've raged out on those impound lot employees for sure. My buddy said he knows when he's defeated and he's licking his wounds and counting his losses, and that his anger is reserved for the car thieves. I understand that, but really, it looks to me like the city's just adding insult to injury here.

Anyone have any experience with this?

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09-03-2010 at 07:29 PM.
09-03-2010 at 07:29 PM.
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Nope. Taking responsibility for yourself and being accountable is a conservative thing.
But I always thought expecting something back for your tax money was a liberal thing!
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09-03-2010 at 07:29 PM.
09-03-2010 at 07:29 PM.
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Wow. Just, wow. I can't get on board with this argument even though I generally support it. I believe we should be responsible for ourselves and our actions. I believe that if I do something wrong it's on me to make it right. I believe that I pay taxes and obey laws and that if I don't, someone will come and make me obey the laws or take away my freedom to disobey those laws. And I expect that as a result of my agreement to be a part of this society and abide by those laws, and pay those taxes to support their administration, that everyone else will behave in the same manner or suffer the same consequences. And so no, I do not believe that it should fall to me to enforce those laws, nor should I have to pay extra on top of my taxes when I become the victim of someone else's disobedience.

Would a prudent person learn self-defense against the day when a lawbreaker shows up and there aren't any police around to help? Yes. Should a person be required to do so, because the society and the government that has pledged to uphold the laws it wrote for itself isn't doing the job it promised to do? Absolutely not. At the end of the day that's what theft insurance really is, isn't it? Paying an extra tax because society's promise to an individual isn't being kept.

Huh. Maybe I'm a bit more liberal than I'd thought. Scratchhead
As someone else wrote in this post, it'd be entirely convenient if the police could catch the criminal and they be responsible for the fees, but that hasnt happened yet right? I will agree if you say that its the police's fault that this criminal hasnt been caught yet, but its not their fault that your friend's car was stolen or that it was impounded.

As far as it being the police's duty to protect you, it is their job, but it is not something they promised you or guaranteed you. They are law enforcement officers, not security guards or personal protection.

You act like it is 100% our government's responsibility to ensure our protection and safeguarding of our property at all times, simply because we pay taxes, a fraction of which goes to law enforcement.
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09-03-2010 at 07:30 PM.
09-03-2010 at 07:30 PM.
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But I always thought expecting something back for your tax money was a liberal thing!
Expecting more back for your tax money than what the taxes could possibly cover is a liberal thing.

*edit* And I say that completely separate from the topic of this thread laugh out loud
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09-03-2010 at 07:30 PM.
09-03-2010 at 07:30 PM.
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Some cities/towns whatever charge rape victims for the rape kits. Life sucks (ok, doubly sucks) sometimes. nod
Holy. Shit. Are you serious? I cannot even imagine getting a bill in the mail a month or so after getting raped. WTF? That pisses me off, too!

I need to go find the jokes thread or something before bed. laugh out loud
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09-03-2010 at 07:32 PM.
09-03-2010 at 07:32 PM.
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I need to go find the jokes thread or something before bed. laugh out loud
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09-03-2010 at 07:33 PM.
09-03-2010 at 07:33 PM.
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I need to go find the jokes thread or something before bed. laugh out loud
What is the difference between Obamacare and a car battery?

The car battery has a positive side Whee
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09-03-2010 at 07:34 PM.
09-03-2010 at 07:34 PM.
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Holy. Shit. Are you serious? I cannot even imagine getting a bill in the mail a month or so after getting raped. WTF? That pisses me off, too!

I need to go find the jokes thread or something before bed. laugh out loud
Yea thats crazy, even we dont do that here Stick Out Tongue Although i could see that happening if it was a false allegation of rape...
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09-03-2010 at 07:36 PM.
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Hey, VQ, no matter how many of us think your friend should be responsible for the towing, I bet a bunch of us feel badly for him and would Paypal you $5 each to help him out.
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09-03-2010 at 07:36 PM.
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But I always thought expecting something back for your tax money was a liberal thing!
Growing the government and building a nanny state where people look to and expect the government to do everything for them, but paid for by raising "the other guy's taxes to pay for it all" is a liberal thing. Programs cost too much? Just raise taxes on the rich! bounce
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09-03-2010 at 07:37 PM.
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As someone else wrote in this post, it'd be entirely convenient if the police could catch the criminal and they be responsible for the fees, but that hasnt happened yet right? I will agree if you say that its the police's fault that this criminal hasnt been caught yet, but its not their fault that your friend's car was stolen or that it was impounded.

As far as it being the police's duty to protect you, it is their job, but it is not something they promised you or guaranteed you. They are law enforcement officers, not security guards or personal protection.

You act like it is 100% our government's responsibility to ensure our protection and safeguarding of our property at all times, simply because we pay taxes, a fraction of which goes to law enforcement.
What am I living in society for if it's not, mostly, for protection from bandits and thieves? If only a fraction of my tax dollar goes to law enforcement then someone needs to adjust that! I could go buy several acres out in the country, raise attack dogs and practice my sharpshooting, and then, yes, I'd expect to be personally responsible for my own safety and the protection of my personal property.

But when I live in a city and that city has laws, and those laws say that other people aren't allowed to take away things that don't belong to them, then yes, I do expect the police to enforce those laws, and no, I don't accept that "crime is a part of life." I think that's our fundamental disagreement here, too. You choose to believe that it's something we have to accept or take it upon ourselves to defend against, while I refuse to do that and demand a better accounting from the people who promised to enforce the laws as they are written.

I realize the cops can't watch everything all the time. I don't really think it's the cops' fault that my friend's car was stolen--although if laws were enforced and police had the bodies to patrol properly, perhaps it wouldn't have happened. There's no way to know.

I have to sleep soon.
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09-03-2010 at 07:39 PM.
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What am I living in society for if it's not, mostly, for protection from bandits and thieves? If only a fraction of my tax dollar goes to law enforcement then someone needs to adjust that! I could go buy several acres out in the country, raise attack dogs and practice my sharpshooting, and then, yes, I'd expect to be personally responsible for my own safety and the protection of my personal property.

But when I live in a city and that city has laws, and those laws say that other people aren't allowed to take away things that don't belong to them, then yes, I do expect the police to enforce those laws, and no, I don't accept that "crime is a part of life." I think that's our fundamental disagreement here, too. You choose to believe that it's something we have to accept or take it upon ourselves to defend against, while I refuse to do that and demand a better accounting from the people who promised to enforce the laws as they are written.

I realize the cops can't watch everything all the time. I don't really think it's the cops' fault that my friend's car was stolen--although if laws were enforced and police had the bodies to patrol properly, perhaps it wouldn't have happened. There's no way to know.

I have to sleep soon.
All I will say is that a certain amount of crime will always be present in a free society. I'm willing to accept that as a trade-off to the alternative.
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09-03-2010 at 07:39 PM.
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Hey, VQ, no matter how many of us think your friend should be responsible for the towing, I bet a bunch of us feel badly for him and would Paypal you $5 each to help him out.
He makes more than I do. laugh out loud I did offer to come up there & help him try to put the thing back together if that's what he decides to do, though. The mechanic who offered him money for the scrap lowered his offer and my friend thinks he can get the car driveable again. He'll probably wind up buying back his own stolen parts at some point. Plus paying to rent the garage while he works on the car. Which I am NOT expecting the city to pay for, btw.

They should buy him lunch or something though, seriously, GAWD!
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09-03-2010 at 07:40 PM.
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What am I living in society for if it's not, mostly, for protection from bandits and thieves? If only a fraction of my tax dollar goes to law enforcement then someone needs to adjust that! I could go buy several acres out in the country, raise attack dogs and practice my sharpshooting, and then, yes, I'd expect to be personally responsible for my own safety and the protection of my personal property.

But when I live in a city and that city has laws, and those laws say that other people aren't allowed to take away things that don't belong to them, then yes, I do expect the police to enforce those laws, and no, I don't accept that "crime is a part of life." I think that's our fundamental disagreement here, too. You choose to believe that it's something we have to accept or take it upon ourselves to defend against, while I refuse to do that and demand a better accounting from the people who promised to enforce the laws as they are written.

I realize the cops can't watch everything all the time. I don't really think it's the cops' fault that my friend's car was stolen--although if laws were enforced and police had the bodies to patrol properly, perhaps it wouldn't have happened. There's no way to know.

I have to sleep soon.
Ummm your taxes also go to supporting schools, buses, drivers, teachers, over paid principals...I mean principals, garbage collectors...not to be confused with your HOA antagonists Evillaugh...road repair, fire departments...etc..

I think we should take up a collection...buy a GC to a local restaurant and have it delivered like it's from the local police. laugh out loud
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09-03-2010 at 07:45 PM.
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Ummm your taxes also go to supporting schools, buses, drivers, teachers, over paid principals...I mean principals, garbage collectors...not to be confused with your HOA antagonists Evillaugh...road repair, fire departments...etc..
Who needs school bus drivers? Let one of the kids drive! Whee

Did you see the link I posted? Apparently they're charging for fire depts. and cops to show up at traffic accidents now too. How long before public schools are "paid admission?"

That's an interesting thought: what if every road had a toll, every public service was pay ala carte, and all public servants were compensated solely by tips? What kind of a world would that be?
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09-03-2010 at 07:45 PM.
09-03-2010 at 07:45 PM.
I'm curious VQ, did the police dust the car for fingerprints or have they done anything to try to find the thief? Did they do anything other than have it towed? Based on my experience with the car theft, I don't think that they went looking for your friends car. My guess is they found it by chance, and if they hadn't, he would have never gotten it back.
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