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Question about the threesome
September 10, 2010 at
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Let's say if you are going to have a threesome, is it true that the third person better be a stranger?
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Yep, people have them quite often. You might be surprised how common it has become.
OP, I see no particular reason that the third need be a stranger. If it's someone you both know and enjoy being around, then there's also no reason it be a one time thing, either.
Yep, people have them quite often. You might be surprised how common it has become.
OP, I see no particular reason that the third need be a stranger. If it's someone you both know and enjoy being around, then there's also no reason it be a one time thing, either.
Dollars to doughnuts says there's a story there.
Yep, people have them quite often. You might be surprised how common it has become.
OP, I see no particular reason that the third need be a stranger. If it's someone you both know and enjoy being around, then there's also no reason it be a one time thing, either.
Dollars to doughnuts says there's a story there.
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I was gonna ask for video.
Maybe, just maybe they are trying to give some insight based on life experience. in any case what goes on in a bedroom (or where ever you play) is personal. If you decide on a threesome, make sure you are very secure in your relationship if you are married or in a relationship. you have to be prepared to see your man/woman with another person and if they enjoy it too much, or if the other person is hotter than you, etc etc it can cause problems. Not that I would know because I'm old
Exactly what I was trying to say. You say it so much better than me!
Been there, thought that, found out the truth. Someday, she will get older and discover the truth too. Hopefully, her man doesn't find another woman more interesting in the mean time.
You assume that these decisions are made lightly. Adults are capable of weighing the pros and cons of this kind of thing. If there is trust and honesty and open communication in a relationship, it is entirely possible for this kind of thing to work. I'm just sorry you're so closed-minded that you can't see that. Oh that's right. You're not closed-minded. I'm young and disillusioned and will one day "grow up" and realize my marriage is a sham. Right.
And for the record, DH and I are not swingers. We do not regularly invite others to join us. In fact, in our entire 5+ years together, we have never done that. I'm just trying to point out how skewed some of the opinions in this thread are. People seem to think that being in a relationship means that sex should be had with your spouse and only your spouse. I'm trying to present the other side of the coin here. That's all. Just because you aren't cool with your husband being with another woman doesn't mean there aren't women out there who feel differently, and who are adult enough to participate in that sort of thing.
And I'm not naive. It might fail more than it works, but I'm here to tell you - I personally know that it can (and does) work sometimes. It just takes certain kinds of people.
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