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meeshecat
09-20-2010 at 10:10 PM.
09-20-2010 at 10:10 PM.
Quote from myluvjustice :
That's what he said why don't u just tell me what u want exactly. I know he felt bad. I always know everything that's going on, so I guess it would be hard for him to plan anything, especially since I control the finances lol.

As for eating out I didn't do to bad I only had half my soup and like 4 bites of my actual entree', I did have the two bread sticks but I haven't been eating bread and potatos lately, and was feeling deprived lol.
Awww I just wanna give you a hug!! My DH does the same.. I do control the finances too. Or else if he attempts to buy something, he will buy a rotissre for me to make them food... lol I guess leave hints around like on the bathroom mirror... lol hughughug
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09-20-2010 at 10:11 PM.
09-20-2010 at 10:11 PM.
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I emailed her, told her I would like to meet with her regarding my status change, she called me (we work in diff locations) asked me what questions I had, told her I disagree with the change, she said--and I quote--"what is the big deal? I took your salary and divided into an 80 hour pay period and it comes out the same." ME- "I understand but I do not always work 40 hours/wk due to scheduling at our location" HER (and I QUOTE again!)--"well you've had a pretty sweet ride then, haven't you??"!!! This is the type of person I am dealing with...the convo just went down hill fast after that...
Wow that's sounds just awful, my sis had her schedule taken away when she was on maternity leave, she didn't loose hours but she did loose her shift,she trold them she would try the new schedule and it ended up not working out and they had to give her,her wschedule back.
I hope everything will work out for you, don't let them geta away with it! That's just ridiculous
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meeshecat
09-20-2010 at 10:13 PM.
09-20-2010 at 10:13 PM.
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Hopefully things you Q for free, I would chose a theme

school supplies : pens,pencils,markers,sharpies,
some kind of sanitary wipes ,scissors

Health and Beauty: Body wash, nivea lip gloss , chapstick , bodymist ,revlon tools(manicure things) tweezers ,maybe a loofah moisturiser


Snacks (for their personal use) candies ,cookies ,gum teas, coffee, maybe a tea or coffee cup, hot chocolate

Xmas themed. hot chocolate,a cup,tree ornaments,xmas candies, candles,
christmas cookies , those candy straws for beverages ,marshmellows for hot choc ,christmas songs cd,etc
Sounds awesome!! I will be looking around in our dunegon (my basement) LMAO I have soooooo much stuff down there in totes.. even though it is labeled I forget stuff I have down there until I decide to redo stuff..lol

Thanks!! These are some really great ideas!!

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Wow that's sounds just awful, my sis had her schedule taken away when she was on maternity leave, she didn't loose hours but she did loose her shift,she trold them she would try the new schedule and it ended up not working out and they had to give her,her wschedule back.
I hope everything will work out for you, don't let them geta away with it! That's just ridiculous
WTF is up with employers down days... and doing this crap when people are off on leave... this is craziness!!
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myluvjustice
09-20-2010 at 10:15 PM.
09-20-2010 at 10:15 PM.
Quote from meeshecat :
Awww I just wanna give you a hug!! My DH does the same.. I do control the finances too. Or else if he attempts to buy something, he will buy a rotissre for me to make them food... lol I guess leave hints around like on the bathroom mirror... lol hughughug
Sounds like are dh's are related!
GrouphugFor all us women on the threads with dh who can some times behave like dumbass husbands instead of dear husbands.
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meeshecat
09-20-2010 at 10:19 PM.
09-20-2010 at 10:19 PM.
Quote from myluvjustice :
Sounds like are dh's are related!
GrouphugFor all us women on the threads with dh who can some times behave like dumbass husbands instead of dear husbands.
AMEN!! I tell my DH all the time that he will go out of his way to buy his mom stuff or plan out events for her... so do the same for me when I sit here all the time with all 8 of our kids, work, go to school fulltime,etc. I think we should just kick all of their arses Wink LMAO
So did you figure out the Kohls thing? Basically the 5 off coupon from e-junkie can be combined with the percentage offs and the 10 off 20 Kohls coupons.. but even with just the 5 off coupon you can get clearance items for near free or the coffee pods for 5 bucks after coupon... hth!!
HUGS!!

DREEME Where are you!?! Normally you are on with us @ this time... Hope all is OK.. hugs!!
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getgreen09
09-20-2010 at 10:23 PM.
09-20-2010 at 10:23 PM.
are we talkative bunch or what? they should rename this the T chatterbox thread, instead of the chit-chat thread! Big Grin

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I am so tempted to pm you and ask about TRU deals... But I seriously think my mind will explode if I even think of going near a TRU. laugh out loud
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Need ideas...

I purchased laptop bags from Amazon that were 5 bucks to use as a teachers gift for Christmas time as the "basket" that I normally make for them... so what should I put inside...? Ideas would be greatly appreciated!!
how about the BPA free stainless steel bottles that are showing up on clearance at stores?
keep an eye out at T and staples... since most day planners now run on school years, those go on major sale/clearance, too.
i'd mentioned in the deals thread about a week ago that the T stationery endcaps had decorative paper packs on clearance. and the dollar spot had awesome card making kits for a buck. those would be great cos they can use for the bulletin boards around the classroom, or for craft projects with kids. lots of scrapbooking supplies go on clearance and they can use those with the kids.
i always like giving people nice hot chocolate as a gift around christmas. maybe the kind which comes with a big mug which teachers can then use as their water mug or stationery mug in their classrooms.
seeds and bulbs are nice, too, cos teachers can have pretty plants in their classrooms but also use em as a teaching tool on plants with their kids.

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GREAT ADVICE!!! hug

Now............if only I could undo the confrontation that went down this afternoon....Embarrassment
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Ok do tell... what happened this afternoon? This sounds like they are seriously breaking the FMLA!?!
yes, do tell, so we can help with thoughts/suggestions/info. by PM if you are worried about putting details out here. not saying you have to PM me. PM whoever you feel comfortable with, if you'd prefer PM, is all i'm saying. hug
as for confrontation - yes you can move past it. just move past it. just that easily. or you know on email say something like, hey -------, i hope you are doing well this morning! things got a little heated yesterday and i felt like it got the discussion off on the wrong foot. ... and then go into the discussion from there. again politely. even reiterate some of their stance from the previous day (leaving out the angry parts, but just the crux of their argument) so you document it on email, and then reiterate your stance.

my point is, confrontations happen all the time in workplaces. people are people. it happens. what matters is what happens next. and that depends on how both sides handle it. it's important to take control of it early, because if you have a vindictive/powertrip sort of person on the other side, you don't want them to fester feeling angry, because that could really hurt you.

you have rights. excercise them. but do so tactfully and with a "talk gently but carry a big stick" attitude so that you don't lose your job in a retaliatory measure in the long run.

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I brought left overs which means I may cheat again tomorrow Frown as for dh I was just hoping for once hed remember, but he's never been good at special occassions, so after 15 years you'd think I'd be used to it by now! But jeeze were not that old so why can't he be a lil romantic or at least thoughtful! Soap Box I'm done and feel better LMAO
hug
that's disappointing!
a friend of my parents had this issue, and so finally for christmas she got a program for her husband's computer. she programmed it with all the dates. and so before the dates were coming up and again on the date it popped up reminders for him to get presents, make plans etc. it was like a gag gift on christmas and they all laughed about it. but the deed was done and he loved it long run, because it meant no stress for him, no feeling guilty, no worrying there was going to be a fight/argument/tears/disappointment. and he got to be the great romantic, thoughtful hero every time!
i know they have similar apps available now for the iphone as well as blackberries and even windows mobile phones if he has a smartphone/ipod touch. and if not, you can do the computer version also!

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....Does anyone here do a gluten free or celiac and/or cassein free type diet? I still have itching on my face/head, and often on my arms and trunk. I've also been noticing that when I have breads that my mouth has been getting a raw feeling and like it's been kind of cut up and sore inside. ...
ank, if you have insurance, totally worth going to an allergist and getting a test done. they do what's called an allergy panel, where they put little dabs of the allergy inducing substances on your arm, you wait for about 30-45 mins, then they measure the redness/swelling to determine whether you are allergic. if you prefer, they can also just draw blood and run an antibodies test on that with the allergens. they might do that with severe food allergies.
you could be allergic to gluten, but it could also be an allergy to some of the preservatives in some breads. you will notice a lot of the regular (not organic) breads have bromates in them plus other things. they put anti-mold chemicals, fungicides, other things to increase shelf life. organic breads don't have those, so maybe you can test one vs the other kind to see if that does the trick also.

a dear friend of mine has been eating a gluten free diet. she said she noticed that when she did that there was a big reduction in bloating (she's stick thin by the way), indigestion etc. so much stuff comes in gluten free varieties now. there's even gluten free pasta (made from rice flour), and gluten free ice cream cones!
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09-20-2010 at 10:33 PM.
09-20-2010 at 10:33 PM.
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Ok that is not acceptable at all!! What type of postion do you hold? Not trying to get personal but I think this is completely horrid!! Do you have a direct manager to speak with? According to FMLA, she is only allowed to change your title if your BENEFITS and PAY are the same, if I were you I would print out the info from the FMLA site and bring it directly to her or e-mail it to her.. that's bull---t!!

I am a personal banker for a very small bank, my direct manager is a bimbo, I am going to request a meeting with the ops manager who also happens to be one of the owners of the bank. I trust her and have a good relationship with her, hopefully she will set things straight with HR...

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Wow that's sounds just awful, my sis had her schedule taken away when she was on maternity leave, she didn't loose hours but she did loose her shift,she trold them she would try the new schedule and it ended up not working out and they had to give her,her wschedule back.
I hope everything will work out for you, don't let them geta away with it! That's just ridiculous
Thanks hug Sorry your sis had to deal with that, glad she got her shift back though!

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Sounds awesome!! I will be looking around in our dunegon (my basement) LMAO I have soooooo much stuff down there in totes.. even though it is labeled I forget stuff I have down there until I decide to redo stuff..lol

Thanks!! These are some really great ideas!!



WTF is up with employers down days... and doing this crap when people are off on leave... this is craziness!!
that"s why I started buying the clear bins! and T just had some 50% off!!
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09-20-2010 at 10:36 PM.
09-20-2010 at 10:36 PM.
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have any stockpile items that are giftable?

fyi- celestial seasonings honey vanilla chamomile is nasty!

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I like that kind... but without sugar/sweetner.

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Ok that is not acceptable at all!! What type of postion do you hold? Not trying to get personal but I think this is completely horrid!! Do you have a direct manager to speak with? According to FMLA, she is only allowed to change your title if your BENEFITS and PAY are the same, if I were you I would print out the info from the FMLA site and bring it directly to her or e-mail it to her.. that's bull---t!!
I would also consider talking to both your superior and hers. What she's doing could land the company in some hot water.

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ank, if you have insurance, totally worth going to an allergist and getting a test done. they do what's called an allergy panel, where they put little dabs of the allergy inducing substances on your arm, you wait for about 30-45 mins, then they measure the redness/swelling to determine whether you are allergic. if you prefer, they can also just draw blood and run an antibodies test on that with the allergens. they might do that with severe food allergies.
you could be allergic to gluten, but it could also be an allergy to some of the preservatives in some breads. you will notice a lot of the regular (not organic) breads have bromates in them plus other things. they put anti-mold chemicals, fungicides, other things to increase shelf life. organic breads don't have those, so maybe you can test one vs the other kind to see if that does the trick also.

a dear friend of mine has been eating a gluten free diet. she said she noticed that when she did that there was a big reduction in bloating (she's stick thin by the way), indigestion etc. so much stuff comes in gluten free varieties now. there's even gluten free pasta (made from rice flour), and gluten free ice cream cones!
Hmm... I think I will look into this. I'm pretty sure I remember reading that our insurance pays for the testing - or at least a part of it. I've had it done before for things liek pollen, dust, bees, etc... Just never for food.

I wonder if I switched to an organic bread if that may make a difference. Couldn't hurt to try, right? I wonder if it's something i have to get out of my system first though. I guess I could even try vegan or something.

Man, I'm getting expensive as I get older.
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09-20-2010 at 11:36 PM.
09-20-2010 at 11:36 PM.
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I like that kind... but without sugar/sweetner.



I would also consider talking to both your superior and hers. What she's doing could land the company in some hot water.



Hmm... I think I will look into this. I'm pretty sure I remember reading that our insurance pays for the testing - or at least a part of it. I've had it done before for things liek pollen, dust, bees, etc... Just never for food.

I wonder if I switched to an organic bread if that may make a difference. Couldn't hurt to try, right? I wonder if it's something i have to get out of my system first though. I guess I could even try vegan or something.

Man, I'm getting expensive as I get older.
cherry, one humble suggestion: going forward, i'd put things on email ONLY, not only with the confrontational one, but also with the owner. for one thing because you simply don't know why the HR lady did what she did - was there a directive from someone else to change your status and then give you that company line of "what's the big deal" or was there some directive that anyone on salaried status that doesn't regularly work 40 should be changed when opportunity arises, or was there some cost-cutting directive? you don't know what the backstory/backroom discussions are. an email trail protects you.

and as for the reason as to why you want it one way or not the other - you shouldn't have to explain yourself. the law is clear - no change. even if your title changes, your payroll status cannot change, and there certainly cannot be an effective change in pay/benefits. stick to that.

finally, i wouldn't bother arguing with said HR lady anymore. i have found that people who are accusatory/self-righteous/argumentative are generally miserable in their lives. they just look for reasons to attack people/prove their superiority and they almost always drag you down into their pit. arguing with them is a waste of your time, and a pointless descent into negativity.

ank, my insurance paid for the allergy testing, because i was getting very sick/having a lot of difficulty breathing etc and had ended up in the hospital twice with breathing issues (i hate hospitals/going to doctors) so this was a big deal on my end.

if your insurance requires a referral, you just would have to mention the reactions to your PCP (primary care physician) and should be able to get an allergist referral very easily.

the only thing to remember about that antibody test (they did it on my arm) is that a) it itches like insanity as your allergy develops but you're not allowed to scratch it, so take an ipod or a magazine or something with you for distraction; and b) you will likely feel rather tired afterwards that day because you're setting off your bodies immune response and if you're found to be allergic to multiple things in the panel, you're setting off multiple antibodies in your system, so it's almost like if you have a mild infection.

in the future, i personally will always insist on a blood test, so as not to have the exhaustion after. but the benefit of the skin test is that you get results right away and the doctor can prescribe antihistamines and an allergy reduction regimen right away.

sorry so long! off to bed. wave
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09-21-2010 at 12:04 AM.
09-21-2010 at 12:04 AM.
The convo about teachers gifts got me thinking. I'm getting rid of a lot of stuff before my move and a few of the schools here are lower income and I can only imagine how rough that is on the teachers. I have no kids and my niece and nephew are in FL now...would it be silly to make up a few gifts for teachers that I have no relationship with? Or would that just be weird?

I have a lot of random items that local charities won't take, for whatever reason (nail polish and candles, for example) and I would love for them to go to some people that might appreciate it
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09-21-2010 at 12:37 AM.
09-21-2010 at 12:37 AM.
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The convo about teachers gifts got me thinking. I'm getting rid of a lot of stuff before my move and a few of the schools here are lower income and I can only imagine how rough that is on the teachers. I have no kids and my niece and nephew are in FL now...would it be silly to make up a few gifts for teachers that I have no relationship with? Or would that just be weird?

I have a lot of random items that local charities won't take, for whatever reason (nail polish and candles, for example) and I would love for them to go to some people that might appreciate it

I do think it's a lovely idea ,,
how would you decide which teachers got them ?

Unless you found out how many teachers where at the school of your choice,and made basket size accordingly so you have enough to go around. btw shirt boxes or bakery boxes make nice "baskets if you line the bottom with colorful paper, just lay items flat no top needed. Kinda like a tray.Or you might use gift bags , there where tons on clearance in the dollar spot not long ago.
Or tins also make gift holders, if you have them laying around, like cookie tins
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or you could have them do a chinese auction, set out a group of items,with a paper bag in front of each group, teachers are given tickets with #'s they keep 1 half of ticket with the # the other they put in the bag of there choice ,#'s are drawn from each bag and that # called wins those items. They could call it teacher appreciation raffle.. I think they would enjoy this option.

I'd call the school and talk to the prinicpal I'm sure he'd be co-operative
with setting something up.

Another idea may be to donate the baskets to a local church and have them use them at one of their many functions as door prizes .

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09-21-2010 at 01:12 AM.
09-21-2010 at 01:12 AM.
I have enough for all teachers at a small elementary school here. Just wasn't sure if they would be like 'who is this strange person bringing us stuff?' and if stuff would end up getting tossed?

Hmm, I dunno. Too tired to think right now :/
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09-21-2010 at 04:52 AM.
09-21-2010 at 04:52 AM.
Hey all -

I'll never catch up...no matter if/how I try (hard).

My oldest (turned 18 in March) with special needs got into some serious, serious trouble (legal) and our lives have been turned upside down/sideways. I am stopping by to say hello and to share that I'm not around due to RL - have not bailed.

Timing stinks as I was just 'getting it' here....*sigh*

I ask for prayers and good thoughts and hope to be back to learn/help/contribute soon.

While all that is happening in our life is overwhelming and heart-breaking, I am grateful I have a sense of humor. My b-Day was Sunday and yesterday, 2 officers appeared at my door first thing - taking my son for 2 warrants. I muttered under my breath, 'Happy belated birthday mom', and one of them heard me. He felt so bad that he was visibly embarrassed and upset. I told him it was OK - that when you have special kids, you expect special surprises. He did not know what to think/say/do... Embarrassment
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09-21-2010 at 05:05 AM.
09-21-2010 at 05:05 AM.
Quote from gr8steals :
Hey all -

I'll never catch up...no matter if/how I try (hard).

My oldest (turned 18 in March) with special needs got into some serious, serious trouble (legal) and our lives have been turned upside down/sideways. I am stopping by to say hello and to share that I'm not around due to RL - have not bailed.

Timing stinks as I was just 'getting it' here....*sigh*

I ask for prayers and good thoughts and hope to be back to learn/help/contribute soon.

While all that is happening in our life is overwhelming and heart-breaking, I am grateful I have a sense of humor. My b-Day was Sunday and yesterday, 2 officers appeared at my door first thing - taking my son for 2 warrants. I muttered under my breath, 'Happy belated birthday mom', and one of them heard me. He felt so bad that he was visibly embarrassed and upset. I told him it was OK - that when you have special kids, you expect special surprises. He did not know what to think/say/do... Embarrassment
Awww to start with Happy Belated Birthday!! I am so sorry about your son, my thoughts and prayers are with your family as I know how difficult these situations can be. Sending good vibes for your son.

If you need to figure out anything, just drop me a PM and I can make a shortened condensed version of any good deals out there at Target for you. Don't worry about catching up... many days I feel the same way as you... never gonna catch up..it's ok!!

Sending many hughughug
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09-21-2010 at 05:15 AM.
09-21-2010 at 05:15 AM.
Quote from meeshecat :
Awww to start with Happy Belated Birthday!! I am so sorry about your son, my thoughts and prayers are with your family as I know how difficult these situations can be. Sending good vibes for your son.

If you need to figure out anything, just drop me a PM and I can make a shortened condensed version of any good deals out there at Target for you. Don't worry about catching up... many days I feel the same way as you... never gonna catch up..it's ok!!

Sending many hughughug
TYVM - you are so very, very nice and thoughtful.....I'm reading before I have to 'face life' for today!!! worshipworship
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