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What's your opinion of sexual/non-physical infidelity ?

1,436 50 November 1, 2010 at 07:52 AM in Chat
What is your definition of "infidelity"?
If I ask you to rate from 1-10 on three scenarios:
a. Your SO have an "non-physical infidelity" with someone else. eg. texting, or calling with sexual language, or expressing love feelings.

b. Your SO kissed someone else and he/she was not forced to do so.

c. Your SO has a sexual relationship with someone else.


Rating scale:
1. Whatever,I don't care
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5. unacceptable, we need to have a serious talk.
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10. It is over, I am going to kill you.

Oh, please post your gender.


PS.
My answer:
Male
a. 5
b. 6
c. 8

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Claudia365
11-01-2010 at 08:34 AM.
11-01-2010 at 08:34 AM.
Quote from jmegirl :
am i the only woman who thinks emotional infidelity is worse than physical infidelity? look around

1) 8
2) 2
3) 5
Men don't have feelings...at least most of them
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AbbyGabby
11-01-2010 at 08:35 AM.
11-01-2010 at 08:35 AM.
i'm just saying, i would definitely be more hurt to find out my husband was having an emotional, non-physical relationship with another woman. if i found out he was just being physical and didn't care about her, it wouldn't hurt so much. Dontknow
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Claudia365
11-01-2010 at 08:36 AM.
11-01-2010 at 08:36 AM.
Quote from OwenKealy :
I don't blame you one bit. Most of the time, after the split with my ex, repeating "Legal consequences" was the thing that kept me from doing stupid shit like vandalism. laugh out loud



Yep. Even more fun is knowing the first one is happening, and suspecting the other two are, but being told by your SO and friends that you're paranoid and there's nothing going on.

That was the biggest "sorry, you were right" from friends I've ever gotten. laugh out loud
Oh please I saw him and my co-worker going to lunch together but I just thought they were just friends. ALL of my friends were telling me otherwise and obviously I didn't listen. I caught them having sex in the staircase once and he didn't know what to tell me.
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OwenKealy
11-01-2010 at 08:39 AM.
11-01-2010 at 08:39 AM.
Quote from Claudia365 :
Oh please I saw him and my co-worker going to lunch together but I just thought they were just friends. ALL of my friends were telling me otherwise and obviously I didn't listen. I caught them having sex in the staircase once and he didn't know what to tell me.
Yikes, that sucks.

My situation was her and one of my best friends. Guy was also married, his wife and mine were friends. Whee!
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AbbyGabby
11-01-2010 at 08:40 AM.
11-01-2010 at 08:40 AM.
Quote from OwenKealy :
Yikes, that sucks.

My situation was her and one of my best friends. Guy was also married, his wife and mine were friends. Whee!
I'm so sorry. Comfort That's gotta be the worst kind of situation. Are they together now?
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LordOfChaos
11-01-2010 at 08:44 AM.
11-01-2010 at 08:44 AM.
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my opinion is this thread blows
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It's a slutsky thread.
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itxtwhlstdrvng
11-01-2010 at 08:46 AM.
11-01-2010 at 08:46 AM.
Quote from happygirl86 :
a) 5
b) 8
c)9.5

Female
Sounds about right.

I'd say only girls can answer 10. It's like they're allowed to go into murder rampage mode as long as they're not wielding something. My ex used to get mad about stuff (not infidelity) and hit me with these downward fist pummels to my chest. They didn't really hurt.. but then I realized she was basically mimicking the act of stabbing me. Kinda scary.
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OwenKealy
11-01-2010 at 08:49 AM.
11-01-2010 at 08:49 AM.
Quote from jmegirl :
I'm so sorry. Comfort That's gotta be the worst kind of situation. Are they together now?
Thanks. Smilie

And yep, they're married. laugh out loud

On the upside, both I and his ex found people who're way better (and more attractive! Big Grin) people than our exes. heh
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Claudia365
11-01-2010 at 09:12 AM.
11-01-2010 at 09:12 AM.
Quote from OwenKealy :
Yikes, that sucks.

My situation was her and one of my best friends. Guy was also married, his wife and mine were friends. Whee!
EEK! The funny thing is that he's with some chick that looks like a damn toad... I just laughed when I saw her and told him that next time choose something better. It's funny but that situation made me stronger and learn not to give a shit about people.
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OwenKealy
11-01-2010 at 09:17 AM.
11-01-2010 at 09:17 AM.
Quote from Claudia365 :
EEK! The funny thing is that he's with some chick that looks like a damn toad... I just laughed when I saw her and told him that next time choose something better. It's funny but that situation made me stronger and learn not to give a shit about people.
laugh out loud

Yeah, it makes you feel good when you're like "Wait. You cheated with them?!"

It's one thing if they're nailing someone who's really hot. But when it's someone who only showers once a week? Ew. laugh out loud
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Claudia365
11-01-2010 at 09:26 AM.
11-01-2010 at 09:26 AM.
Quote from OwenKealy :
laugh out loud

Yeah, it makes you feel good when you're like "Wait. You cheated with them?!"

It's one thing if they're nailing someone who's really hot. But when it's someone who only showers once a week? Ew. laugh out loud
Hell yeah...He gets mad when guys hit on me in front of him. I tell guys, "oh his just my ex, I'm single". He got so mad once that I think he wanted to slap me but he knows better than to lay a finger on me because I'll chop it off..laugh out loudnod
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Titansfan1234
11-01-2010 at 09:34 AM.
11-01-2010 at 09:34 AM.
Quote from OwenKealy :
Thanks. Smilie

And yep, they're married. laugh out loud

On the upside, both I and his ex found people who're way better (and more attractive! Big Grin) people than our exes. heh
Each other?
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itxtwhlstdrvng
11-01-2010 at 09:35 AM.
11-01-2010 at 09:35 AM.
Quote from jmegirl :
i'm just saying, i would definitely be more hurt to find out my husband was having an emotional, non-physical relationship with another woman. if i found out he was just being physical and didn't care about her, it wouldn't hurt so much. Dontknow
See, I was looking at the non-physical relationship as kind of fantasy make believe type thing. I imagine girls do it all the time because they like the attention. Guys on the other hand would almost always do it with a legit sexual intention.

That's why I say 5-6 on the flirting. If she had a legit thing for some guy and they had this whole secret emotional relationship.. then I'm with you. It's over and she can have him.
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Titansfan1234
11-01-2010 at 09:37 AM.
11-01-2010 at 09:37 AM.
Women are sneaky, men are stupid.
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OwenKealy
11-01-2010 at 09:49 AM.
11-01-2010 at 09:49 AM.
Quote from Claudia365 :
Hell yeah...He gets mad when guys hit on me in front of him. I tell guys, "oh his just my ex, I'm single". He got so mad once that I think he wanted to slap me but he knows better than to lay a finger on me because I'll chop it off..laugh out loudnod
Nice, well played! laugh out loud

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Each other?
Yep. There's the extra-funny factor that the dude looks like a pedophile in their wedding pictures.
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